I agree, I was a total cunt in that thread, I don't however agree to having a holier than thou attitude, making any comments that could be read as me claiming to be great, though I do frequently have bad feelings towards people, fleeting as those feelings are.
What can I say though? She hit a nerve, made a comment I found vile and baseless and made the post in such a way as to leave me feeling highly offended by the implications.
Had she left it at that, I'd have kept my mouth shut, she didn't though... She continued to disregard any and all opinions that "sided" with her BF and kept flogging the same dead horse several weren't buying in the hopes others would run to her rescue.
On the wider topic though:
People will get "cunty" in all sections of the forum, this one however is very different for several reasons...
"Some" of the men feel a sense of entitlement - We're women, we're here and this area is flooded with us. They clearly feel we are here to confirm any fantasy or fiction they've drummed up and failing that at the very least we should do everything we can and then some to keep their cocks hard.
"Some" of the women also feel a sense of entitlement - We're women, in a male dominated forum and we've been given a space to collectively talk about our issues. They feel that men should conform to their ideas of what does and doesn't belong here with little to no acknowledgement for the fact that most of them can't even agree that between themselves.
"Some" of the men, outside of the above male group have little to nothing to add to this section other than to swoop in and defend anything and everything the women have to say - They go above and beyond to be seen as the saviour of the women folk, giving them delusions of grandeur, never calling out the bullshit... Anything in the hopes of becoming one of the "chosen few"
When you add to this the issues caused by fake women who crawl all over the place spewing wank fodder for all, and the attention seekers who follow suit and you're left with a bunch of real women, not only feeling a little pissed that they're expected to behave just like those attention seekers and fakes, but having to defend every opinion that doesn't meet those required standards all the while feeling rather self-important and untouchable thanks to the delusions foisted upon them by others... It's pretty easy to see "why so angry?" and that no one side is to blame.
Hey, not trying to stir up shit here but if I am included in this group, I will set the record straight that I have no desire to become one of the
"chosen few". In a wonderful (the best so far) relationship for about nine years with a woman who totally does it for me.
I ain't here for no hookups, or to become an "internet stud" or whatever. My intention was not to "swoop in and defend." I personally thought the OP was out of line and happened to speak up
The main reason I am on this forum is I just happen to like sex with my woman and any advantage I can get to make it better I will seek out. There is a lot of great conversations and advice and tips I've picked up here as well as other forums.
Just get sick of practically every forum I go to always seems to have a "is my dick big enough" thread at one point or another. Hell, a scale modeling forum I participate at had one and this site is all guys and the damn thread turned into a ninety-six page monster with every guy spouting how they knew how woman felt on the issue. No one person can speak on behalf of how every other person feels about something. That's ludicrious and contrary to common sense.
And yes this is a sexually orientated site, so this discussion will come up, but wtf? If you ask a question for opinions, expect them. Don't get all pissed off if they are not the answers you are expecting. Piss somebody off don't be surprised if they get pissed back at you.
And I will say about the creepy behavior thread. Yes, the woman was acting strangely, but come on. This couple couldn't communicate with the woman. Maybe she had to flee a bad situation and thought the couple were friendly and that's what she needed at the moment. They had no fucking clue, judging a book by it's cover is a guaranteed way to miss out on a lot in life.
And when I read the part about being her being Romanian and the woman assuming she was a pickpocket, the first thing I thought was "stereotyping." Basically prejudging one individual because of generalizations of one group. Same as saying everyone with red hair naturally has a bad temper, everyone who lives in the southern part of the US is backwards and white trash, everyone who...etc. etc.
Never met anyone from Romania, or even Gypsy. But for sure would never assume they were automatically a criminal. Not everyone from Italy is connected to the mob, nor everyone from Poland is stupid, nor everyone from...etc. etc.
So I wall call out bullshit on that. It was narrow-minded thinking, and unfortunately these backwards irrational attitudes polarizes people all over the world to this day.
Fuck it, this section is Women's Issues. I ain't responding on anything here anymore. In fact, there are a few other forums I attend where there are strictly women sections where guys are actually not allowed to respond, makes sense to me. It should have been like that in the first place. Especially since most forums (especially sex orientated) the woman are usually in the minority.
Peace to all, it would make for a better world.