Why so much interest in straight men?

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Now...there are a lot of threads in the straight guy section asking how to x and y to a straight guy's z. The posters don't seem interested in closeted homosexuals, but legitimately, definitively straight men.And there will likely be more.

Can someone tell me what the deal is? Why is it that gay guys keep asking about how to get straight men?
 

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Most of the gay guys I know, including me, are really attracted to hyper-masculine guys. There is just something super hot about a real manly man. Although some gay guys are really masculine, a straight dude ups the ante a bit.

I think there is also a factor of "I got a straight guy to do x with me". It's kinda a notch in the belt.


I have a ton of straight friends, and many of them love to flirt with me, but I don't think any of them would ever do more, but it's fun to think about
 

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Gay guys tend to want something they can't have. Straight guys come of as very attractive to us because they a very masculine and confident. They aren't trying to get with other guys so they have no reason not to act stupid or what not. For me I tend to get a lot of str9 crushes because there are no gay guy around me and if there are they tend to be overly flamboyant which turns me off. I would trade all my str8 crushes for a gay guy who was just your typical guy.
 

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It's my experience that it's the whole forbidden fruit thing...

Then again, there's a difference between wanting to X and Y a heterosexual and genuinely falling for what you cannot have (though none of those aforementioned threads deal with that).
 

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There is nothing more masculine than a straight dood with a big cock. The perfect specimen of our species. They are on the hunt for pussy and all the things they do, both deliberate and instinctual to spread their seed, also ensnares the homo variety, unintentionally or not. It's just nature. Can I get an Amen brothers?
 

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Gay men are attracted to men. Not just gay or bisexual men, men.
There may also be the added interest in straight men specifically as they are seemingly unobtainable- we'll likely never be able to see them naked.
Because of this the attraction may become even greater- fantasy, forbidden fruit etc.!

Lots of gay men, myself included, dislike (sexually) or are put off by camp guys. Ball-scratching-in-public, don't-gives-a-shit, up-for-a-fight type straight guys have that bad boy appeal, in my opinion.
:poke:
 

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A lot of interesting points and a lot of crap points in this thread. Gay men are just as confident and masculine as any straight man. Even if a gay man is not social programming masculine, he can be just as attractive. I suppose I'm not really qualified to answer the question as I don't waste one second of my time on straight men. Even if they are closeted, it's not my place or duty to make them comfortable with it just for my own sexual gratification. Wanting something you can't have is human, not gay.
 

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I don't think it's any different than lusting after a movie star or a porn actor, or a sports star. Or chocolate cake for that matter. You see something, you want it, but it doesn't mean you're going to act on it.
 

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It seems to come from a deluded understanding of what a straight man is.

A truly straight man has no interest in having sex with other men. A guy doesn't just suddenly decide he wants some cock or ass because a gay guy offers it to him. I defer to the Kinsey Scale. I'm a Kinsey 4.
 

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I find a str8t guy very appealing and if I see a tall dark athletic build guy with a dick outline in his pants then I just go nuts for him as I am for my boss at work right now. He shows signs of being Bi anyways as I constantly stare at his crotch because it is so amazing to stare at plus his dick outline telling me that he is hung like a horse is very pleasing to stare at also.

He knows I do this and has never said anything to make me stop which makes me believe that he is Bisexual and because he is my boss he is walking a fine line.

I think he is just waiting for job rotation as they do time to time where I work and when he is no longer my supervisor I think I will stand a better chance of getting into his zipper and have the time of my life with him and him with me.
 

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It seems to come from a deluded understanding of what a straight man is.

yep. apparently all straight (or 'str8') men are these perfectly masculine fantasy figures for the heterofetishist gays. never mind that straight men are as enormously diverse (and, gasp, sometimes not masculine) as gay men are.

honestly i find it really annoying. however i have nonetheless ended up hooking up with a few guys on that end of the kinsey scale who cling desperately to a completely heterosexual identity.
 

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Now...there are a lot of threads in the straight guy section asking how to x and y to a straight guy's z. The posters don't seem interested in closeted homosexuals, but legitimately, definitively straight men. And there will likely be more.

Can someone tell me what the deal is? Why is it that gay guys keep asking about how to get straight men?


I am a gay guy. I don't want any straight men. There are some sexy straight men out in the world. I don't waste my time and energy trying to hook up with them. It seems cruel and unusual on both sides. It doesn't turn me on at all.

:confused:I don't understand the "gay men who want only straight men" anyway. I will never know.:confused:

I feel that there is some homophobic stigma these men don't want to "appear gay" they just want to pal around some straight guys and have sex with them than deal with gay men.
 

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There is nothing more masculine than a straight dood with a big cock. The perfect specimen of our species. They are on the hunt for pussy and all the things they do, both deliberate and instinctual to spread their seed, also ensnares the homo variety, unintentionally or not. It's just nature. Can I get an Amen brothers?
Amen! :rolleyes::redface::tongue::cool::smile::smile::smile: (gay-guy here, not ON THE Takin' of straight guys...we are ALL just People. People do what they do....
 

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for me, i grew up attracted to different men around me whether it was a teacher, uncle, cousin, guys at school, etc. they exuded a masculinity that i felt i lacked and it made them very attractive to me. as i got older and started to see that straight men weren't always the most "masculine" guys around, the attraction diminished somewhat. however, what i do like about mostly straight men is that you don't have to worry about them "falling in love" with you or outing you. they are very discreet and that's what i like. i don't want to fall in love with a straight guy, i just want to play with their equipment as long as they are ok with that.
 

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I's a childish fantasy as a lot of straight men have one similar, i'm speaking about when str8 men get horny for hot lesbian.
by the way i'd like a world where people are perfect bi, no one will be hurt and everyone have the some "change" to conquest his/her object of desire..
 

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Now...there are a lot of threads in the straight guy section asking how to x and y to a straight guy's z. The posters don't seem interested in closeted homosexuals, but legitimately, definitively straight men.And there will likely be more.

Can someone tell me what the deal is? Why is it that gay guys keep asking about how to get straight men?

Because some straight guys are hot.

Pretty simple really.