Why superhung guys often admit to gay tendencies

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  1. D_Pat Fanny

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    So many guys I have met on lpsg had profiles that indicated totally straight sexual orientation but changed that during our friendship development to 30% or more gay that I really wondered if slightly gay was really a confession of truth or admission of some sexual ambiguity. I lean to the latter after careful reflection of all the evidence to support this. I firmly (like that word don’t you) believe that overly endowed guys go way beyond sexual obsession (an offshoot of having extraordinary sexual tools and desirability from members of both sexes) and suffer from I will call megalithic sexuality, sexual urges that are so enormously subversive to normal thought patterns much of the time, that what we big guys really are attracted to often is just sex in any form and that can mean any person. Short of shortening the penis (which will not erase our enormously sex-filled earlier life) I think nothing much can be done about this but just enjoy it.

    Looking at the early sexual history of most very hung guys (BBC did an exhaustive interview with 10 of the most famous ones), there is sexual experimentation at a very early age. Actual sexual experience usually occurs at 10-12 when some horny neighbor or older sister of a friend finds out about the little kid with the big dick. It is usually not too long before the casually promiscuous gay guys find about this kid and begin hitting on him. A very large cock is the icon of sex both gay and straight and the Holy Grail for the gay wanting a dream “conquest”. And a very young guy probably would find it hard to resist sex of any kind if offered very appealingly and “innocently”. At age when seductive skills are not well developed sex from older men and women is probably irresistible.

    And these very early same sex experiences occur at the most formative sexual behavioral times in our lives, early teens. Most likely many of them were extremely pleasurable and certainly much easier to attain than straight sex, so there is that ingrained memory of something not quite normal, but very pleasant to take into adulthood.

    Several of my friends with penises over 11 inches admit to almost incessant pursuit by gays in the military, in lockerooms and other places where the most admired attribute a man can possess is placed on display for others both to admire and seek to encapture. I do believe that sex is provided so freely and frequently to very well hung guys that an obsession with sex often develops. From what we know about brain plasticity (ability to learn and train for certain activities throughout life) those activities that are engaged in with great regularity and intensity become enlarged features of the brain landscape and remain that way well into latter years of life. I really can understand why one of my LPSG friends confided in me that though he had not had a same sex fuck in 40 years that he continually thought about them and that all were probably a direct result of the insatiable desire of some men to suck a really big cock that he had experienced many times in the military and prep school before that. He very wisely observed to me as he (at age 71) changed his profile – I don’t think any guy with a really big dick (this guy had 11.5 with 9 inch girth) can be wholly straight. But of course I disagree with him – he was not gay because he had all that sex with men and still thinks of it – he is the product of his prior experiences that were undoubtedly filled with more men pursuing him aggressively than would occur with other lesser endowed men.

    So a sudden epiphany that a guy is partially gay – I think not! They are infatuated with sex not sex with a man and know from an early impressionable age that sex with a man can be very pleasurable and can only add to this enjoyment of this most basic urge of all men once in a while. I have read with interest that extremely sexually liberated women almost without exception admit to occasional sex with other women whereas so called sexually liberated men rarely do (but probably do think positively about it). There should be an alternate selection in the sexual orientation profile category, either super-sexed or megalithic sex, profoundly overwhelming sexual desires where sex with women and some men is not only normal for them but should be explored in some venue if only as sexy talk with like men in this forum.
     
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    I'd be careful about projecting too much.
     
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    Perhaps the common denominator in the men you have encountered here isn't penis size or homosexuality; but molestation by an older person of either sex at an early an age? :frown1::confused: Unfortunately it seems many of our members have been victims of this.

    How is it you know several men with 11" or more? Statistically men over even 9" are a very small percentage of the population. Have you actually measured these men?:confused:
     
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    Obsession and sex are two words that go together. Fixation. Sure when you're horny and have no social skills or would like to keep certain desires to yourself, this is a great forum.
     
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    lol you had to many friends over 10 inches... which make me believe that you are absolutely lying.
     
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    Pardon my last reply if you indeed have seen thousands of cocks..!
     
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    That's been the experience of all of my friends over 11".
     
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    I believe he referred to them as LPSG friends. There are plenty of guys here claiming 10 inches plus. I think that all but about two of them are liars, but never the less, to be fair, I don't think he meant real life friends.
     
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    I think the common thing here is that guys who have 100% straight in their profiles most likely just want others to believe they're straight...

    it's been my experience that they are the most likely guys to admit to gay tendencies but only in PM land...
     
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    MEn who are well endowed are more secure in their masculinity. Therefore, they are less afraid to get in touch with their homosexual side.

    And yes being pursued by tons of gay men your whole life does affect ones sexual preference and development.

    To address the sexual childhood abuse. Statisticaly, People who are molested during their formative years do tend to be more likely promiscuous in adulthood. There really is a direct corelation between those two things. Most porn actors have had what is called "early experience".
     
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    hunghillbilly, I read with great interest your msg re your proposition that well hung guys often admit to gay tendencies, with your thorough reasoning for this consequence. I have so often had these thoughts, but yours is the first time I've come across the ideas being expressed as you have done. I do think the person's looks (facial as well as physique) plays a huge part in making the individual appealing and getting approached for sex, along with penis size.

    Since generally we are social individuals, liking approval, acceptance, admiration, and attention from others, be they male or female, it is just a matter of degrees whether we are heterosexual, homosexual, or bi. and I think you are right-on stating the way young guys are so often 'steered' in one direction or the other.

    During my period of going through puberty, I got the attention of a 21 yo, good-looking, widely liked neighbor whose penis was a str8 tower of 9 inches. I had never before seen an adult hardon and he enjoyed my praises every time he showed it to me and coached me into giving him pleasure. Could this background be a reason for my lpsg membership? Possibly. I do love dick.
     
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    My original assertion was that some guys who are super hung and have occasionally had sex with a man and then claim that they are partially gay is incorrect. My thought was that they were attracted to sex of any sort and were not necessarily sexually attracted to me (i.e. gay). I have discussion with a guy who claims to be 100% gay and is former super porn straight star turned gay star. He admitted to me that he just got tired of always trying to please a woman and liked the total adulation that sex with men provided. Sex with a man can be irresistible as he puts it since they will do anything to please a guy with a super large dick and ask absolutely nothing in return. So he agreed that though it is extraordinarily a selfish sexual arrangement, that sex with men can be nothing more than just convenience and less obligatory aid in sexual satisfaction to the other party. Hence he admits that he supposed he was not gay after all.
     
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    ohhhhhh...I think I get what you're saying...

    a really hung guy who has sex with men isn't gay in any way, he's just being sexual & basically is just using the other guy as a human sex toy...

    what about smaller guys who have sex with men? are they gay at all?
     
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    whatever doot
     
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    hey it is what it is, man...:dunno:
     
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    Rather than always referring to other guys and their sexual orientation, let me add something more revealingly personal to this argument. I am very, very attracted to lots of these guys with their dual sexual orientations. But I feel that the attraction is to their super strong sexuality that has evolved from their super sexed cocks as mine is. It is most definitely an attraction to sex in all its commutations not to sex with them. It is confusing but irrefutable.
     
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    My only problem with the posters original hypothesis is; how does a majority of well endowed 12 year olds become seduced by pedophiles, abused young girls etc? It's statistically unlikely. More likely is the thought processes of the child directing him in a path of abuse. If the child is abused at home the child will seek to be abused everywhere including by strangers with candy etc. I don't believe because a child has 2 more inches than the kid next to him that someone could or would notice. I don't think priests go for kids with larger endowments.
    I have no experience in this field but I'm applying common sense to arrive at a better hypothesis. Typically if someone is not emotionally vested in a theory they can more clearly see the true answers. I think you're emotionally vested here. Kinda like a racist supports Obama. They are emotionally vested in hating old white men and only relying on their similarly colored brethren. Emotions are dangerous if you don't recognize them. Sorry for the rant at the end but seriously people need to wisen up to their impulses.
     
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    I have been a member on here for about a year now and dont post often but read much ... and have learned a great deal :)

    Something also seems quite obvious to me:
    1. American men (and some women) who post on here often seem to somehow consider 'gay' as a lesser something ... like there is something wrong when you are 'gay' and that it is somehow better to be 'straight' ... these are off course not from guys who indicate that they are 'gay' in their profiles.

    2. American people seem to be hung-up on labels and clearly defining them ... so if you are 'gay' it means certain things and if you are not, well then it means other things. Also, if you are 'gay' (or 'straight' for that matter) it is sorta set in stone and permanent, a bit like the colour of your eyes.

    3. There is little acceptance that sexuality is much more fluid then 3 labels, gay, str8 and bi and little acceptance for people moving between these.

    4. Masculinity is something that continiously needs to be proven and it seems that the label 'gay' would describe a 'less masculine' form of masculinity so even if one does preder other men sexually, to call oneself 'gay' is actually saying one is less of a man.

    I think it is important to acknowledge that all men (Americans included :) ) often and continously feel that they need to proove their masculinity (there is lots written about this ... do a google search if you're interested) and that one way in which we think masculinity is determined is through being 'straight', which off course is not always true.

    So in short, (took me a long time to say something in short), I think our sexuality is not as clear cut as we would like to think, nor is it static. What we like and are interested in changes over time, and thats ok. And if one finds oneself attracted to people of the same gender, always, sometimes, once or twice, at different times for different periods and one chooses to act on it, or not, why does this equal some label which might be limited? Are we not just being who are sexual, sometimes more so than others, seeking to fulfill our sexual needs? ... and why should we limit or judge any of this?

    Ok, now I'll shut up :rolleyes:
     
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    I'd agree with that but want to add another reason. One guy posted that when he had 1% gay in his profile, he was hit on all the time but guys. Since he changed it to 0% gay, that has dropped dramatically.

    I suspect there are a lot of guys on here that know that almost everyone is at least 1% gay, including themselves, but put 0% gay not to be bombarded with unsolicited propositions from guys.

    On another note, this is a really great thread. Porn star Dean Coxx went into gay porn at the urging of his girlfriend. He said in an interview that he doesn't like the label bisexual. He just prefers to be called "sexual." That fits in really well with what Hung Hillbilly is saying. (And who, I might add, is far too articulate to be a real hillbilly. Speaking of which, anybody else while growing up used to have fantasies about hunky Jethro?? But I digress.....)
     
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