Why men send dick pix to women, and why it misses the note

[Scarletbegonia]

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/women-who-stray/201602/why-men-send-pics-their-junk

Aside from here, I've not gotten unsolicited peen pix.

The article tries to explain the motivation, and why it falls, um, short.

It got me thinking, and I'd rather see the whole picture. I want to see my partner's pleasure, on his face.

Another interesting point was "pre-approval."
Better to be turned down when not in the same room?

 

[BillM]

Great question!!

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I actually haven't had unsolicited dick-pics sent to me anywhere but here that I can remember. I suppose I'm either just lucky or it's because I'm pretty much anti-social. This is literally the Only place a guy actually could send me an unsolicited dick pic. The # of people who have my cell number is under 10, and most of them are women or family. No social media accounts either.

Basically, if a guy outside of this site wanted to show me his dick without consent he'd likely have to do it face to face and risk getting Fucked Up.

Twas an interesting article though..

 

[BillM]

I actually haven't had unsolicited dick-pics sent to me anywhere but here that I can remember. I suppose I'm either just lucky or it's because I'm pretty much anti-social. This is literally the Only place a guy actually could send me an unsolicited dick pic. The # of people who have my cell number is under 10, and most of them are women or family. No social media accounts either.

Basically, if a guy outside of this site wanted to show me his dick without consent he'd likely have to do it face to face and risk getting Fucked Up.

Twas an interesting article though..

You anti-social, that is hard to believe as one of the Sexy Ladies on LPSG!!

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

You anti-social, that is hard to believe as one of the Sexy Ladies on LPSG!!

Well thank you Bill!

It's true though. I'm totally the one everyone thinks is some kind of crazy bitch in person. I'm not warm and approachable in person. Just here

Hell, I can even be an asshole here sometimes lol

 

[BillM]

Hell, I can even be an asshole here sometimes lol

TRUE!! haha

 

[BillM]

Well thank you Bill!

It's true though. I'm totally the one everyone thinks is some kind of crazy bitch in person. I'm not warm and approachable in person. Just here

Hell, I can even be an asshole here sometimes lol

TRUE!! haha

Sexy Lady, You know I am just bantering with you as We all love you on this site and I am the same way with social media, I really only have this and the sister site and NO FACEBOOK or other stuff!! Bill

 

[BIGBULL29]

I would never send a dick pic to a woman. I would send one to a man (for bragging purposes lol in very special circumstances).

The Family Values Network, aka, Fox News, is now dealing with this very issue: Eric Bolling is accused of sending peter pics to women. He's a hog.

I respect women and would never talk "dirty" to one without really, really knowing one. I would never say to a woman I barely know: I like lezzy porn, big tits, etc.

For me, my big dick obsession is dude thing and only involves other males (competitive thing). Although it very much turns me on to know a woman likes a big peter, women aren't driving my obsession.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

The few (two?) times I've gotten explicit photos from a sweetie, were semi expected to asked for, and one I'd already taken a through-the-water nude.
It's one of my favorite photos, hands down.

I'd rather have a full nude than disembodied peen.

I shot "Lady Godiva" pictures by request, because he wanted the tease. (Need to send another...he's on the road).
I was a bit let down that his shot was so...impersonal. But, late at night, I got it that lighting is an issue.
He's promised I can shoot more of him. As long as he can shoot me.
(Two shutterbugs means lots of, oh, that gorgeous, hold that thought!)

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Bill- sister site?

 

[BetterFuture]

Bill- sister site?

I think that @BillM is referring to http://www.sexualforums.com/

 

[1098270]

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/women-who-stray/201602/why-men-send-pics-their-junk

Aside from here, I've not gotten unsolicited peen pix.

The article tries to explain the motivation, and why it falls, um, short.

It got me thinking, and I'd rather see the whole picture. I want to see my partner's pleasure, on his face.

Another interesting point was "pre-approval."
Better to be turned down when not in the same room?

Yeah the article does seem reasonable, but it does miss a few obvious (at least to me) points, too.

I think guy who send unsolicited pics, in addition to what the article discusses fall into (but not limited to) one or more of these:

1. Validation of their size and ego: This goes beyond simple exhibitionism. Guys like this either do have large penises, or think they do. They send pics to get a response from a woman of "wow, you are so huge!" That ego boost alone is what they are after. The flip side to that is guys with below average penis sizes, that want an ego boost, and they want to have a response from a woman assuring them their penis isn't that small, looks OK, etc.

2. The fantasy: some guys send dick pics because of the fantasy of a woman seeing it, and "having to have it."

3. Weeny waggery: again beyond exhibitionism, there are just some guys who have a compulsion to show others their penis. Now that laws have cracked down (thankfully) on flashers, etc, sending a random text, snap chat, or email of their penis is the next best thing.

4. Intimidation or intentional harassment: Some guys send a penis pic with the full intent knowing it is unwanted, with the sole intent of harassing someone, or even intimidating them. It could be along the lines of wanting to intentionally disgust a woman, a primal way of saying "i'm the boss because I have the biggest wang," to something more nefarious as to imply they have a penis that could be used to hurt in some way.

 

[EllieP]

I actually have received weenie pics on my phone from strangers a couple of times. Instead of noting the numbers I just reflexively delete them immediately.

And, of course, I've received my share on here that I promptly delete as well.

I'm a firm believer that their subconscious believes that I might, just might, respond in kind, which we all know is not gonna happen - at least not by me.

 

[chicagosam]

There used to be a thread in Women's Issues by Manlybanisters or Dolfette titled Your Dick Is Not. Woman's Issue. It eventually became a stickie but has since disappeared. It was a classic.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I have to admit, I've been thinking Anthony Wiener.

 

[881393]

I think it's from a desire for approval. The dudes want the chick to like them, and if a girl sending you nudes would work, why not sending pics of you dick?

Also I think dudes are a lot more visual, in terms of what turns them on. I think they think chicks will like seeing their dick and then want it. And thus successfully winning this woman's approval, and scoring the vageen.

There's a line from the movie Superbad near the beginning.

"I wish I lived in a world where chicks liked to stare at dicks"

 

[693987]

You think "dudes are a lot more visual"

And yet..........

https://www.lpsg.com/threads/visual-stimulation-during-sex.477751/

I still have immense distaste for unsolicited nude photos of any sort

 

[sizehungry]

Just an another form of " flashing " from where i sit . The only time i'd do it , is if i still had my 20 year old , taut body , and my girl asked me to do it for her . Received an unsolicited " pussy pic " a while back , and while some may think it odd , i was , indeed , mildly offended . Strange , because i absolutely adore " pussy , vagina , or whatever " .

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I think it's from a desire for approval. The dudes want the chick to like them, and if a girl sending you nudes would work, why not sending pics of you dick?

Also I think dudes are a lot more visual, in terms of what turns them on. I think they think chicks will like seeing their dick and then want it. And thus successfully winning this woman's approval, and scoring the vageen.

There's a line from the movie Superbad near the beginning.

"I wish I lived in a world where chicks liked to stare at dicks"

I think the difference is the close up of a peen versus a nude, it partially nude human. (Assuming the pair were consenting to the exchange)

I'd already seen -and more- the peen in the pix I mentioned upthread. But, not in great light, so it was, um, educational. Honestly, my first thought was "what nice pubic hair."
I even responded that I'd like to rake my fingers through it.
(I also thought, I think I once had a cubanesis that looked like that. Yep, I compared his head to a psychedelic mushroom. In my defense, I really like mushrooms. Yes, I think too much.)

 

[881393]

(I also thought, I think I once had a cubanesis that looked like that. Yep, I compared his head to a psychedelic mushroom. In my defense, I really like mushrooms. Yes, I think too much.)

Wow you really know how to charm a guy hahah