As I've gone from nothing to sexually active, I've run into a whole slew of problems I never thought I'd have. The one that is plaguing me now is that I just finished having phone sex for the second time today, and now my skin near the head is swollen. I've gotten this before, but what kills me is that it seems to come easier each time now that I'm a little hard. Last year alone, I used to be able to jack off and squeeze as hard as I wanted, and nothing ever happened. Is it just frequency? Any solutions to help it heal faster? Am I just getting old and the damn thing can't take abuse like it could before? I'm only in my early 20's. ARGH.