why not everyday?

[Gab_Stone]

Hey ladies! And men too I guess. Some people either refuse sex or just don't want to have sex with their partners often. They don't have time, don't have the energy, or some other excuse. In my view, if you care about them and their needs and wants, then why not just have sex with them? It's not like its promiscuous if its with the same person. And lets face it, it doesn't take much energy to have sex with someone. Just some slow love making can be really relaxing and intimate. Hell just 15 min a day seems to me like a great time to connect and show some of those feelings we don't always make time for. So why not? What's wrong with just having some good love making time everyday? What do you have better to do? Watch a game show?

 

[9incut]

I hear ya.

 

[crescendo69]

Drugs and drinking, for some.

 

[crescendo69]

But not me.:smile:

 

[snoozan]

my husband and i have very compatible libidos. we simply aren't a once-a-day couple and don't want or like it that way. we also have a child, family, and jobs which make it even harder. it can be really hard to have sex when you can't even keep your eyelids propped open.

 

[SpeedoMike]

depression can be a cause of non-interest in sex and other pleasurable things. same may happen as a side effect of medications...

 

[ranredd]

You know people tend to give all of these same excuses for jobs kids etc when it comes to sex. It seems to be the same with their fitness. For some reason they think it's better and easier to sit at home and do nothing and just go through the motions of jobs and come home and veg out. I mean, he's right when he says it doesn't take much. You just have to be consistent. I mean it's nothing but a choice of effort. Everybody CAN have sex. They just CHOOSE not put forth the energy. It's frustrating to think of things like that.

 

[9incut]

Also sex can be a release for these frustrations. But my voice is but a whisper in the wind.

 

[Gab_Stone]

I had this girlfriend once. She had a fairly low libido. She had an unending line of excuses. From stress, to mood, to medical reasons. It came to a point where I just said I didn't want to have sex anymore because it was just too hard for me to go with the occasional session which lasted a short amount of time. It just wasn't coming close to fullfilling my needs. She decided to pick up the pace. Let me tell you. It is a matter of choice and putting forth the effort! We started having sex much more often. And as we had more sex, she got more into it. After a decent amount of foreplay she was wet as a hydrant and fucking like a pornstar on extacy! Her whole personality changed in bed. She turned into this dirty talking, olympic fuck machine. It was great and led to some of the best and most hardcore sex ever! The more she gave it a chance to be part of her life, the more she liked it and wanted it.

 

[9incut]

I guess I'm just weird. I don't want to feel like I'm begging for it either. If I keep pressuring, I feel like he's doing it because he feels obligated. Then it's no fun for me. I'm not saying we don't get intimate, just not as much as I would like.

 

[maestro071]

Why not several times every day?

 

[Lito]

I could settle for 3 or 4 times a week. But that's me =D

 

[art]

My gf and I are both very horny individuals. If we're both in town, we'll often have sex two, three, sometimes four times a day.

I like sex when I first wake up, before I stumble into the shower. After a hard day at work, I like nothing better than screwing when I walk in the door. And fucking at night is a good prelude to a sound sleep.

And my gf agrees.

 

[8.5x6]

My gf and I are both very horny individuals. If we're both in town, we'll often have sex two, three, sometimes four times a day.

I like sex when I first wake up, before I stumble into the shower. After a hard day at work, I like nothing better than screwing when I walk in the door. And fucking at night is a good prelude to a sound sleep.

And my gf agrees.

Amen to that.

 

[Principessa]

Hey ladies! And men too I guess. Some people either refuse sex or just don't want to have sex with their partners often. They don't have time, don't have the energy, or some other excuse. In my view, if you care about them and their needs and wants, then why not just have sex with them? It's not like its promiscuous if its with the same person. And lets face it, it doesn't take much energy to have sex with someone. Just some slow love making can be really relaxing and intimate. Hell just 15 min a day seems to me like a great time to connect and show some of those feelings we don't always make time for. So why not? What's wrong with just having some good love making time everyday? What do you have better to do? Watch a game show?

Sounds like you are in a relationship with someone who has a vastly different sex drive than your own.:frown1: I don't know what to tell you as I have been there myself. Years ago I went from dating one man who thought I bordered on frigid; to one who thought I was a nymphomaniac. I don't think I'm a nympho but I definetely had a higher sex drive than he did. Do you have any idea how annoying it is to have to beg your bf for sex, only to settle for a blowjob. Don't get me wrong, I love sucking dick but when you are in the mood for penetration nothing else can be substituted.:redface:

 

[Mr. Snakey]

Sometimes ya gotta sneek up on it:wink:

 

[ntstatic]

I had this girlfriend once. She had a fairly low libido. She had an unending line of excuses. From stress, to mood, to medical reasons. It came to a point where I just said I didn't want to have sex anymore because it was just too hard for me to go with the occasional session which lasted a short amount of time. It just wasn't coming close to fullfilling my needs. She decided to pick up the pace. Let me tell you. It is a matter of choice and putting forth the effort! We started having sex much more often. And as we had more sex, she got more into it. After a decent amount of foreplay she was wet as a hydrant and fucking like a pornstar on extacy! Her whole personality changed in bed. She turned into this dirty talking, olympic fuck machine. It was great and led to some of the best and most hardcore sex ever! The more she gave it a chance to be part of her life, the more she liked it and wanted it.

similar situation with me and i wish i could end it like you did