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Hmmm. I'm wondering if there is a double-standard somehow in the posts on this thread. On the one hand it's: size doesn't matter, be happy with what you have, God loves variety, you'll probably find somebody eventually, all dicks that work are equally desirable, etc.

But I'm guessing that the same people who are expressing those views are really glad they lucked out. Clearly society, rightly or wrongly, reinforces the idea that bigger is better. There's not a single well-hung guy in LPSG who wishes he had a below-average dick and wants trade down in size. In all the zillions of posts about "problems" here of finding partners who can "take" you, or of being the topic of envy, or of finding condoms or clothes, etc., there's also a constant subtext of delight in your fantastic good luck in being large.

I'm not denigrating that at all -- it's perfectly natural and totally understandable.

The fact is, life's not fair. (Or, if you're a believer, God's not fair.) It's hard on anyone to be at the low end of the scale in anything that is central to self-esteem, such as physical attractiveness or perceived prowess.

Maybe it's OK, more respectful, to acknowledge that the other person's pain has a real basis rather than blaming him/her for feeling bad. But then again, since we can't change our genetic makeup and we can't change society's evaluations, maybe it's more respectful to lie, and keep affirming other qualities in totally unrelated areas that he can pretend make up for what pains him ["ok, so you're always the smallest guy in the locker room, but hey, you're good in Spanish."].

Just thinking out loud. The original question shouldn't be dismissed as self-pity. But I certainly don't know the answer.
 

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Bro , its like this. We are all balanced in one way or another, this means that for all your percieved shortcomings you have wonderfull things about you also. your work is to find them. Also, im sure there is a woman out there (probably a few) that would be completely happy with the current size of your love muscle. Someone once said to me "if you look like Danny DeVito but think of yourself as Brad Pitt, more people will see you as Brad Pitt." and with that i say WORD!
 

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Actually im sure there are a few men with huge penises that hate the stereotypes that go along with them, and would be happy going down in size, just to be "normal." not all of them, but im sure those people exist. I used to want a bigger penis, but im sure if i had one i probably would run into women who couldnt take it, so while my penis is average, i wouldnt change it for the world.
 

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Not sure if it's all God's fault.
My step-dad use to say to me I had big gentials from the devil's workshop.
Use to threaten me and say he was gonna have my stuff guiled (fixed)=
vasectomy.
Of course if didn't happen...Will thank God for that.
 

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Why do you think God gives guys such different sizes? Guys with small ones feel so bad.


The same reason he made some white, some black, some tall, some short, some weak, some strong, some sickly, and some healthy. That's just the way life and nature work. Cock size is no different, and no more or less of an attribute that any of these other physical traits. We are all different.
 

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Penis size IS important in some respects and needs to be acknowledged in order to deal with the subject honestly. That said, it is only one factor affecting one's life.

Also it should be noted that the vast majority of men are packing much less dick than a woman's pussy is capable of handling. I've seen more than one video of a horse hung guy switching from the pussy after it has turned sloppy to the tight bung hole. The point is, most men have dicks that are too small from that perspective. And you will find VERY few men that would turn down a bit more size, regardless of how big they are.

So, be aware of who you are, accept yourself and your limitations, and be happy.
 

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Actually im sure there are a few men with huge penises that hate the stereotypes that go along with them, and would be happy going down in size, just to be "normal." Not all of them, but im sure those people exist.

"a few"? "exist"? Maybe. :confused: But it's interesting that there's no thread on that topic here, at the Large Penis Support Group, the perfect place to share that, ah, terrible burden... Plus, going down to average isn't the same as going down to small, and small or below average is the heart of the original poster's feelings. And finally, if big guys wishing to be smaller are so rare that none of them has ever shown up here, I would think that that just proves the point.
 

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Bro , its like this. We are all balanced in one way or another, this means that for all your percieved shortcomings you have wonderfull things about you also.

With respect...this "balance of characteristics" idea just doesn't describe the reality I know, or the people I know, etc. Are you saying that for all the shortcomings we have that make us "worse off" than other people, we have just as many pluses that make us "better off" than other people? The scale is always balanced for each person? Well...that doesn't fit the reality I know. I certainly know people who have WAY more good stuff in life than bad -- they're smart, self-confident, pretty well off financially, happy in their marriage, physically attractive, all that. No bad anywhere NEAR that for "balance." And I know others who are poor, with genetic illness, unattractive, and not terribly bright, and certainly without nearly enough on the "good" side to draw people to them except out of pity.

In my humble experience, the "balance" idea of good and bad stuff is just a platitude we wish were true, because it saves us from having to accept that life/God is not fair, and that some people are dealt fantastic hands and others are dealt shit. We don't have to feel bad about being on the lucky end if we keep believing that everybody's plate is equally "balanced."

In the total scheme of things dick size is not intrinsically a major thing -- but it IS an important part of how our society defines "masculinity" and "prowess" and all that. It's not easy to be at the ass-end of the spectrum on something that everyone subconsciously or consciously counts as part of "masculinity."

"Be happy with what you've got" -- like it's your fault if you don't like it that "God" gave me good things and you shit -- is a tough message...

Sorry...I'll shut up. This touches real buttons with me that I shouldn't unload into this thread. I do social work. And believe me, life/God is unfair with a capital U.
 

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In context, I read once that in some ancient Greek city states that having a big penis was considered comical and a curse by the gods. Kind of like having a nose too big for your face.

An interesting change in perspective...
 

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And you will find VERY few men that would turn down a bit more size, regardless of how big they are.


yah, actually, i'm very happy with my 6" x 5.5" thanks. that said, again, the OP is saying that cock size seems to be the key to happiness, and that just isn't true.