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Well, everyone knows that the easiest way to turn on a woman on LPSG is to call her a cunt. I know I'm all wet right now. Your wink at me didn't hurt, either.

[Discombobulated. Confused. Snappy iro-sarc fading in the wake of petite's use of graphic/naughty/sexy language in conjunction with mild flattery. "Funny" feeling in loins overtakes wit and higher* brain functioning. Confused. Aroused?Reset........reset.........reset.........reset..........]












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I live by the adage that "strong language is an expression of a weak mind" no matter who or what is doing the expressing, so consider the source, laugh it off and move on and don't waste your time getting "angry" because that's the intent of the sender. Replying is one thing, but getting angry is a loss of control and that's not good for anybody........and then you sink to the other person's level/intellect/mind set.
 

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One common theme I've observed after reading posts on this board for years is really sarcastic, intolerant, angry women. I understand that many guys on this site have a size fetish and project that on women implicitly in their questions, but are they ever going to realize that is what a good portion of guys on this site are into? I've been a part of many other co-ed forums but this one is easily the most angry and argumentative. Ladies, is humiliation a part of the whole "size" culture? Is that why you tend to beat up on people that ask questions about how you feel or act in relation to penis size? I'm not trying to exaggerate, but the cunty-ness of women on this board is two orders of magnitude greater than any other forum.

Have been lurking here for months and just recently joined but, wow, OP, I just had to chime in on this.

This is just based on observations on this forum as well as others...(and I've never really noticed anyone here being "cunty" until they were first treated that way themselves).

Woman get told they are lying just to make men feel better if they say size doesn't matter. (Hard to believe, but yes, out of the billions and billions of woman in the world, a few of them might not actually base an entire relationship on an appendage).

They get called shallow or "sluts' or "cunts" (hate that word) if they have a preference for a bigger dick (which there is nothing wrong with, everyone has preferences, that's what makes them unique, and you can't fault someone for being honest).

Who wouldn't get fucking sick and tired of this already dead horse being beaten over and over and over...

It's like this, if someone asked you a question and you answered honestly, wouldn't it piss you off if the person asking told you that you were lying? Or told you what you were actually thinking? Or insulted you because you did not give the response they were seeking?

Being asked for your opinion and than being told it is basically worthless would make anybody rightfully hostile.
 
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Have been lurking here for months and just recently joined but, wow, OP, I just had to chime in on this.

This is just based on observations on this forum as well as others...(and I've never really noticed anyone here being "cunty" until they were first treated that way themselves).

Woman get told they are lying just to make men feel better if they say size doesn't matter. (Hard to believe, but yes, out of the billions and billions of woman in the world, a few of them might not actually base an entire relationship on an appendage).

They get called shallow or "sluts' or "cunts" (hate that word) if they have a preference for a bigger dick (which there is nothing wrong with, everyone has preferences, that's what makes them unique, and you can't fault someone for being honest).

Who wouldn't get fucking sick and tired of this already dead horse being beaten over and over and over...

It's like this, if someone asked you a question and you answered honestly, wouldn't it piss you off if the person asking told you that you were lying? Or told you what you were actually thinking? Or insulted you because you did not give the response they were seeking?

Being asked for your opinion and than being told it is basically worthless would make anybody rightfully hostile.

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i enjoy the "cunty-ness" it makes for an interesting read. and i like spunky women, theyre just giving genuine reactions.

you want a forum full of fantasy replies? that would be boring as fuck. and isnt that what the dudes pretending to be women are for?

also, katt is frickin hot... i know thats a bit off topic, but that was my first thought from scrolling through this thread. lol
 

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I agree with the message of this topic. It's not necessarily cuntiness/anger but also the "holer than thou" politcal correctness that they often spout.

Like in the recent thread made by ConstantComment (think that was her name) about a "creepy" woman at the airport. Most of the women called her racist and basically verbally spat on her ie 'How could you?', 'You're so awful, I'm so great! I have no bad feelings towards anyone ever!'.

That's not usual though; normally it's women shitting foul words on unsuspecting men.

Which is a shame because some of the threads were viable and interesting before certain women squatted over them and defectated all up in them.

There is a difference between "spunky/feisty" and a woman who is just forever having PMT/PMS and is on some sort of mission to prove to the internetz how much better she is than you and that she is a really great person with the greatest and most noble of morals.

But how great of a person are you when you write a 1000 word tirade ripping a guy to pieces for having the misfortune to post a thread in "Women's Issues"?

Some of you just need to the heck. And clam your tits.
 

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I agree with the message of this topic. It's not necessarily cuntiness/anger but also the "holer than thou" politcal correctness that they often spout.

Like in the recent thread made by ConstantComment (think that was her name) about a "creepy" woman at the airport. Most of the women called her racist and basically verbally spat on her ie 'How could you?', 'You're so awful, I'm so great! I have no bad feelings towards anyone ever!'.

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Liar. Six women responded to the thread. One lit into her. Two were on the fence regarding the disagreement between ConstantComment and her guy about whether she was a racist, but were generally supportive of her. Three disagreed with her, but were pretty gentle about it. She asked a question, she got answers; most of them, even the ones which disagreed with her, were not mean-spirited. This is a fact anyone can check for themselves. Sell that shit elsewhere.
 

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Jeez, for the most part I thought it was the men who were the harshest towards Constant Comment! Have you even read what they had to say? Maybe Incocknito is under the mistaken impression that the men's posts are posts by women?
 

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Like in the recent thread made by ConstantComment (think that was her name) about a "creepy" woman at the airport. Most of the women called her racist and basically verbally spat on her ie 'How could you?', 'You're so awful, I'm so great! I have no bad feelings towards anyone ever!'.

I agree, I was a total cunt in that thread, I don't however agree to having a holier than thou attitude, making any comments that could be read as me claiming to be great, though I do frequently have bad feelings towards people, fleeting as those feelings are.

What can I say though? She hit a nerve, made a comment I found vile and baseless and made the post in such a way as to leave me feeling highly offended by the implications.

Had she left it at that, I'd have kept my mouth shut, she didn't though... She continued to disregard any and all opinions that "sided" with her BF and kept flogging the same dead horse several weren't buying in the hopes others would run to her rescue.

On the wider topic though:

People will get "cunty" in all sections of the forum, this one however is very different for several reasons...

"Some" of the men feel a sense of entitlement - We're women, we're here and this area is flooded with us. They clearly feel we are here to confirm any fantasy or fiction they've drummed up and failing that at the very least we should do everything we can and then some to keep their cocks hard.

"Some" of the women also feel a sense of entitlement - We're women, in a male dominated forum and we've been given a space to collectively talk about our issues. They feel that men should conform to their ideas of what does and doesn't belong here with little to no acknowledgement for the fact that most of them can't even agree that between themselves.

"Some" of the men, outside of the above male group have little to nothing to add to this section other than to swoop in and defend anything and everything the women have to say - They go above and beyond to be seen as the saviour of the women folk, giving them delusions of grandeur, never calling out the bullshit... Anything in the hopes of becoming one of the "chosen few"

When you add to this the issues caused by fake women who crawl all over the place spewing wank fodder for all, and the attention seekers who follow suit and you're left with a bunch of real women, not only feeling a little pissed that they're expected to behave just like those attention seekers and fakes, but having to defend every opinion that doesn't meet those required standards all the while feeling rather self-important and untouchable thanks to the delusions foisted upon them by others... It's pretty easy to see "why so angry?" and that no one side is to blame.
 

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http://www.lpsg.org/239992-boyfriend-taking-a-side-against.html#post3388842

Subgirrl - "Racist"

http://www.lpsg.org/239992-boyfriend-taking-a-side-against.html#post3388961

AlteredEgo - "Xenophobic"

http://www.lpsg.org/239992-boyfriend-taking-a-side-against-2.html#post3389273

Gillette - "Racist"

http://www.lpsg.org/239992-boyfriend-taking-a-side-against-2.html#post3389380

Acontium - "Head stuck so far up your racist ass"

Granted, this wasn't the most abusive assault; probably because it was aimed at another woman. The important thing to note here is that I am not a liar.

You are generally more venomous towards the menfolk, however.
 

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You forgot me. I also said that it was racist. Clearly I must have been awful towards her. :rolleyes:

Picking out one word out of a person's post hardly spells out that the entire post was harsh or mean or holier than thou. An you were specifically making a statement comparing how women behave differently than men, using as an example a thread where I believe that the men have been harsher to the OP than the women have been. That implies that you're much more unfair to the womenfolk of LPSG than you are to the men here. I'm afraid that your example has backfired.
 
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http://www.lpsg.org/239992-boyfriend-taking-a-side-against.html#post3388842

Subgirrl - "Racist"

http://www.lpsg.org/239992-boyfriend-taking-a-side-against.html#post3388961

AlteredEgo - "Xenophobic"

http://www.lpsg.org/239992-boyfriend-taking-a-side-against-2.html#post3389273

Gillette - "Racist"

http://www.lpsg.org/239992-boyfriend-taking-a-side-against-2.html#post3389380

Acontium - "Head stuck so far up your racist ass"

Granted, this wasn't the most abusive assault; probably because it was aimed at another woman. The important thing to note here is that I am not a liar.

You are generally more venomous towards the menfolk, however.
You said all of the women verbally shat on her. One post from a female in that thread could be construed that way. One. Aconitum owns what she wrote, so there's no need for any of the rest of us to claim it. Gillette's was icy, but not impolite. Mine and subgirl's posts simply answered the question asked, in agreement with the boyfriend in question, and in disagreement with ConstantComment. If the question asked is "Is this racist?" Answers which say, "Yes, it's racist." and perhaps go on to politely explain why are not rude, cunty, and are certainly NOT verbally spitting on her.

Moreover, submissivegirl and petite were both on the fence. submissivegirl said what ConstantComment said was a stereotyping remark, that she's made similar herself, and she trusts that CC means well. I'm paraphrasing from memory here, but I don't think I'm off the mark. petite said she and TheBoyfriend couldn't agree on what to think of the story. She went on to say that she felt CC was justified because the woman was creepy before she made her racist statement. She went further to make excuses for her that would require interpreting facts that we were not actually explicitly given; something which requires a very empathetic approach to the situation. Her post was very supportive. TattooedMamaMeg likened CC to her own beloved, and implied that as a parallel, if he was a wonderful person, despite making similar snap judgments, that she was sure CC was too, and that perhaps her boyfriend felt about her the way TattooedMamaMeg feels about her guy.

You said most of the women called her racist, and verbally spat on her. Not only were fully half of the women in that thread supportive of her, but two thirds of the ones who disagreed with her were polite about it. You're a fucking liar. Busted.

As a side note, I agree with everything Aconitum just said in this thread. I swear I'm not kissing your ass, Acon. It's just all true.
 
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I agree, I was a total cunt in that thread, I don't however agree to having a holier than thou attitude, making any comments that could be read as me claiming to be great, though I do frequently have bad feelings towards people, fleeting as those feelings are.

What can I say though? She hit a nerve, made a comment I found vile and baseless and made the post in such a way as to leave me feeling highly offended by the implications.

Had she left it at that, I'd have kept my mouth shut, she didn't though... She continued to disregard any and all opinions that "sided" with her BF and kept flogging the same dead horse several weren't buying in the hopes others would run to her rescue.

On the wider topic though:

People will get "cunty" in all sections of the forum, this one however is very different for several reasons...

"Some" of the men feel a sense of entitlement - We're women, we're here and this area is flooded with us. They clearly feel we are here to confirm any fantasy or fiction they've drummed up and failing that at the very least we should do everything we can and then some to keep their cocks hard.

"Some" of the women also feel a sense of entitlement - We're women, in a male dominated forum and we've been given a space to collectively talk about our issues. They feel that men should conform to their ideas of what does and doesn't belong here with little to no acknowledgement for the fact that most of them can't even agree that between themselves.

"Some" of the men, outside of the above male group have little to nothing to add to this section other than to swoop in and defend anything and everything the women have to say - They go above and beyond to be seen as the saviour of the women folk, giving them delusions of grandeur, never calling out the bullshit... Anything in the hopes of becoming one of the "chosen few"

When you add to this the issues caused by fake women who crawl all over the place spewing wank fodder for all, and the attention seekers who follow suit and you're left with a bunch of real women, not only feeling a little pissed that they're expected to behave just like those attention seekers and fakes, but having to defend every opinion that doesn't meet those required standards all the while feeling rather self-important and untouchable thanks to the delusions foisted upon them by others... It's pretty easy to see "why so angry?" and that no one side is to blame.

Hey, not trying to stir up shit here but if I am included in this group, I will set the record straight that I have no desire to become one of the "chosen few". In a wonderful (the best so far) relationship for about nine years with a woman who totally does it for me.

I ain't here for no hookups, or to become an "internet stud" or whatever. My intention was not to "swoop in and defend." I personally thought the OP was out of line and happened to speak up

The main reason I am on this forum is I just happen to like sex with my woman and any advantage I can get to make it better I will seek out. There is a lot of great conversations and advice and tips I've picked up here as well as other forums.

Just get sick of practically every forum I go to always seems to have a "is my dick big enough" thread at one point or another. Hell, a scale modeling forum I participate at had one and this site is all guys and the damn thread turned into a ninety-six page monster with every guy spouting how they knew how woman felt on the issue. No one person can speak on behalf of how every other person feels about something. That's ludicrious and contrary to common sense.

And yes this is a sexually orientated site, so this discussion will come up, but wtf? If you ask a question for opinions, expect them. Don't get all pissed off if they are not the answers you are expecting. Piss somebody off don't be surprised if they get pissed back at you.

And I will say about the creepy behavior thread. Yes, the woman was acting strangely, but come on. This couple couldn't communicate with the woman. Maybe she had to flee a bad situation and thought the couple were friendly and that's what she needed at the moment. They had no fucking clue, judging a book by it's cover is a guaranteed way to miss out on a lot in life.

And when I read the part about being her being Romanian and the woman assuming she was a pickpocket, the first thing I thought was "stereotyping." Basically prejudging one individual because of generalizations of one group. Same as saying everyone with red hair naturally has a bad temper, everyone who lives in the southern part of the US is backwards and white trash, everyone who...etc. etc.

Never met anyone from Romania, or even Gypsy. But for sure would never assume they were automatically a criminal. Not everyone from Italy is connected to the mob, nor everyone from Poland is stupid, nor everyone from...etc. etc.

So I wall call out bullshit on that. It was narrow-minded thinking, and unfortunately these backwards irrational attitudes polarizes people all over the world to this day.

Fuck it, this section is Women's Issues. I ain't responding on anything here anymore. In fact, there are a few other forums I attend where there are strictly women sections where guys are actually not allowed to respond, makes sense to me. It should have been like that in the first place. Especially since most forums (especially sex orientated) the woman are usually in the minority.

Peace to all, it would make for a better world.
 

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askew, I'm sorry that you won't be visiting us more. I've enjoyed your posts.

I'm not really sure why you've brought up constant_comment's thread in this one. It seems like those comments would be more appropriate in the other thread. I think that maybe you mentioned it because Incocknito brought it up? Incocknito's point seems to be that he thinks that the women in that thread were mean and holier than thou, when it seems as though he conveniently ignored how the men had responded in the same thread. It seems as though it's acceptable to him for men to react harshly, but not for women to do so, given the fact that he specifically pointed out that thread as an example of how women are behaving badly, but he made no mention of the men's posts and how harsh they are. Your comments don't sound harsh to me, and if it matters to you, it seems that the majority of posters agree with you.

I greatly dislike the constant accusations of "white knight" behavior here on LPSG. It's tiresome how often a man speaks up in defense of a woman and how frequently that man is accused of ulterior motives. I find it insulting to heterosexual men like you. The white knight accusation implies that heterosexual men are incapable of having an actual code of conduct whereupon they act on principle. It's too often used as a snide insult, an accusation intended to undermine the valid points made by all the people of one gender if those people happen to agree with the opinion of someone of the opposite gender.

I defend the gay men from homophobic posters all the time, even though that isn't my issue since I'm a heterosexual woman, so am I a white knight when I do that? Or am I simply conscientious and principled? It certainly fits into my personal code of conduct to defend gay people when they're being attacked. I even defended Sarah Palin, whom I personally despise, when I felt that she was being unfairly criticized because it's in my nature, and I try my hardest to be fair even to people that I dislike. I do that all the time here, even with the posters whom I feel have given me reason to dislike them, both male and female. I think the fact that I know that gay men won't ever have sex with me probably means that I can't be a white knight, and I definitely wasn't being a white knight with Sarah Palin. Yuck! Are heterosexual men incapable of being like me, defending others without any expectation of reward, sexual or otherwise? I don't think they're incapable of it.

I think I have a higher opinion of men than some people.
 
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askew, I'm sorry that you won't be visiting us more. I've enjoyed your posts.

Seconded.


I greatly dislike the constant accusations of "white knight" behavior here on LPSG. It's tiresome how often a man speaks up in defense of a woman and how frequently that man is accused of ulterior motives. I find it insulting to heterosexual men like you. The white knight accusation implies that heterosexual men are incapable of having an actual code of conduct whereupon they act on principle. It's too often used as a snide insult, an accusation intended to undermine the valid points made by all the people of one gender if those people happen to agree with the opinion of someone of the opposite gender.

And seconded again. The white knight accusations seriously piss me off.
 

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I think I know some of the women here as well as anyone in terms of online stuff. It would be a great mistake IMO to confuse getting pissy over repetitive shite and their actual compassion for and love of men / their man. You may think I'm kissing cunt there, but some of the crap that guys post would make you wonder about men. That they stick it out says a lot, that they sometimes hunt in packs is also understandable.

That said, I agree with Gillette, that women shouldn't expect carte blanche just for having lovely pert breasts and a sexy bottom that wiggles a certain way, and deep red lips that glide over the swollen desire of my manhood.
 

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Hey, not trying to stir up shit here but if I am included in this group, I will set the record straight that I have no desire to become one of the "chosen few". In a wonderful (the best so far) relationship for about nine years with a woman who totally does it for me.

I ain't here for no hookups, or to become an "internet stud" or whatever. My intention was not to "swoop in and defend." I personally thought the OP was out of line and happened to speak up

I'm also PMing you because you said you'd not be joining us here again, but to set the public record straight, since my comment was made in public...

I was not talking about you, I had no specific user in mind when I typed that, and if I had have had someone in mind, you can be damned sure I'd have named them.

Honestly, while I recall more than once stumbling across the posts by members and thinking "Oh God, here they go again... don't they know how obvious they're being?" I'd have to go through post histories of countless men to recall which specific ones they were. Further, the only memory that comes to mind when viewing your posts is that at some point in recent history, I turned to my husband and laughed, saying something along the lines of how much I liked your post... Which post it was, I have bugger all idea :redface:
 

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I greatly dislike the constant accusations of "white knight" behavior here on LPSG. It's tiresome how often a man speaks up in defense of a woman and how frequently that man is accused of ulterior motives. I find it insulting to heterosexual men like you. The white knight accusation implies that heterosexual men are incapable of having an actual code of conduct whereupon they act on principle. It's too often used as a snide insult, an accusation intended to undermine the valid points made by all the people of one gender if those people happen to agree with the opinion of someone of the opposite gender.

I mean no malice by it Petite, and while I'm sure there are some who would apply the term to any man who agrees with the women here over their fellow men, I'm not one of them.

It simply is what it is, and it happens everywhere, in all walks of life, because it provides a benefit, or possible benefit to the individual.

Be it the mother who insists her son can do no wrong, laying blame on the school or other parents because anything else would be to admit her own failings. A guy here desperate for acceptance ignoring the obvious out of fear he'll be cast aside by others, or the chat user who persistently showers the admin with personal compliments and praise for known unpopular decisions because he knows he's done something wrong and hopes that when it comes to light, all will be forgiven.

As a chat user yourself, I would have thought you'd be more accepting of the accusation...

Have you managed to escape being in there when two women have gone at each other over something completely moronic and trivial, taken the whole thing way too far and delved into some pretty vile personal attacks, only to sit back and watch as all the men pick their side and take up the fight for them, excusing anything and everything said by their chosen side, while attacking the other with everything they have?