Why younger men like older women

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Hi,

I was just wondering and asking from my own experience, why younger men like older women. The reason I am asking is the fact that as I am getting older, younger men are hitting on me more and more.....

What is the catch and is it me only or is it happening to you other women as well??

Thank you:confused:
 

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Maybe becuase older woman can show a young man how to do everything the right way, instead of just plowing right in. A little more experience may turn on a younger man like myself:biggrin1:
 

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Hi,

I was just wondering and asking from my own experience, why younger men like older women. The reason I am asking is the fact that as I am getting older, younger men are hitting on me more and more.....

What is the catch and is it me only or is it happening to you other women as well??

Thank you:confused:

I cannot explain why, but generally speaking I've always been attracted by older women than the younger ones. they have something very hot and exciting.
in your specific case the reason why all boys hit you is...you!
gorgeous and very attractive lady! my best congratulations
 

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Maybe becuase older woman can show a young man how to do everything the right way, instead of just plowing right in. A little more experience may turn on a younger man like myself:biggrin1:

What he said.

Also, I think that we younger guys see a sexual volcano waiting to explode when we see older women.

It's what women look for when looking for a man, it's confidence. Older women ooze confidence that young guys are attracted too. There is no more BS, you know what you like, you know what you want, and you are comfortable with yourself. And above all, you are at your sexual peak. Like fiker said, you can show us younger men how to do everything the right way. No more guessing games.

Young men are the clay, waiting for older women to mold us.:biggrin1:
 

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Heather-I think young guys are into "older" women, i.e. the MILF for a variety of reasons- (1) older woman know what they are doing, (2) they know what they want and (3) usually are attached so it tends to be a sexual liason vs. relationship. All the things that young men dream of.

In your case, you are just plain beautiful so I would imagine you get hit on by 17-71 year olds.
 

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I'd agree with the idea that mature women don't have to prove a thing. They're experienced, they know what they want, and so the fantasy for some young men is that you can get straight to business with such a woman.
 

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Hi,

I was just wondering and asking from my own experience, why younger men like older women. The reason I am asking is the fact that as I am getting older, younger men are hitting on me more and more.....

What is the catch and is it me only or is it happening to you other women as well??

Thank you:confused:
don't know but I have had one guy trying to get me to be more than friends with him for almost 20 months. He is 20 and I am 32. If he were 5 years closer in age I would jump at the chance to date him.

Now my brother has a wife that is 18 years older, to me that is too much of a difference but it works for them and they are happy. That is what really matters.
 

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Men will hit on anything atractive, And you in your later years :p are still atractive, and got an ass alot of women should envy.

Unfortunatley, we (young men) dont realize how blessed we are.
 

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Hi,

I was just wondering and asking from my own experience, why younger men like older women. The reason I am asking is the fact that as I am getting older, younger men are hitting on me more and more.....

What is the catch and is it me only or is it happening to you other women as well??

Thank you:confused:

I don't need to know why they do - I'm just glad they do! :biggrin1::wink:
 

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I've always liked women in their mid 30's. When I was in my late teens and twenties, those were the women I was attracted too. They seemed to be well established, more sophisticated, not affraid to talk about what they wanted. Not alot of drama. Now that I've moved past the mid 30's those are the younger women I look at.LOL
 

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i'm more attracted to young girls.

I'm attracted to women my own age, too. Older women don't do it for me (no offense). But to the OP, like others have said, guys are hitting on you because you're hot...not necessarily old.
 

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I married woman 21 years older than me. I'm 24, she's 45. Before I met her, I liked the MILF, Teacher, or Friend's hot mom stuff a lot. I think it was based on the whole Older woman can teach me how to please a woman thing.
 

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I don't like MILF stuff really. However, older women generally have far more cunning, and are much more coy than their younger counterparts. Both of which happen to be very sexy in my opinion.