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So I've been reading alot of the forums where guys are claiming to be 8.5 - 12 inches when it's quite apparent that they are not measuring up to that.
Also the abundance of photoshopped/stolen pictures on here is quite ridiculous!

I get that men feel the need to be the biggest and best but I don't get the part of making claims so ridiculous or even straight up unrealistic in my opinion.

What do you guys think about this?

I say just be yourself :). You have to live with that penis anyway haha. Saying that it's 14.5 inches will not make it grow any longer haha
 
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Personally, I've always been a fan of one who underpromises and overdelivers. Vice versa always makes me grumpy.
Yes. It's almost like a feeling of being deflated a bit. I also find that when that is the case, my interest in them evaporates. It isn't so much the reveal, it's that they lied. Usually, people who do that also have this distorted self imagery, which can revolve around the size of their penis, or just include it in the charade. I don't have time for that, or the mentality.
 
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no doubt people lie on here, both in terms of what they claim to have AND in terms of what they say other people have.

i suppose it’s important to remember that claims should be taken fairly lightly—more like banter than serious statements.
 

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Definitely, I'm not here to be a buzz kill.

Dramatizing the size is fine in my eyes in fact I think this is the perfect platforn to do that! Just some people are so adamant about it and will argue to the death of it.
 

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Definitely, I'm not here to be a buzz kill.

Dramatizing the size is fine in my eyes in fact I think this is the perfect platforn to do that! Just some people are so adamant about it and will argue to the death of it.

The mystery is what fabricating a photo or making an untrue claim could possibly do to help anyone. As you wrote earlier, it doesn't change their size. So why?
 

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I suppose it's a place where they feel that they can lie and get away with it as none of us are actually going to see them, or their dick, in person anyway. Some come here taking the name of the site literally when it really was never met to be so. Probably an ego boost for many, I guess. Nine years ago I left a similar site as I liked the forums here much better and could care less about the dick photos. If they want to claim they’ve got a 9X6 dick I usually just say, “Great! what do you want a medal or a chest to pin it on?”
 

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I suppose it's a place where they feel that they can lie and get away with it as none of us are actually going to see them, or their dick, in person anyway. Some come here taking the name of the site literally when it really was never met to be so. Probably an ego boost for many, I guess. Nine years ago I left a similar site as I liked the forums here much better and could care less about the dick photos. If they want to claim they’ve got a 9X6 dick I usually just say, “Great! what do you want a medal or a chest to pin it on?”

It's just that the lie gets them nothing. Anonymous guy lies to anonymous strangers.
 
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Personally, I believe its an ego boost for them. Men (not all) feel a need to be superior to other men. Some are un-happy, so they live a lie hoping it comes true. The anonymity of being online has given men an outlet to boost their ego. I came across a fascinating article where a general study was done in the US with 1,500 men. No measurements - purely two questions. What is the length of your penis size at full erection and what length do you say your penis is at full erection when asked by potential partners, dates, or significant others?

You can take a look below. It's an interesting read
The Average Penis Size By State | Bespoke Surgical
 

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I' don't think I've ever boasted on this site about the size of my cock — not in an open forum anyway. But we should remember that LPSG specifically targets guys who are pretty well-endowed, and I don't think it was an ego trip on my part to sign up for it. A lot of the discussions here are about the advantages of being hung, but some deal with the disadvantages as well. There's a lot of hot talk in this place, but there's also a lot of useful, helpful informatiom
 

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I' don't think I've ever boasted on this site about the size of my cock — not in an open forum anyway. But we should remember that LPSG specifically targets guys who are pretty well-endowed, and I don't think it was an ego trip on my part to sign up for it. A lot of the discussions here are about the advantages of being hung, but some deal with the disadvantages as well. There's a lot of hot talk in this place, but there's also a lot of useful, helpful informatiom
I realize that the manner I worded this might come off as though I'm being a hater or something but that's not my intention at all. It is a large penis support group after all if you want to boast please do! I just realized that alot of the boasting was unwarranted because alot of times the penises weren't matching the claims and sometimes at a ridiculous margin is all.

I think the definition of what is big has been skewed tremendously because so many guys were being dishonest. Alot of guys are thinking that theyre really below average because of it too when in fact they are actually average or even sometimes above average
 
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All men wants to have a big cock, right? And would love to get the reactions from others for being BIG man. My guess is that it can be tempting to lie or manipulate to be able to get that? Even if you know it's not all based in truth?
 

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So I've been reading alot of the forums where guys are claiming to be 8.5 - 12 inches when it's quite apparent that they are not measuring up to that.
Also the abundance of photoshopped/stolen pictures on here is quite ridiculous!

I get that men feel the need to be the biggest and best but I don't get the part of making claims so ridiculous or even straight up unrealistic in my opinion.

What do you guys think about this?

I say just be yourself :). You have to live with that penis anyway haha. Saying that it's 14.5 inches will not make it grow any longer haha

This is probably the oldest lie there is, I don't know if you're going to find an answer that satisfies. I would say we have a culture that not only condones it, but encourages it.
 

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All men wants to have a big cock, right? And would love to get the reactions from others for being BIG man. My guess is that it can be tempting to lie or manipulate to be able to get that? Even if you know it's not all based in truth?

You'd think. In Classical Greece, a big penis was considered a sign of disfavour and of a baser nature expressing itself, medium or even small penises were considered far more masculine and desirable. We want to be desired and admired, how that happens depends on the culture we're in...and those desires lead to deception or delusion, or a bit of creative marketing in lots of cases.
 
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You'd think. In Classical Greece, a big penis was considered a sign of disfavour and of a baser nature expressing itself, medium or even small penises were considered far more masculine and desirable. We want to be desired and admired, how that happens depends on the culture we're in...and those desires lead to deception or delusion, or a bit of creative marketing in lots of cases.

I totally agree. I just left out the cultural context. It could be the other way around. A big cock could be considered barbarian and a small cock a symbol of civilization and status. For those claiming that there is a "natural" selection towards big cocks, history teaches differently.
 

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And, something I did not really know until recently is that for many women, in fact a majority in many cases, vaginal depth to the cervix is 5.5 to 6.5 inches...which means that for many, larger penises are uncomfortable, painful or injury causing... and many women prefer under 7 inches (though not all, and vive la difference), with a not so small percentage liking 4.5-6.5 inches in size... I try to appreciate each penis on it's own merits, and size (big or smaller) is only one of several, with the understanding that yes, as a man who really loves cock, there are some very big, thick and long members that kinda make me stupid when I see 'em. I mean, there are aspects of selective pressures on human genitals it's just not simple or even understandable in those kinds of terms. We also are creatures who adore not following instinct, tradition, or making sexual choices based in our biological predispositions. Part of what makes the large penis admiration part of this site quite exceptional and nice is that men are overwhelmingly complimentary and affirmative to each other, which is super important for almost all of us.
 

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If you go along with the lie you tell others, their validation feels real

it's usually a two way street, there are some epic fights on this board over exactly that, one maintains his favourite porn star is x inches the other denies it says he's y inches and then some support and others agree it's exaggerated and it gets wild heavy. But polite society is based on thousands of little lies of convenience and necessity, validation is validation, the only question is accepting praise for being dishonest something a man is fine with or is it going to gnaw at his ego? Most of us don't get any validation of any real depth or importance in the day to day, unless we give ourselves that gift or have good folks in our lives. At the end of the day, this hurts...no one really does it? We lie about ourselves sexually with every cologne we wear, with the teeth veneers, the contact lenses, the hair dyes the lifts for shoes butts and other areas, with our affectations of voice, with proxy sex organs in weapons, automobiles, cigars etc... good photography makes us seem cinematic, pornographic, pick up arts fill in the blanks to allow us to appear to be what we are not really, our names, our places of birth the logos and brands we wear...all little lies designed to make us appealing in some way to others...birds do it (Bower birds for eg), bees do it (check out the queen), fish and reptiles all use props to increase sexiness. I forgive most of us and myself too.
 
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