Personally, I don't mind if a woman likes small, medium or large penis (or any size inbetween). In fact, I like to see a woman express an honest opinion about sexual (or other) matters - without worrying about a man's feelings. I don't wish to sound as though I'm speaking for all women (or men), but in my experience, some women mute their opinion/feelings to 'protect' the man in their life from something which may or may not hurt him. I've experienced this myself. Only after discussing issues with the lady, did the truth come out. This could include size, any bedroom issues or even what they are looking for in the relationship long-term. Some men are hurt if they find they are not bringing their partner to orgasm, or pleasing them as well as they have been in the past. It can be because of this that some women (on occasion) fake orgasms or tell a half-truth about their personal size preference to the man, to protect his bruised ego - knowing that he won't fully understand and be hurt. Women, on the whole, can see this and are more mature in that way. (Bear with me, this is on-topic. :tongue
It's because of the ego that he (the hypothetical man) can't function without his partner saying, "Yes, everything is perfect in our sex-life." So, when a lady does say something along the lines of, "Actually, I prefer a penis to be above-average, but you still do more than enough to please me." He can't take it, perhaps wrongly assumes that she is lying about the 'more than enough to please me' part and resorts to name-calling. (Again, this is why some women find it easier in the long-run to tell a 'white-lie'.) Also, a larger penis isn't something I wish for - at all. But, through ignorance or negative past-experience; a man may believe a larger penis to be automatically better, which (in their mind) is confirmed when confronted with honesty from a particular woman. That belief then gets generalised (all women get tarred with the same brush) and spreads to friends etc. I can't be exact, but I'm guessing only a minority of men are this way, but from what I have seen it's often that sub-section of men with the 'labelling habits' - brought about by feelings of inadequacy.
Anything that comes across as sexist or poorly-explained in my post, please point it out. I'll try to explain it. :smile: