The DM rule is asking for content to be sent/DM or telling folks to DM for content. Mostly as a spam killer. I've waded into threads just to delete page after page of "DM/send me" posts. Mod rage is real.
Sending another member is lawful good unless the content sent is a violation of ToS. Also unsolicited dick pics are a no-no.
Telegram is a messenger service. Lots of content traded, groups and the like. Forbidden on LPSG. And another spam generator. One mention of TG spawn 30 "add me" posts.
Ask forums. Mods run on reports, we don't really patrol for rule breakers. We might find them while off duty fucking around on the site, which is why AaW s so policed. Two Mods are regular posters there and at least two Mods are regular visitors. Ya know the ladies there, they report errant posters.
@LaFemme wrote the sticky for AaW based on here experience as a user and as a Mod. She knows her way around Coven Country.
I'm not a frequent visitor to the various AaM forums. Mostly so I don't have to ban myself for posting in the wrong Ask Forum. But any posts that don't belong can be reported and should be deleted.
Maybe a thread in the general Ask a Man thread where dudes can chime in on what needs improving or what's lacking? It would help get a FAQ/guideline together and stickies at the top.
All the subs kinda have their own vibe. It would be cool to enforce the rules without stripping the personality of the forum.