I don't know where to begin & it's gonna be long but here it goes.. I use to hang out with this guys who was about 7-8 years older than me, his family & my family were very close and pretty much we would see them almost everyday. One day he asked if I wanted to play a game and we ended up messing around with eachother, as time went one it turned in something deeper, more on an emotional level rather than intimate/physical, the connection whe had was incredible. As he and I got older we started hanging out less & less and pretty much went our separate ways but I could not stop thinking about the way he smelled or the touch of his hands or the way his lips touched mine. About a year later I went with my mom to his mom's house and I saw his car sitting outside and my heart fluttered, I started to sweat & I actually contemplated not going inside even though I wanted to see him. As my mom sat down and I stood in the kitchen she said that he enlisted in the army and was in Iraq...I was really upset that he didn't say goodbye. A couple of years passed and I went to his mother's birthday party and he was there, I couldn't believe my eye and I was overcame by emotions. He came up to me and said "Hello" and introduced me to his wife he married in Japan and I cried for weeks. I ended up getting married and moving away and started my own life. When I would visit my mom, sometimes he would be passing by in his car and he would wave and I could feel my heart flutter again. Even though we were on two separate paths and had our own thing going on he always had a piece of my heart and I've never really forgot about him. One day I came across his profile on Myspace and messaged him saying that "I hope everything is going well and if you ever want to get a bite to eat, here's my number." and he replied " Sure, I'll let you know" but I never heard or seen him again in over 3 years. A couple of days ago I got home from work and I got a text on my phone saying "Is this still ( my name) phone number?" I replied " Yes" and he said "So it is you (and said the nickname that he had for me) ", My heart dropped. I thought it was a joke but when he said my nickname I knew it was him. We texted back and forth asking how the other was doing, he sent me a picture of his new dog and and said he bought a house in Corona a that I should stop by one day. I texted back and said "For sure, let me know when" and he replied "(His wife's name) is going back to Japan for three weeks and I'll have alot of time on my hands" and I texted back "ok" and he replied "got to eat dinner talk later". I'm still a alittle confused on why did he respond 3 years later and why did he wait until now. Can anyone give me their input and what they think about it? What should I do? Thanks.