Why women think men are weak

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by D_Hepsibah Salmonbreath, Aug 12, 2009.

  1. D_Hepsibah Salmonbreath

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    Hi. For the women out there that think men are weak, I, would like to pass on a little knowledge about why that is. You.

    Yes, thanks to the ones out there that had a fleating moment of thought about how they thought they was not being treated fairly and/or proporly, we have been plunged into a time of thinking, hey, if I do or say that then I will get in big trouble for sexual harrasment.

    So many things are covered in sexual hrassment that you can not even give a woman a pat on the back (shoulders not the butt guys) for doing a good job.

    Now it does boil down to if the woman wants to go for the charges or not. They can and a lot of them do. There have been so many things I wanted to do to a woman after a good date or just to get her to notice me that I did not do on account of having to worry about the harassment charge. I'm not saying we should go back to the days of grabbing a womans butt just to be grabbing it.

    Think of it this way. Say the date is going good had a good dinner and your going back out to the car. The conversation was wonderful the candle light was just right and even the cheesy musac they play in the resturant fit the evening. I have missed many kisses while being so close as to see the lip gloss on the lip and tell what flavor it is but not going in for the kiss by thinking wait a sec, what if there is the slight chance that she will see this as I am trying to force some thing that is not right on her. Chances are that that would not be the case, but, all it takes is the one time for things to go wrong and it is a sure fire jail sentence for you.

    Ladies we are not weak and we do want to be able to do some of the things that men are suppose to do, but, we dont know if you are one of the women that would put us away for doing what men are suppose to do and what we hear are what yall want us to do. I may be wrong and I may be totally off base about it.

    I want to be able to show a woman an interest in some of the things she likes and be able to show her an interest in the things I like, but, I also want to be able to show and interest in her sexually and not go to jail.

    Confadance is not a problem, but, I really dont like being in jail more.
     
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    First of all, you are way too uptight! I do not think you will get a sexual harrasment charge on a date. Who is she gonna call? The date police? Not! Unless you are dating someone illegal. I personally do not understand your post. You sound very angry about something and I am not sure what it really is. Good luck to you.
     
  3. D_Hepsibah Salmonbreath

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    no nothing like that. i was looking at so other things on relationships and women could not understand why guys did not make first moves or did not act on things that these girls thought they was doing to be obvious. i put this post up there as well and they loved it. im sorry i thought it would have been a good post here as well but i guess you would have had to have the back story that went with it.
     
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    Okay. Now that you put it that way. I will say it has to do with the girls you are with. Are they too young? Not appreciate wehn a man is being a man? etc..... :wink:
     
  5. Principessa

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    Naaa, he likes older women.:rolleyes: Like many intelligent men, Tex just doesn't always get when a girl is flirting with him. I think it's cause he's southern. In the south everybody seems to flirt right out of the womb. It's just a part of daily life. So when someone is doing it intentionally to get a specific man or womans attention it's not always obvious. IMO:smile:
     
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    was gonna explain how S.H dosen't bring jail time... if it did my dad's law partner would spend vacations there to save up time...... that and if you can't tell through eye contact intrest in the shit you say and them touching YOU that she's intrested then the problem is yours..... but i you're a sniper and you scare me..... so stick to the band of the hand man, straight jerkin it like wallberg
     
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    How the hell do you get a jail sentence for trying to kiss someone at the end of a dinner date?
     
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    You can't get any sort of punishment from making a move except for rejection by the girl..But I can relate, as sometimes before in the past I thought about things way too much.. but as of late, reading off signs and knowing when you should make your move has paid off way better, then stepping back and thinking too hard.

    And I agree with nj, we southern gentlemen just like to flirt :)
     
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    no.... can't get punishment, but you can wind up signing your name under a number on a check that made you wish you were signing the back.....again.... ask my dad's law partner.....he looked a girl in the eye as she said she was sueing him and he actually asked her "since you're sueing me anyway can i get a look of those sweater zeplans"..... even the judge shook his head.
     
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    Being from, New Jersey I find that very odd, and am still not used to it, even after living in Georgia 2 years.

    This is Georgia, where the only thing more stupid than the people, are the laws. All it would take was some allegedly upstanding beeyotch to press sexual harassment/assault charges and any man could land in jail. :mad: :irked:

     
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    whoaaaaa now, lets cool that 2input ass, the people?.......


    and harassment and assault a 2 diffrent things........ and if she has ever even iniated a hand shake pats, hugs and pokes are simple gestures...... dad's 4th defense of he law partner, second victory
     
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    ...women think men are weak? i think i'm lacking understanding of the underlying premise here. i've never encountered this before...
     
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    A woman accused me of staring at her breasts the other day. She had mustard on her shirt.
     
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    LOL :lmao: You goofball. :tongue:
     
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    Having lived in GA much longer than yourself and the south in general it is not that easy to end up in jail over sexual harrassment charges.

    Furthermore it's not just the flirting that is more obvious in the south it is friendliness in general. We tend to be much more nosy if you'd like and are always wanting to get to know everyone we meet, talk to strangers in grocery stores (not just chat but entire life conversations) and other friendly things that typically don't occur in other parts of the country because of historical backgrounds.
     
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    basically double standards

    a double standard benefits men and it is shot down in no time, a double standard benefits women and people say "well hey they are women so it's ok"

    that's the quick version
    without you living a few years as a man I can't really explain any more deeply
     
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    yes, everything with breasts down here calls EVERYTHING it lays it's eyes on honey or darling or baby
    I work with a girl who calls OTHER WOMEN baby and honey

    my boss calls be darling or baby probubly 1 out of 10 times she addresses me
    (she's cute so I like it) but it's just so...odd for someone who grew up in PA
     
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    Come on, everyone... let's all admit that boobs rule the world and understand why a great set can always stop a man, straight or gay, dead in their tracks. They're not asking you to "show us your bank account" during Mardi Gras! :biggrin:
     
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    I'm from Jersey and have been in Georgia 2 years, it still surprises me when complete strangers are so nice. It's way weird to have Walmart greeters actually greet you! :eek: The cashiers will say' "hey, honey how you doing?" and wait for an answer?!! :261: What? I just say, "fine." What kills me is when they push it, and say "really? Are you really doing fine, cause you look tired, what's going on honey?" WTF? what I'm thinking is: "You're not my shrink, just put my Kool-Aid and maxi-pads in a bag so I can get out of here." :irked: Honestly, what happend to not mingling with the hired help?:tongue:
     
  20. D_Leotols Toy

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    The south has its downs though, that's for sure. While there are people who overly nosy and friendly, theres just as many who are fucking rude. Especially the older folks. At least I notice it all the time in the restaurant biz
     
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