I can't be arsed with this, it's tedious. Your speculation doesn't trump my first hand knowledge.
The ignore button is calling
Good thing I said generally. Definitely good thing I didn't say all.I don't really want to upset you again today, so I'm just pointing out in a clear, concise and direct way, that stereotyping of this sort is, well, stereotyping.
All these studies, researches, resources wasted about finding the average penis size, all this information. DO we have so many studies on boobs size? No, because they are not that important, that's simply the truth. How can you even say it's not important and it doesn't matter with all these facts present.....Guys are obsessing about it for a reason....
Most of us women are just looking for a gentleman. If he has a big cock then that's a cherry on top.
I think the only way to really help it is a few things.We keep telling you, you're great. We like you the way you are. Couldn't give a shit about numbers. I've never even thought about penis size except when it hurt when it was too big and one time with a micro penis. Never measured.
I don't expect you to answer, because this isn't your issue but holy crap - some men really want women to take responsibility for making them feel better about their dicks. Well sorry, but not going to happen. I don't expect men to make me feel good about my vagina, tits, ass, hair, face or any other body part. If you don't like it, don't fuck it. And I especially don't need validation from strangers.
So the OP trying to get women to standardize some kind of response to size is ridiculous. It reveals some kind of deep seated insecurity about his body. Now whether his mommy made him feel bad, or he had a bad girlfriend or he watches too much porn is between him and his therapist. Regardless, it isn't up to the rest of the women of the Internet world to "reveal the truth" about size. Because it doesn't matter.
Thank you for the entire reply, the first non hateful constructive comment in the topic, which helps in the discussion, thank you for this.
So, seelol, why having a big cock is a cherry on the top and average cock is not a cherry? Tell me please? I'm all ears haha
Coz of these expressions men want to be bigger. Everyone wants to be the cherry on top with a big penis, you just said it yourself.
Don't forget the best part.For guys who like long hair, having a great partner who happens to have long hair is the bonus. Does this mean he wouldn't accept her any other way? Some guys would reject her immediately if she had short hair. But there are plenty of guys who wouldn't see it as a hindrance. He can still run his fingers through her medium length hair and not feel sad that her hair isn't to her butt. Same goes for women, she might like a bigger dick but when she sees the guy who meets all of her other criteria she can be quite happy. This doesn't mean every time she has sex with him she is dreaming of big dick or thinking less of you.
Sure, everyone wants to be the cherry on top. But to someone you are the cherry on top for them. It might not be in the penis department, but maybe you are great to talk to and are a good listener. That's more important than dick size and it's something you can learn to do.
The reason is, for the most part, it's a guy thing.Guys are obsessing about it for a reason....
Any thoughts on this...
Have I been shot?You know how there's hunters who put out candy bars and then sit back and wait for the bears to come get it and shoot them?
That's my thoughts on this thread, except instead of bears, it's misogynists and the pathologically insecure. I can already see the usual idiots lumbering out of the woods to add their 2 cents. And they don't even know they've been shot! So much carnage!
Have I been shot?Or am I a candy bar?
And don't tell me, coz it matters only for men not for women....
The only one obsessed about penis size in a relationship, or here or in chat are.........guys.
If Men could pick the size their penis would be for the rest of their Lifes, they'd probably pick something like 15 inches, or even 20.
Even if that meant they could never have successful penetrative sex with a woman again, they'd be happy as long as they were the biggest this woman has ever had (or tried).
Best answer I've heard here in years!How do you explain the fetish for large cock in the gay community? I see you limiting things to women around here.
Also, I can't tell you how many men have posed the question of how to get their women to 1) tell them they are useless because their cock isn't big enough 2) get their woman to sleep with a bigger cocked guy even though she doesn't want to 3) have a large penis already that can't fully penetrate a woman and yet they still want to add inches to their dick. It makes no difference to them whether they have a practical dick that can please a woman. All they care about is if they can finally get to 12 inches on a ruler. I also can't tell you how many men post around here about how big their flaccid size is. Do you think women care about flaccid cock size? Well, we don't. A limp dick is not useful to us. But it's useful to impress other men. Especially in the gym locker room.
Go around a gym and see how many chicks are checking out the dudes packages and then go in the men's locker room and see who is strutting their stuff to look like the biggest stud in the room. Men fear being considered small by other men than they do women. Also note that women aren't as concerned about ball size, how big a cum shot is, how far it goes as men are.
For every example of a woman showing a preference of large size, I can show you 100 men who worry more about it (they cross all orientations). A gay man has bigger shoes to fill than a straight man does. There are more male size queens than female. And they often can fit more inside of them to warrant being so.
When I see penis enlargement apparatuses and pills that are supposed to enhance size, I just laugh and I can't believe so many men are so gullible.
Men start comparing sizes from childhood on up. Hell, look at how penis size became the topic in the Republican presidential debates between 2 childish men.
Men are the ones sizing each other up. Most of us women are just looking for a gentleman. If he has a big cock then that's a cherry on top.