Why Women In Their 40s Are Sex Goddesses

[Sagittarius84]

There wasn't a presumption, I was just expressing it for the sake of it.

What is a common fuckboi excuse for catcalling? "Correct"
Ill take Ironic Pendulum Swings for $500, Alex

 

[neutrno]

I've received an anonymous message in real life of a younger adult who says he worked with me in the past and fantasized about me ever since. The reason I know he was younger is because he told me in the message.

So, whatever it is, I'm leaning towards BS, or MILF fetishism. Because of the 'younger' component.

And it made me think of it. Are we goddesses in our 40s?

Perhaps the first signs of wrinkles, or the first aches of age, or the 40 making us think next time it's going to be 50... "5"...

Perhaps these things make us reevaluate and put aside all the BS we, women, carry around and just enjoy. Perhaps with the sweetly sad awareness something is coming to an end.

I was listening to a podcast where she interviews people of the porn industry. Performers, directors, etc. I've heard a comment that many MILFs are played by women in their 20s, or 30s. What does that mean?

Perhaps many of us feel we're getting old by the time we reach 40. As in old, not just older.

That would motivate a enjoy while it lasts attitude.

Plus, the boost of perhaps having offspring leave the house, or be more absent, allowing for more time to work on ourselves, concentrate on ourselves.

I remember in the other forum a woman saying she turned 40 and she was feeling wonderful. I was a bit shocked. How many women out there think women shouldn't feel ok by the time they reach 40? If we think this, imagine what men think of us, when we're 40!

Then, the same surprise that woman fell by being fine at 40 would make anything working properly at that age a big deal, deserving of being celebrated. "Look, how wonderful, I'm 40 and I'm fucking! Wow! Who'd have thought?!"

So, perhaps the perception of being goddesses in our 40s is just one more way of discrimination against women, something ingrained already. We expect to be shitty at 40. When we actually feel fine, we need an explanation! Why am I a goddess at 40? Explain me that!

It also kind of implies we're goddesses at 40s... so, what are we at 50s? Then we're old? Like really old? We become mortals again?

Bottom line, thinking of women as goddesses when in their 40s, if that's really a thing, it's just another manifestation of ageism against us. Many times by ourselves.

And WTF is a woman needing to do to be a 'goddess'? Isn't that also discrimination against women who just don't have in their nature to do the goddess stuff? Behave in the goddess way? Whatever that is?

Some female sexuality and expression are then less godlike than others? Who decides this?

 

[halcyondays]

Some female sexuality and expression are then less godlike than others? Who decides this?

Individuals do. In this case the anonymous younger man who messaged you.

 

[MickeyLee]

By the time I hit forty my supply of fucks will have been exhausted. No fucks to give. Of any variety.

 

[Mule]

No fucks to give. Of any variety.

And it's definitely not a gender-specific thing: Me, over 40 and also couldn't give a fuck about anyone thinking I'm a god or goddess, sex or otherwise.

If 'this' [ gestures towards oneself ] works for you, happy days. If not, ah well, that's life.

No fucks to give, figuratively and literally: I don't care and I don't thinking of it as "fucking" anymore, either.

 

[286798]

And it's definitely not a gender-specific thing: Me, over 40 and also couldn't give a fuck about anyone thinking I'm a god or goddess, sex or otherwise.

If 'this' [ gestures towards oneself ] works for you, happy days. If not, ah well, that's life.

No fucks to give, figuratively and literally: I don't care and I don't thinking of it as "fucking" anymore, either.

Preach!

 

[MisterB]

Preach!

Mule routinely gives good "preach"!

 

[Jack10792]

I'm a sucker for cats...

He's not a cat. He is the night!

(or she, not gonna assume)

 

[Abe Froman]

I absolutly adore mature women, they ooze confidence and sexuality. And please ladies don't fret over body issues you are too beautiful to worry over minor things.

This man seconds that.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I've received an anonymous message in real life of a younger adult who says he worked with me in the past and fantasized about me ever since. The reason I know he was younger is because he told me in the message.

So, whatever it is, I'm leaning towards BS, or MILF fetishism. Because of the 'younger' component.

And it made me think of it. Are we goddesses in our 40s?

Perhaps the first signs of wrinkles, or the first aches of age, or the 40 making us think next time it's going to be 50... "5"...

Perhaps these things make us reevaluate and put aside all the BS we, women, carry around and just enjoy. Perhaps with the sweetly sad awareness something is coming to an end.

I was listening to a podcast where she interviews people of the porn industry. Performers, directors, etc. I've heard a comment that many MILFs are played by women in their 20s, or 30s. What does that mean?

Perhaps many of us feel we're getting old by the time we reach 40. As in old, not just older.

That would motivate a enjoy while it lasts attitude.

Plus, the boost of perhaps having offspring leave the house, or be more absent, allowing for more time to work on ourselves, concentrate on ourselves.

I remember in the other forum a woman saying she turned 40 and she was feeling wonderful. I was a bit shocked. How many women out there think women shouldn't feel ok by the time they reach 40? If we think this, imagine what men think of us, when we're 40!

Then, the same surprise that woman fell by being fine at 40 would make anything working properly at that age a big deal, deserving of being celebrated. "Look, how wonderful, I'm 40 and I'm fucking! Wow! Who'd have thought?!"

So, perhaps the perception of being goddesses in our 40s is just one more way of discrimination against women, something ingrained already. We expect to be shitty at 40. When we actually feel fine, we need an explanation! Why am I a goddess at 40? Explain me that!

It also kind of implies we're goddesses at 40s... so, what are we at 50s? Then we're old? Like really old? We become mortals again?

Bottom line, thinking of women as goddesses when in their 40s, if that's really a thing, it's just another manifestation of ageism against us. Many times by ourselves.

And WTF is a woman needing to do to be a 'goddess'? Isn't that also discrimination against women who just don't have in their nature to do the goddess stuff? Behave in the goddess way? Whatever that is?

Some female sexuality and expression are then less godlike than others? Who decides this?

I was under the impression the guys finally noticed.

 

[Lance V]

My radar range has definitely broadened over time. I've always been a fan of mature women whether that meant age or activity. I'm in my late 50s and women in their 40s are decidedly younger and desirable. But I'll never discount 50s and 60s.

In February I was at a writers' conference and met an older author that was absolutely mesmerizing. She was mature yet very active and animated and flirted unabashedly. I found myself actually fantasizing about her. Crude and chauvinistic, I know, and I apologize on behalf of an overactive Y chromosome.

I later found out she's 72. Didn't make one bit of difference to me.

Age is only what you allow it to be. I'm 56 but feel 40, and my biggest health hazard is believing I can do the same things I did at 20.

 

[286798]

my biggest health hazard is believing I can do the same things I did at 20.

Same, brother... same.

 

[sizehungry]

I remember the fear and trepidation when I was preparing to say goodbye to 39. And then 40 came, and things were oh so different... for the better! Now its' coming up on 10 years later, and all I can say is that this article really spoke to me. I'm hoping to maintain goddess status well into my 50s and 60s!

Why Women in Their 40s Are Sex Goddesses

Great post Ellie . I feel so fortunate that an older lady friend told me ( in my 20's all about the hormonal drives that many Women in their late 30's & 40's and often beyond , experience . Saw a Woman at my local market just the other day , whom , during the course of our conversation , revealed that she was 65 . I was astounded , I kid you not . Before I could babble some vague inanity , she left with the parting words , " do say hello if we cross paths again . Well , I swear to God that I walked out of there with my back straight , feeling no pain , and grinning like the village idiot . And there you have it you see , a simple non sexual conversation , no more than 3 minutes in length , and a crippled terminally ill man , leaves a place , feeling like a king , and that's one of the reasons that I love them . Goddesses ? Damn right they are , at any age .

 

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[thick_]

When my ex hit her 40’s she said now I know what you guys felt like in your teens and 20s.

 

[deleted5678481]

You go girls! I’m in my 30s, and it only gets more exciting for me!

 

[6inchcock]

By the time I hit forty my supply of fucks will have been exhausted. No fucks to give. Of any variety.

Could you possibly spare me just one, for fucks sake?

I shall be happy to repay you and assist with replenishing your fucks locker.

 

[steveh9]

When my ex hit her 40’s she said now I know what you guys felt like in your teens and 20s.

My wife went cock crazy in her 40's too.

 

[longstroke7]

When i had turned 29 i hooked up with a co worker who was 42. She was really cool and down to earth, but my god she was an incredible lover. Very affectionate in bed, loved to kiss a lot and run her hands all over my body while we made love. And God, the way she rode my cock felt amazing, she knew how to really use her hips. And she was always revved up to go when we would meet up.

We eventually had to end it because of drama between her and her child's father that was putting a serious strain on her, but she was definitely one of my favorite partners. A great cook too!

 

[Reg]

In my 20’s and 30’s I routinely was drawn to an older women. Mostly in their 40’s. They were open, vibrant individuals who were looking for companionship and sex. It was a preference for me, not really into the bar scene.