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****The generality is one thing. But the particular, the individual human being, is another. Diversity is only wonderful if it affects you positively. For those who are affected negatively, it is hardly wonderful -- like for those with genetic diseases, or subnormal intelligence, or socially unacceptable or devalued qualities or features.
Somehow I don't think "it'll all be OK later in heaven" is an answer when you have to live now....[/quote]****
Well I have to chime in on this one. I hope I dont misinterpret the misinterpretaion of the misinterprated.
(did that make sense?! :-/ ) This will have nothing to do with a penis, so feel free to bail out at any time...
Anyway, as I have posted before, my son has autism and is mentally retarded. I talk freely about it as that IS the way he is. I agree that diversity was created for our enjoyment and that God created us all unique, (Pecker explained that one the other day... ahem...).
I also believe that God has for whatever reason chosen for my son to be the way he is.
I do not know or understand why. I cannot fathom why a God who claims to be loving can allow something so horrible. :'( I have prayed many times for my son to be healed, and His answer has been NO. I think in my heart, it is not right for MY son to be whole, there are many other little boys suffering, why should *he* be excluded from that. I am not 'special' in that God would favor me over another.
When he was born, we thought he was essentially OK. The dr told us he may have a hearing problem, but he was premature, and by the time we had him home for a couple days, we were sure he could hear. He later passed his hearing screen.
When he was one month old, we had him dedicated to God. The song we played at his dedication service was "Wordless One". We had NO IDEA that he would be diagnosed as autistic 3 yrs later. He is almost 7 now and does not speak.
I did not even realize this until about 2 yrs ago. I was feeling sorry for myself one day, or rather for him, and looking through his baby book I ran across the words to the song. I was really going through a hard time, as he was recently diagnosed. We had spent HOURS in speech therapy ect, getting no where. It seemed for the first time the words of that song leaped out at me, and took a profound meaning. God knew from day one that my son would not speak, and let me know that He is in control of that.
I do not know why, but He is God, and I am nothing in comparison to Him. That God would even consider little old me, so worthless and stupid sometimes. :-[ To control the sky's thunder and command the sun when to rise, and yet he spends love on me, and patiently shows me His way is best.
My God is so wonderful.
Who am I to demand of God to explain this to me. :-X
sorry, got off on a sappy trip there...
****The generality is one thing. But the particular, the individual human being, is another. Diversity is only wonderful if it affects you positively. For those who are affected negatively, it is hardly wonderful -- like for those with genetic diseases, or subnormal intelligence, or socially unacceptable or devalued qualities or features.
Somehow I don't think "it'll all be OK later in heaven" is an answer when you have to live now....[/quote]****
Well I have to chime in on this one. I hope I dont misinterpret the misinterpretaion of the misinterprated.
(did that make sense?! :-/ ) This will have nothing to do with a penis, so feel free to bail out at any time...
Anyway, as I have posted before, my son has autism and is mentally retarded. I talk freely about it as that IS the way he is. I agree that diversity was created for our enjoyment and that God created us all unique, (Pecker explained that one the other day... ahem...).
I also believe that God has for whatever reason chosen for my son to be the way he is.
I do not know or understand why. I cannot fathom why a God who claims to be loving can allow something so horrible. :'( I have prayed many times for my son to be healed, and His answer has been NO. I think in my heart, it is not right for MY son to be whole, there are many other little boys suffering, why should *he* be excluded from that. I am not 'special' in that God would favor me over another.
When he was born, we thought he was essentially OK. The dr told us he may have a hearing problem, but he was premature, and by the time we had him home for a couple days, we were sure he could hear. He later passed his hearing screen.
When he was one month old, we had him dedicated to God. The song we played at his dedication service was "Wordless One". We had NO IDEA that he would be diagnosed as autistic 3 yrs later. He is almost 7 now and does not speak.
I did not even realize this until about 2 yrs ago. I was feeling sorry for myself one day, or rather for him, and looking through his baby book I ran across the words to the song. I was really going through a hard time, as he was recently diagnosed. We had spent HOURS in speech therapy ect, getting no where. It seemed for the first time the words of that song leaped out at me, and took a profound meaning. God knew from day one that my son would not speak, and let me know that He is in control of that.
I do not know why, but He is God, and I am nothing in comparison to Him. That God would even consider little old me, so worthless and stupid sometimes. :-[ To control the sky's thunder and command the sun when to rise, and yet he spends love on me, and patiently shows me His way is best.
My God is so wonderful.
Who am I to demand of God to explain this to me. :-X
sorry, got off on a sappy trip there...