Wide Girth Penis - Any takers?

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Thanks Davejh7....for the "formula" to calculate diameter.

I think no matter how daunting the girth I would still be interesed in at least Trying to accomodate.......
 

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Girth is usually the problem w/ my SO & I, although he has hit my cerivx at times in some positions. We presently have the problem compounded w/ him being out of town for a few days, usually 3-4 before we can be together, again.
We are trying to get moved to where his job is now, but neither of us have alot of time to find a new home, & pack up our old one. He works alot of over time. He just left out this a.m. & we probalby will not be together the next time for 9-10 days from now. We've been crunced for time latley when we are together & not a whole lot of time for adequate foreplay, so sex has been more painful in past few weeks. Any suggestions on lubricant that does not dry up or become sticky as K-y & astrogilde do? He loses his erection if I'm having pain, so need suggestions. When in the throes of lovemaking, it's hard to say in a normal tone of voice, "I'm having pain,"
Of course, his erections are harder & wider (from his usual 6-6.25in cir.) if it's been a while.
 

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I sometimes wonder at the observational skills of some guys. You do not have to be a gynecalogist to know that anatomically and physiologically that most women easily adapt to penis size, and widening the vagina is theoretically (I am a male) more pleasurable than having it deep stretched because a thick penis will open up the labia minora which in turn pulls on the clitoris giving greater sensation. If a woman baulks at width then she is very inexperienced probably, or her hormones are out of kilter. Of course aesthetically/psychologically women may have a preference but biologically what is the problem here.

Personally I think I am being fair that in having a girth thicker than average I am not going to be college kid like hung up on tightness. This is an intelligent board for adults not fantasy erotica.:tongue:
 

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Sergeant_Torpedo said:
I sometimes wonder at the observational skills of some guys. You do not have to be a gynecalogist to know that anatomically and physiologically that most women easily adapt to penis size, and widening the vagina is theoretically (I am a male) more pleasurable than having it deep stretched because a thick penis will open up the labia minora which in turn pulls on the clitoris giving greater sensation. If a woman baulks at width then she is very inexperienced probably, or her hormones are out of kilter. Of course aesthetically/psychologically women may have a preference but biologically what is the problem here.

Personally I think I am being fair that in having a girth thicker than average I am not going to be college kid like hung up on tightness. This is an intelligent board for adults not fantasy erotica.:tongue:

You have a good point. But how many guys really get their girl really ready before they try to penetrate? Even a very small penis can hurt if inserted with no stiumulation. And from what I have read, you are correct about the depth length. Only five to six inches can be inserted in many vaginas without pain.

Anal sex: Yeah width would matter a WHOLE lot there.
 

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Hmmm....I don't thinks it's necessary to hit the bottom of the well, as long as you can beat the hell out of the sides! Go GIRTH!!:tongue:
 

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My wife had trouble when we were first married with my girth. She was a virgin to boot.

I never thought of myself as large at all. I still don't really. However, I found that if you actually found an object the same size as you penis and held it so you could see it in a different light. You'd be surprised of the size . . . regardless of what the perception you may have from it's fixed point of reference.

In the first year, I am sure KY had to expand and run an extra line to accomidate our usage. With time, and patience, she conformed to the girth and we have great fun. Still, if we just jump in for a quickie, it is uncomfortable for her at first. With a slow start and some rolling about before really going at it, it is not painful and she quickly can accept it as she becomes more and more aroused.

In short . . . so to speak, It will work out for you. Work with her.

Enjoy what you have no matter what you have.
 

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davidjh7 said:
Fairly simple---just divide the circumference by PI, which is 3.14159 (to 5 significant digits, for the purests), to get the diameter. A rough estimate? Divide the circumference by roughly three. For instance, a 6" circumference is going to be a bit under 2" wide. Note, this assumes a perfectly cylindrical cock, which is rare, but is close enough for intial guesstimation.

PI is only useful if your dick shaft is a perfectly circular cylinder. So 5 signifigant digits isn't going to help the measurement be more accurate. :) My shaft is 48mm wide at the widest point, and 142mm in circumference. Divide 48 by 142 and you get 2.958 - which is not quite PI. I measure the girth from side to side - which is fatter then the top side to underside measurement.
 

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robboj69 said:
PI is only useful if your dick shaft is a perfectly circular cylinder. So 5 signifigant digits isn't going to help the measurement be more accurate. :) My shaft is 48mm wide at the widest point, and 142mm in circumference. Divide 48 by 142 and you get 2.958 - which is not quite PI. I measure the girth from side to side - which is fatter then the top side to underside measurement.

Please read the qualifying note at the end of my original post.:smile:
I'm an engineer, therefore, recognize that there are no absolutes in the universe. Including this statement.
 

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smileymoo said:
The idea of being stretched out before penetration is a real turn on. Keener on girth than length, as I like it deep and from behind, and if a guy is too long that isnt possible without it being v. painful.
Have to say no way jose to the anal though, but then never appealled to me, what ever the size.

I agree with u Smileymoo :wink:
 

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Well, my experience is that women like a big girth at the first sight. Though, sometimes I wish mine was thinner. All the girls I had sex with were not able to take my cock the first time. It ends up a handjob or a blowjob the first times and even that hurts sometimes if their teeth.... Only after a couple of times trying she is able to hold on till the end. Of course after a while it is no problem anymore. Mine is 7.8" girth (mid) 7.3" (top), and one thing I have always wanted to try is anal. But all the girls until now replied "no, not with that one, never ever that is gonna fit" So I think girls like to take a 6" - 6.5" circumference. Probably that would be a better size. To be honest, I don't like it anymore to hear "oh my god, that thing is huge" and that's only with a 8.7" length. Simply because I think most of the girls can't take that girth very easily.
 

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Dbug said:
Well, my experience is that women like a big girth at the first sight. Though, sometimes I wish mine was thinner. All the girls I had sex with were not able to take my cock the first time. It ends up a handjob or a blowjob the first times and even that hurts sometimes if their teeth.... Only after a couple of times trying she is able to hold on till the end. Of course after a while it is no problem anymore. Mine is 7.8" girth (mid) 7.3" (top), and one thing I have always wanted to try is anal. But all the girls until now replied "no, not with that one, never ever that is gonna fit" So I think girls like to take a 6" - 6.5" circumference. Probably that would be a better size. To be honest, I don't like it anymore to hear "oh my god, that thing is huge" and that's only with a 8.7" length. Simply because I think most of the girls can't take that girth very easily.

Okey- Question.
Why are most vibrators 8 inches plus but when a female gets to see a large cock;why does she say Oh my God? A new thread I think?:rolleyes:
 

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davidjh7 said:
Please read the qualifying note at the end of my original post.:smile:
I'm an engineer, therefore, recognize that there are no absolutes in the universe. Including this statement.

Hehe, I wonder how many of us who are obsessed with cock size statistics are engineers or scientists? :)
 

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having a wide girth is a pain if the guy can't keep his teeth out of harms way. the idea gets most guys going down on it like mad. does anyone else get fed up having to tell guys to watch thier teeth. it might just be a piece of meat to them, but it still hurts when they try to get their mouths around it and forget to open wide enough.
 

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peter1972 said:
having a wide girth is a pain if the guy can't keep his teeth out of harms way. the idea gets most guys going down on it like mad. does anyone else get fed up having to tell guys to watch thier teeth. it might just be a piece of meat to them, but it still hurts when they try to get their mouths around it and forget to open wide enough.

Not only guys, females too...