This is pretty embarrassing, but was hoping to get some input from other women. My gf and I have been dating for 2 years, with a 2 month break in between. But I would say the last 4 months she has not wanted to have sex and we have barely had sex at all. This was a pretty big drop off since she used to constantly initiate sex for most of the relationship. The weird part is I can tell she doesn't want to break up bc she talks about how much she wants to marry me, and we are looking for a place together(her idea too). Sex in a relationship is important to me though. I would like to have sex a few times a week, and I know for this site that is not enough for a lot of you on here. But she rejects my advances to have sex all the time now. Usually she says she isn't in the mood and too tired from work. It is beginning to lower my self esteem and I'm getting a little depressed/paranoid. I felt like she must have been getting it somewhere else, but now it doesnt seem like that's the case. I have talked about this with her twice since this started happening, and it's kind of awkward/embarrasing. I feel like it puts pressure on her. Anyways any tips from members would be very appreciated. I love her very much, but I don't want to be in a sexless relationship, especially since she wants to get married.