I just accidently found this site and registered because I found it a little disturbing. I have a larger penis but not a monster type (like some of the videos and pictures -- some of which seem a litle fake). I thought this site would be more focused on providing support related to some of the problems of having a larger penis. But it seems like it more focused on celebrating a larger penis and creating envy. Perhaps this is not what an introduction is suppose to be about but why is there so much envy and celebration toward larger penises?
Why penis envy?
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There are not too many real problems with having either a bigger or smaller penis.
The biggest issues are in the mind of the owner of the penis in question.
I am involved in support groups for both small and large, and at the end of the day, it's a "guy thing".
Women on both sites pretty much tell the guys to get over themselves
But society is run by men, societal norms say bigger is better, and competition is unavoidable.
The biggest issues are in the mind of the owner of the penis in question.
I am involved in support groups for both small and large, and at the end of the day, it's a "guy thing".
Women on both sites pretty much tell the guys to get over themselves
But society is run by men, societal norms say bigger is better, and competition is unavoidable.
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I am truly curious what the search phrase was that led you here....? (obviously youre not new to forums...what with the custom type and font size...) What exactly were you hoping to find here?
LPSG is only as good as it's "members..."
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im nowhere near as hung as the average in this community, but im slowly learning to accept it, mostly because although big penises are celebrated here, small ones are not scorned, and even looked up at in some ways,
Having been a member of lpsg since Oct of '00 I can assure you that support is here in many ways. I am not even average to start with and have been welcomed and treated with respect most of the time, there are the occational times. Most men here want support dealing with issues of showing in clothing, bathing attire, sex, etc. We discuss these issues openly and frankly. Men like me have no idea how to deal with a larger than normal penis, but we still offer support to those who do.
Stick around and look around many of us have our heads on our shoulders and speak with brains engaged. Welcome sir.
Stick around and look around many of us have our heads on our shoulders and speak with brains engaged. Welcome sir.
I am truly curious what the search phrase was that led you here....? (obviously youre not new to forums...what with the custom type and font size...) What exactly were you hoping to find here?
LPSG is only as good as it's "members..."
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I have an interests in nude beaches, but am worried about getting an erection if I attended one. So I simply googled erections on nude beaches. It was not on the first page, but there was a one minute video I clicked on of a black man getting an erection on a mixed clothing beach by a woman. And I have to admit, I was disturbed by the video because of (1) the stereotypes it reinforces of Black men having huge erections (and it was pretty huge) and how Black men get sexually objectified and (2) how the sites title is miss-leading (it seems like most threads including the video I watched) is more focused on creating envy of size than on support men who are larger.
There's not really any drawbacks of having a big dick unless you're so insanely big that some women refuse to have sex with you, which you admitted that isn't the case for you, so what's the problem...
Laffy123, I envy you. I would never go to a nudist beach, not because I'm afraid of getting an erection, but because I'm afraid of being laughed at....I'm an extreme "grower" (see my pics)...and my dick looks tiny when not erect!
And BTW. there are some wonderful women here at LPSG, who have given me great support, and the confidence (Thank you Mme. Rouge) to post photos of my not very huge dick.
Welcome. Enjoy.
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Yep I am envious of so many of the ones I see...... I am not endowed... as you can see in the pics in my profile..... I learned a long time ago that I was never going to be endowed... My Brother, My Cousin and my 3 boys are endowed..... I would not want some of the monster cocks I see here or other places, even in real life. I think there is a time when Extra Large is WAY too much.... but when I see a nice cock in the 7 to 9" range I can not help but think how much I wish it was mine. Just my thought.....
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Although there are some physical problems with having a larger penis (like it moving in everyday life) I think the biggest problem with having a larger penis is the psychological affect it has on the person and others. It causes people to sexually objectify themselves. For whatever reason, I cant find the video on LPSG but I found another website that is dedicated to a discussion of this event (see link below) a man going up to a married women and clearly showing off. Being that he is black, in my mind it support a sexual objectifying stereotype.
But if you read the discussion the issue is of a black man showing off and how the woman responds and the envy within all of the comments. Some think she cant help herself, others think she is uninterested (my person view is that is does not care) but the issue is clearly about envy and showing off. And I think men with larger penises really begin to define self-worth by their big member!! Sad!
http://abmwmw.blogspot.com/2011/02/black-man-chats-up-married-woman-on.html?zx=e8c88c299c6956e5
its odd...I belong to an online support group for low power consumption computers and also a support group for pot growers. guess what most of the members at those sites posts are mostly about? "look at my efficient computer!" and "check out my rad plants!" and still people come there and join for the support that's also available.
joining an adult sex site and then complaining cause you dislike posts about fantasies like cuckolding, is actually more offensive than whatever kinky shit people choose to get off on could ever be.
joining an adult sex site and then complaining cause you dislike posts about fantasies like cuckolding, is actually more offensive than whatever kinky shit people choose to get off on could ever be.
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There are not too many real problems with having either a bigger or smaller penis.
The biggest issues are in the mind of the owner of the penis in question.
I am involved in support groups for both small and large, and at the end of the day, it's a "guy thing".
Women on both sites pretty much tell the guys to get over themselves
But society is run by men, societal norms say bigger is better, and competition is unavoidable.
Well said.
Welcome to the site, enjoy LPSG for it's constructive assets and mature adult community where you may find unbiased advise from it's members (experienced/sophmore) Unfortunately, yes there are stereo types both racial and endowment related in society, a site like this I feel is designed to help break the aforementioned via open honest communication. I also feel that if I were to live my life feeling threatened by stereotypes that encompass my sexual preference, size, and race; I would be letting those inexperienced opinions control my emotions, which certainly was the case from my youth. This site is about accepting yourself first then excepting others, heck you might even bust a couple loads out or meet someone who you enjoy (man/woman/trans) chatting with via message correspondence, web cam or meet up in real life! Just use disgression and enter with a light heart. Cheers : )
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