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I know what you mean, it happens to me also. I think that cute girls will like you but will not tell you. You just need to do a girl and then you will know what they are hiding...
 

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Ive noticed it all my life, but heres a simpler example. ive joined a couple dating sites. For shits and giggles i put up looking for gay guys. I got tons of messages. before that it was guy looking for girls, i get like, 2 responses from 40 year old women, or real realy realy fat girls. i was on fling, and yahoo, and a long time ago i was on eharmony. got no results on all of them, probably because of where i live now "its a backwards ass hick countryville" but all my life, ive been asked out by fat girls many many times, ive had gay kids at school hit on me, and the hot girls never even glanced at me. i know my personality is great, people love me, but not the hot girls, and those are the ones i want. damnit!. lol.

i know i probably sound like an unconfident annoying asshole or somthing i dunno, but this is just what im thinkin on the inside, on the outside you dont see me all depressed wondering why i cant get what i want n shit lol. Im just like thinking outloud and putting it in text and letting you crazy bastards read it lol, so if you dont like it then help me get hot girls so ill shut the hell up ahahah! lol. love ya lpsg :)
 

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i know my personality is great, people love me

Well at least you'll always have modesty as a redeeming quality.

Seriously though, "hot" girls don't usually dole out the feel goods. I know this isn't always the case, but I think a lot of attractive women know that they will be approached, so unless you are stunningly good looking you will have to be the one to go up to them.
 

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maybe all the "hot girls" saw your post on the gay site and assume that you're gay.

it seems like there's a part of you that likes the fact gay men are attracted to you, hence the gay baiting on the gay dating site.

it sounds like you think you're entitled to a "hot girl," and that anyone less than that is unworthy. therein lies your problem, my friend.
 

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maybe all the "hot girls" saw your post on the gay site and assume that you're gay.

it seems like there's a part of you that likes the fact gay men are attracted to you, hence the gay baiting on the gay dating site.

it sounds like you think you're entitled to a "hot girl," and that anyone less than that is unworthy. therein lies your problem, my friend.

its not that anyone less is unworthy, i think i should strive for a hot chick to break the curse of the ugly goofy person. For every ugly goofy kid out there! i must do this!! lolz. besides, if im not attracted to you theres no point in having a relationship am i right?
 

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How come gay guys think im sooo cute and shit, and fat girls too. But hot girls think im ugly. WTF? i dont get it. i just...dont get it, dunno what else to say to elaborate on this. lolz. hmph


Gay guys see a cute man. Fat girls see a cute man.

I can only conclude that hot girls see a fat, gay man. I hope that helps.:biggrin1:
 

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I can only conclude that hot girls see a fat, gay man. I hope that helps.:biggrin1:

LOL :biggrin1: :biggrin1:

OP: I call it the attractiveness scale - poeple of roughly the same attractiveness need to be together- otherwise there are insecurities. These so called 'hot chicks' are, I would imagine, more attractive than you and are therefore not interested. The other people you refer to are as attractive as you or maybe less so and aiming 'high'. You are obviously trying to play in the major leagues when maybe you're more suited to the Sundays.

*shrugs*
 

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its not that anyone less is unworthy, i think i should strive for a hot chick to break the curse of the ugly goofy person. For every ugly goofy kid out there! i must do this!! lolz. besides, if im not attracted to you theres no point in having a relationship am i right?


I know how you feel, but I don't know what to tell you. Other than welcome to the club.
 

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women are attracted to confidence..
period.
Completely true; if you feel insecure, you'll look insecure; even if you think you are acting securely. Women are like dogs in that sense, they can smell insecurity and feel it as soon as you walk to them.
 

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How come gay guys think im sooo cute and shit, and fat girls too. But hot girls think im ugly. WTF? i dont get it. i just...dont get it, dunno what else to say to elaborate on this. lolz. hmph

These so called 'hot chicks' are, I would imagine, more attractive than you and are therefore not interested.

Wow, I'm a fat chick and I am not attracted to you at all, not even the least little bit. Which probably means I'm more attractive than you, too!!! :biggrin1::biggrin1:
 

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Yes, I agree. How can one gain confidence when they have none?:confused:
I just clicked on your gallery link and you have compliments all the way - and rightly so.Doesen't that make you feel better about yourself?
For many people gaining confidence comes from taking the first step of having internet friendships.You have the confidence to post photos now so you have gained some in the time you've been here.
Onwards and upwards!