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  1. hotlion23

    hotlion23 Sexy Member

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    sometimes i jsut wonder why less handsome and intelegent guys are more lucky on relathionships and with the opposite sex...
     
  2. FudgePuppy

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    don't have to worry about a less handsome guy cheating.

    where girls and guys would love being with a guy like your pic
     
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    not trying to generalize here (kinda what you did tho), but there are more handsome guys that KNOW IT... and ego tends to get in the way a lot (they are really picky about the girls, think they can have all they want b/c of their looks, etc.) NOT ALL by far... there are some really great looking guys that are really GREAT GUYS period...

    some guys are too shy
    some guys are too insecure
    some guys are afraid of commitment
    some guys just want to make excuses rather than try

    (but then there are some girls.... who are the same way)
     
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    maybe you don't see that they have a huge fat dick in their pants... and that keeps their partners happy...
     
  5. ArtofDesire

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    To add to FancyPants comments, I think some women (refering to myself) feel more comfortable with someone who is just a nice regular guy, not that I wouldn't love to be with someone who looks like you, but I'm realistic in my expectations.
     
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    being physically attractive is less important when it comes to attracting women, women aren't nearly as visual than men are .. what attracts women is depended more heavily on the guys personality and the way he acts and how confident he is etc.
     
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    Agree with Fancy. Really hot men, for the most part, have egos the size of Texas. And they've spent such a large part of their lives drawing attention to their looks that there isn't much else to build a relationship on. There are the exceptions, but they are rare.
     
  8. ArtofDesire

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    Very true, confidence, intelligence and personality are all huge turn-ons for me.
     
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    Because they're handsome and intelligent?
     
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    I think sometimes very physically attractive people have gotten what (who) they wanted easily and have not had to work too hard for it. They might not appreciate a relationship as much as an average looker and taken others for granted. Bimbos and Himbos have a certain reputation as vapid and shallow for a reason. Not all beautiful people are empty-headed idiots, but many sure as hell are.

    If you're complaining that you are too attractive to be lucky in love, you may be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Show her a sample of your spelling instead of your abs.
     
  11. LaFemme

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    Personality, confidence and intelligence are huge turn-ons for me, too.

    And I'm not sure what you're getting at with the intelligence comment in your post. If you are feel you are intelligent, then you might want to spell check before you post. If you feel that women just date really dumb guys, well, then carry on..... You'd be wrong for the most part, but carry on.
     
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    Dude, I can safely say that looks aren't the be all and end all, and I am grateful for that.
     
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    I think it depends even more so on who the guy (or girl) is as a person. So many of us men think that by manipulating ourselves in some way or consciously changing superficial things about ourselves, that women will be drawn to us. It's the "Playboy" syndrome. Guys are always asking me about their personal styles, like hair or clothing or working out, to see if I think they would be more attractive to the opposite sex. My sense is that it's more complicated, guys. If you keep your body clean and in relatively good shape, know who you are as a person, don't put on airs or pretend like you're some playa, and treat other people with respect and kindness, you'll meet good, decent and attractive women. After all women are looking for the same thing as you are.
     
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    1. It's not "luck".
    2. Perhaps they try harder.
    3. Stop idealizing other people's relationships. They might be terrible, but look good from the outside. In any case, it doesn't do you any good.
    4. No matter how pretty/cool/sexy someone is, there is someone else out there who is sick of their shit.
    5. Joe Jackson - Is She Really Going Out With Him? - YouTube
     
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    confidence
     
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    its due to the many insecurities of women.

    a female rather have an average or below average dude because they believe that dude won't cheat due to not having pussy thrown at him. same goes for someone who isn't very intelligent. intelligence is somewhat tied to money. the smarter you are, the better job you have, the more money you get. when you're rich...women throw pussy at you. i have a few friends who aren't so handsome or intelligent and they are either dating or married to some really cute or hot smart chicks.

    i see a lot of hot females with below average dudes these days and i always say to myself "damn........she can do better".

    I'm no adonis but i take great care of my body, have been told multiple times that i'm a pretty handsome dude, and am a college educated and working professional and I feel i'm more so seen as a sex experimentation, one night stand, or fuck buddy. women seem to not trust me when it comes to relationships or being serious. people only see the exterior and believe everything else is empty and theres no personality, theres no knowledge of the world, and the only thing you care about is yourself. but oh well, i'm 24 and don't mind being a casanova for a while.
     
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    Like, man, I was doin' my crunches the other day at the gym, and this hot chick keeps staring at me, so I just had to have her. But someday, yeah, I'll settle down and marry someone.
     
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    I never pick guys based on whether or not I think they are going to get too much "pussy thrown" at them. I would never pick a guy I think is "below average" or unintelligent. I don't think I know any women that would (at least not in my circle of friends). I don't even think that's a subconscious factor for me. I pick men based on chemistry, personality and a whole bunch of other things that make a relationship work.

    A relationship is not built on abs, cock size or how hot the world thinks a person might be. Hot people get dumped all the time - obviously that's not the only factor that makes a relationship work.
     
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    Maybe true from a guy' veiwpoint, from a girl's viewpoint - I'd have to disagree. Typically, women are drawn to intelligence. Good conversation is much more important than what you look like. The ability to make love to me with your mind, way more important that what you look like...


    When you see this maybe next time instead of thinking 'she can do better' you might consider... that she DID do better.... he may have a great mind, meaning.. good conversation, great creativity during sex, and well, yeah, also money in the bank...and well as banking something in his pants... :biggrin1:

    Never judge a book by its cover..
     
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    Ditto.
     
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    Don`t get it...who objectively judges the handsomeness and intelligence in other men? You? According to what chart? Judging by what standards?

    All your thoughts are totally subjective therefore your question should be sounding more towards "how come that girls I find attractive/funny/sweet and would like their attention/relationship with are with men who IN MY OPINION are less handsome and less intelligent than me..."

    So in general...you can simply ask..."how come other people have more luck in their relationships than me"...cos your subjective view of their looks or mind are totally irrelevant...
     
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    I only date dudes who use spell check. True story. Also, whenever I have dated guys with lots of visible muscle definition I chose them thinking they would be good influences on me. I figured they were into health and fitness, and would not derail my own goals. I chose them because I wanted the female version of their bodies. Each one I dated, however, always wanted to keep me fat. They would feed me. They all had to go! Ever since the last time, I am generally suspicious of extremely fit-looking guys who express any sexual interest in me. Lastly, I always think the guy on my arm is the best-looking, most charming, funniest, and brightest in the room. Maybe other guys look at him and disagree, but it doesn't matter since I'm the one taking him home.
     
  23. Kotchanski

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    You don't mention attitude in your post...

    Have you maybe stopped to consider that your less attractive, less intelligent friends are getting more attractive, more intelligent women who stick around than you do because they simply have better attitudes than you do?

    Evidence:

    They're married/in a relationship
    They aren't here posting about women throwing pussy around
    They aren't here posting that women are only out for the safe option
    They aren't here posting that we're intimidated by money, good looks or intelligence.
    They aren't here posting about how much better they are in the looks/intelligence department than all their friends

    Nah, silly me, couldn't be that could it.

    Side note: When posting about your college education, and your professional working life in an attempt to elevate yourself textually above those you're describing, it is best to use correct capitalization, else it only adds to my reading of your post, that the reason you don't get what your friends have is because you're unjustly arrogant and this oozes out of every pore of your being.
     
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    Plus pulling "duck face" makes you look like an ass.
     
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    a cheesy stereotype of a poser with a shitty attitude to women will never be as attractive as his funny, kind hearted friend.
     
  26. EllieP

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    I see two guys: one acts as if he's looking in a mirror all of the time, making sure his hair is perfect, shirt is smooth, teeth are shining. The other guy is making everyone at the table laugh. Guess which one I want to hang with?

    Seriously, we know guys are going for the looks, but that doesn't mean we are. And your face is not going to do it for me. I like the complete package, but personality comes absolutely first. I may look at your bum and immediately look for an attraction. But if it's nothing more than bum then it's just not going to work out. OK?

    Perfect hair. Wow. More perfect than mine. That equals high maintenance, and Darling, I just don't have time for you to be in the shop.

    I don't want to generalize and tell you all women think like me because I know there are some who like the pretty boys.
     
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    I would suggest that Hung Jon has the reply we all need to read.
     
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    You said you were handsome and intelligent; that is one opinion. It may not be the consensus.
     
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    I agree with this totally. I only deal with men who are affectionate and act like gentlemen that knows how to treat me like a lady. In the past, I have been insanely attracted to men who were not so good looking but because they treated me well they turned me on more than very good looking men who did not have those qualities. I lucked out with my current boyfriend, he has an A+ face, body, dick and he treats me like a queen! His parents are still together and his father treats his mother well so I credit his parents for putting out such a good man into the world!
     
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    Based upon analysis of personal ads and online dating sites, Folks generally have a pretty accurate idea of their own attractiveness, and generally do not seek mating opportunities with people they consider out of their league.

    Men, for example, generally assume that super attractive females ( or, if gay, males ) already are taken, or that they will have an attitude and shoot them down for not being attractive enough.

    There are far more average looking people than super attractive people, the majority of whom will likely have this bias.

    As a result... highly attractive people get less offers than average looking people... although the offers they do get will tend to be from people who are more attractive, or who have higher self confidence than the average.


    Finally... people do assess what they have to offer and what they can reasonably expect to demand in a mate... people who are highly attractive will tend to decline offers from people who they think do not bring enough of what they want to the table...

    Ergo, the most successful strategy is to approach those people who seem to be on a par with your own level of attractiveness, regardless of that level.

    Average people who try for other average people will succeed more often than average people who try for the super attractive.



    As to intelligence...
    Intelligence is a tricky thing. It is not necessarily correlated with success in life. The entire idea of nerds and geeks being called that is that their intelligence gets in the way of normal social interaction...

    However, it also factors in... Most people are average in smarts. A guy whose idea of fun is discussing recent developments in physics is not going to be all that attractive to a girl whose idea of fun is jello shots.

    Because even geeks, as men, are visually driven... they might find the girl attractive... even tho she has little to offer intellectually.

    By the same token, a woman with brains might find a muscly jock sexy... but does she want to wake up with him in the morning to find there is nothing in there to which she can relate ?


    As with other areas... the greatest success will be when intelligent people look for similarly smart people.



    Where disparities accrue is in odd matches... like a very successful, but ugly guy, getting a very beautiful... but stupid woman.

    But in these cases, its just a matter of each understanding that they have a particular strength which can buy them something they want in a mate.
    The woman wants security... the man want desirability. And neither really cares if they can relate on a deeper level.


    So the answer is that love is still an economy. And the marketplace of desire is just as brutal and competitive as any other kind of marketplace.
     
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