So many guys I have met on lpsg had profiles that indicated totally straight sexual orientation but changed that during our friendship development to 30% or more gay that I really wondered if slightly gay was really a confession of truth or admission of some sexual ambiguity. I lean to the latter after careful reflection of all the evidence to support this. I firmly (like that word dont you) believe that overly endowed guys go way beyond sexual obsession (an offshoot of having extraordinary sexual tools and desirability from members of both sexes) and suffer from I will call megalithic sexuality, sexual urges that are so enormously subversive to normal thought patterns much of the time, that what we big guys really are attracted to often is just sex in any form and that can mean any person. Short of shortening the penis (which will not erase our enormously sex-filled earlier life) I think nothing much can be done about this but just enjoy it. Looking at the early sexual history of most very hung guys (BBC did an exhaustive interview with 10 of the most famous ones), there is sexual experimentation at a very early age. Actual sexual experience usually occurs at 10-12 when some horny neighbor or older sister of a friend finds out about the little kid with the big dick. It is usually not too long before the casually promiscuous gay guys find about this kid and begin hitting on him. A very large cock is the icon of sex both gay and straight and the Holy Grail for the gay wanting a dream conquest. And a very young guy probably would find it hard to resist sex of any kind if offered very appealingly and innocently. At age when seductive skills are not well developed sex from older men and women is probably irresistible. And these very early same sex experiences occur at the most formative sexual behavioral times in our lives, early teens. Most likely many of them were extremely pleasurable and certainly much easier to attain than straight sex, so there is that ingrained memory of something not quite normal, but very pleasant to take into adulthood. Several of my friends with penises over 11 inches admit to almost incessant pursuit by gays in the military, in lockerooms and other places where the most admired attribute a man can possess is placed on display for others both to admire and seek to encapture. I do believe that sex is provided so freely and frequently to very well hung guys that an obsession with sex often develops. From what we know about brain plasticity (ability to learn and train for certain activities throughout life) those activities that are engaged in with great regularity and intensity become enlarged features of the brain landscape and remain that way well into latter years of life. I really can understand why one of my LPSG friends confided in me that though he had not had a same sex fuck in 40 years that he continually thought about them and that all were probably a direct result of the insatiable desire of some men to suck a really big cock that he had experienced many times in the military and prep school before that. He very wisely observed to me as he (at age 71) changed his profile I dont think any guy with a really big dick (this guy had 11.5 with 9 inch girth) can be wholly straight. But of course I disagree with him he was not gay because he had all that sex with men and still thinks of it he is the product of his prior experiences that were undoubtedly filled with more men pursuing him aggressively than would occur with other lesser endowed men. So a sudden epiphany that a guy is partially gay I think not! They are infatuated with sex not sex with a man and know from an early impressionable age that sex with a man can be very pleasurable and can only add to this enjoyment of this most basic urge of all men once in a while. I have read with interest that extremely sexually liberated women almost without exception admit to occasional sex with other women whereas so called sexually liberated men rarely do (but probably do think positively about it). There should be an alternate selection in the sexual orientation profile category, either super-sexed or megalithic sex, profoundly overwhelming sexual desires where sex with women and some men is not only normal for them but should be explored in some venue if only as sexy talk with like men in this forum.