Why well hung guys need validation occasionally

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  1. D_Pat Fanny

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    I certainly do. Even though looking down at my 7.5-8 inch flaccid hang should be validation of being super hung, I still feel a need for outside verification. Maybe it is just superstition or disbelief but whatever belongs to you just somehow does not always seem to be what it is unless someone else tells you so who is not self interested. I got a real rush not long ago when a doctor I had befriended was sought for a medical reason, a urinary tract infection. When he lowered my briefs, he let out a little gasp. I thought he had seen a tumor or something and asked what was wrong. He apologized and matter of factly told me that he seldom even in his business came across a flaccid penis of that dimension. I blushed from head to .....head and took this as a very read validation. What about you other fellows?
     
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    Being more of a grower than a shower, I don't usually get that. I'm usually only about 4 inches flaccid and 5 flaccid on those days when it's hot outside. There has been once or twice during one of those hot days when I have had an annual physical and had to drop em that I heard the doctor swallow hard but he usually doesn't make a big deal and I try not to make eye contact. Again being a grower and not a shower probably accounts for a lot of it.
     
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    I'm nowhere near as hung as you but I have a friend who is and it's real nice to watch as he walks nude across a locker room or bedroom. When hard, he reaches about 11" and it's fantastic!

    I keep a special box of magnums available at all times just for his visits. :tongue:
     
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    i never recieved any validation til' a friend was wierd around me
    anytime i came over,he later said it was my bulge.

    i was not trying to even show off...i just never thought about my dick size
    after my teen years when i decided i was small.

    my brother and i had an old porno from the 80's called "hot lips"
    well he had said the pornstar was HUGE and i said he looks about my size,he just laughed at me and said i was delusional.
    ever since i just accepted my size as mediocre.
    girls get pissed if you ask and i have never been complimented
    by a girl about my size...well except for 1 girl/woman here.

    i think alot of men have these same issues,and from what i noticed
    they are rather insensitive about it.:wink:
     
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    I totally need validation (checking those photo comments!), and am thoroughly satisfied when I get it. It's like you just want to make sure ALL those other girls werent lying (they made a secret agreement with each other to boost my confidence?) Guys totally have body issues, just like women, though not to the same degree I assume.
     
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    Is it live or is it Memorex?
    I don't think I'm all that big, but what guy doesn't like a sincere dick compliment? You never know, you might wake up and find that your big dong was just a dream!:eek:
     
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    From the looks of your photos, I don't see why you need validation. You are very well equipped.
     
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    i know what you mean
    im about 7 to 7.5
    and i dont feel all that big flaccid
    and i was at my friends house a couple of weeks ago
    and i just put like a circle with my hand around my junk
    and one of my friends kept saying how big it was
    it felt good, not gunna lie, so i found myself doing it over and over again the rest of the night

    the next time we were over his house.. i just wanted verification
    although i felt discouraged...
    its one of tose days where its just smaller than usual ya know???
    and we were gunna go skinny dipping.. i was all for it
    i went to the bathroom to check on my junk before everyone saw it
    like i didnt want a wrong impression
    and it just felt smaller than usual
    and i was doing what i could to try and like.. fluff it i guess hahah
    and it wasnt working
    i said screw it.. and i ended up skinny dipping. on top of it just being smaller than normal, it was chilly out and i was in the pool
    but two of my guy friends that were there commented on how big it was
    of course i still felt like they were bsing me
    i dunno,, so just to feel better i made sure later in the night when i had a boner i flashed them, just to make sure
    ha
     
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    In my opinion, many of us men attach far too much importance to size. Surely there are things about a man which are at least as important as his penis. Rather than worrying about penis size, I think that it would be a good idea to be more concerned about other things, such as social responsibility, helping the less fortunate, etc. Our true friends will not be much concerned about our penis size.
     
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    This is objectively true, but when it comes to men and our dicks, we are incurably subjective. I would certainly despise a man who ONLY cared about his size, and guys who think a big cock makes up for a bad personality, well, karma is sure going to get them - they'll get what they deserve, really shallow size queens - so I don't worry about them.

    The funny thing is, how very subjective "big" is. If you feel inadequate, your cock will seem small. What did Jebediah Springfield say? "A noble spirit embiggens the smallest man." Well, an ignoble spirit emsmallens even the biggest cock.
     
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    Everybody loves a compliment! :biggrin1:
     
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    yeh i love getting compliments, LOVE them is why i bought a webcam hehe
     
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