Why?

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  1. Not_Punny

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    If you put all the hours together, end to end, that people spend here talking/typing about sex, surely it would stretch from here to eternity.

    It begs the question: why? Why do so many people come here to TALK about sex?

    Does it make them feel like big shots (pun intended)? Is it a sex substitute? Or is it because this is the first time in the history of man that people have been able to have anonymous conversation?

    Just askin'....
     
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    maybe it can be a combination of all you said above! People for the first time in history have the ability to open themselfs to the unknown and be absolutly blunt about the 'talking sex' subject! :)
    BUT that's just my opinion!
     
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    I agree.

    And I'll add one more possibility. People often create fantasy characters and come here to parade them around.

    (That being said, some of the people here are very, very real.)

    There!

    Mystery solved. :rolleyes:
     
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    OKOKOK, there is so much good in the worst of us, and so much bad in the best of us that it ill behooves any of us to talk about the rest of us.

    Maybe it would be more interesting to say why YOU come here to talk about sex.

    Me: WHen my guy isn't around, or when we're not talking. It gives me sexual expression. (Especially since I'd get arrested if I stripped down at the supermarket.)
     
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    because talking about it is more fun than doing it.
     
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    Beats talking about the weather.
     
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    Why is this a women's issue?
     
  8. ManlyBanisters

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    Not entirely sure why you posted this here, NP - You say 'people' but are you just asking for women's opinions?

    It's not (complete) anonymity for me as I know a few of the peeps here off board, too. But then they post the same kind of stuff I do, so we're even. I think it is nice to have a place where there is very little taboo.
     
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    Coming here is a sex substitute for me.
     
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    I am interested in other people's thoughts, experiences, attitudes etc etc to sex and sexual relations. It has and continues to help me with my own.

    I'm off to buy a supermarket.
     
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    My computer spazzed and I wasn't able to complete my thought above.

    This is a sex substitute along with hanging with a friend and learning what other feel about the subject at hand (huge dicks). My best friend introducted me to this site and now I'm hooked. It's a fantasy world of sorts.
     
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    Oh, get me one while you're there, will you? Thanks :smile:
     
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    When I'm not fucking, I love talking about fucking. Whether it's to educate or be educated.
     
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    i come here to feast my eyes on the beauty that is Not Punny!....thank you for sharing yourself with us. ;)
     
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    i am here to observe and report on the mating habits of heterosexual human beings. :redface:

    for true, i was still fairly new to the bisexuality thing when i stumbled across LPSG. i had heaps of questions with no real place to ask them, my social circle comes up short as hell on the straight people. the joy of LPSG is that just about every question has been asked. for serious, from pre-cum to would you install a second penis *sounds like satellite TV :tongue:*

    why i stay.... there are a few people here i absolutely adore. being logged into to LPSG makes the stalking easier.

    ml
     
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    I believe the reason people do it here so freely is because there really is no consquence. They could ask questions without it ever getting back to them or effecting their lives or thier social circles. You could be who you want to be hiding behind a username and a computer.

    People can act like jerks or perverts here, and not get punched or arrested. I doubt these people would act the same in real life with real people in fornt of them. And yet they get to interact with real people here, who are not real. (with the exception of a few)

    So this is sex candyland with no cavities. And like Dolfette said, sometimes it is more fun talking about it than doing it. Sex happens in the mind first, no?
     
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    For me it serves several purposes:

    - A socially safe way of satisfying my curiosity about others' sexual attitudes.
    - An interesting way to meet and get to know new friends.
    - An outlet for my exhibitionist tendencies.
    - An educational experience about both human behaviour and sex.
     
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    Talking with sexy people makes me all tingly inside.:biggrin1:

    I like to feel a part of a community, especially one with the common interest in large penises. It is nice to experience the wide range of personalities, sexual preferences, political affiliations, ages, cultures, and body types. And it is relatively safe (beware the banning!), where online dramas do not hurt as much as real life ones. Plus, it is there 24/7 except for an occasional breakdown or repair. Friends, family and groups are not so readily available.
     
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