Girth is usually the problem w/ my SO & I, although he has hit my cerivx at times in some positions. We presently have the problem compounded w/ him being out of town for a few days, usually 3-4 before we can be together, again.
We are trying to get moved to where his job is now, but neither of us have alot of time to find a new home, & pack up our old one. He works alot of over time. He just left out this a.m. & we probalby will not be together the next time for 9-10 days from now. We've been crunced for time latley when we are together & not a whole lot of time for adequate foreplay, so sex has been more painful in past few weeks. Any suggestions on lubricant that does not dry up or become sticky as K-y & astrogilde do? He loses his erection if I'm having pain, so need suggestions. When in the throes of lovemaking, it's hard to say in a normal tone of voice, "I'm having pain,"
Of course, his erections are harder & wider (from his usual 6-6.25in cir.) if it's been a while.