Hi. For the women out there that think men are weak, I, would like to pass on a little knowledge about why that is. You. Yes, thanks to the ones out there that had a fleating moment of thought about how they thought they was not being treated fairly and/or proporly, we have been plunged into a time of thinking, hey, if I do or say that then I will get in big trouble for sexual harrasment. So many things are covered in sexual hrassment that you can not even give a woman a pat on the back (shoulders not the butt guys) for doing a good job. Now it does boil down to if the woman wants to go for the charges or not. They can and a lot of them do. There have been so many things I wanted to do to a woman after a good date or just to get her to notice me that I did not do on account of having to worry about the harassment charge. I'm not saying we should go back to the days of grabbing a womans butt just to be grabbing it. Think of it this way. Say the date is going good had a good dinner and your going back out to the car. The conversation was wonderful the candle light was just right and even the cheesy musac they play in the resturant fit the evening. I have missed many kisses while being so close as to see the lip gloss on the lip and tell what flavor it is but not going in for the kiss by thinking wait a sec, what if there is the slight chance that she will see this as I am trying to force some thing that is not right on her. Chances are that that would not be the case, but, all it takes is the one time for things to go wrong and it is a sure fire jail sentence for you. Ladies we are not weak and we do want to be able to do some of the things that men are suppose to do, but, we dont know if you are one of the women that would put us away for doing what men are suppose to do and what we hear are what yall want us to do. I may be wrong and I may be totally off base about it. I want to be able to show a woman an interest in some of the things she likes and be able to show her an interest in the things I like, but, I also want to be able to show and interest in her sexually and not go to jail. Confadance is not a problem, but, I really dont like being in jail more.