My first post. I agree firmly with Lito and Tech. I feel absolutely nothing with a condom on. When I tried sex with my first girlfriend, I thought I was nervous or there was something wrong with me, or that I might be gay but in denial or something. But it was the same thing the one time I did a guy. Both times I had to ask if I was even in them. The guy made it immenantly clear that I was. I don't really have a desire to have sex all the way with a guy. I'd love to go bare cock to cock, speedo or jock bulge to bulge, and massage a guy again, but I'm in a committed relationship. My girlfriend is on the pill, but she's said she doesn't want to have sex with me until I love her. I feel I'm almost there. We've done pretty much everything else. I can definitely see myself married with kids with her, but not right now. She's clean and safe, and so am I. I'm looking forward to, but very nervous about it, but content with what we're doing now for now.