Wierd Errection Issue

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  1. sk2k

    sk2k New Member

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    Lads, I'm straight and I've got an amazing girlfriend at the mo but I've a bit of an issue at the mo lol

    Geting an erection no problem by myself and with her! excellent...

    Having Sex if I hold off the urge to cum initally I start to lose my erection in about 5 minutes after the urge goes away and I can do nothing to get it back while Inside or still going at it. Noe if I pull out and she puts her hand/mouth on me it pops up again no problem and she can pull me off or whatever and stay rock hard.... great!

    but when I go back inside her I loose it again in like a few minutes again and again.....

    Its annoying me, its like when I withhold the urge until it passes I cannot get it back no matter how hard/fast/style/position etc I/we go and its like my penis has no feeling again to get the urge back!

    Anyone understand where I'm coming from? I recon its all in my head
     
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    Do you jerk off a lot. Because often with guys who pull themselves off often they get use to the tightness of a hand no pussy can compete with.
     
  3. sk2k

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    I have my days alright... Normal days I'd masturbate once a day prob but there are the days wheres its 4 odd times a day.

    Maybe a dose of absistence would do me good?
     
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    Yep, got much the same thing myself (except even hand and/or BJ doesn't always get it back - mostly it does but not always).

    I'd go along with it mainly being an "in the head" thing but don't know how to unlock the bit "in the head" that's causing it.

    I take L-Arginine regularly and also I've tried Rize2 and that does the trick for me, though I don't much like the "hangover" it gives me. Never tried anything like viagra or cialis.
     
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    might try them as a last resort alright..

    Just out of interest, Where do u get Rize2 in the uk mate?
     
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    Blue pills are great I heard?

    However I had this for a little while whilst single. I was jacking a lot so when I picked up a one night stand I'd get bored with the lack of grip in her pussy. In the end I just held off jacking for 2 or 3 days in the build up to a night out or arranged shag. Works a treat.
     
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    I get the supplements from "Simply Supplements" (not an ad they're just really good value);

    Got Rize2 off a UK e-bay seller, haven't found any UK website that sells it.
     
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    The art of arousal, sexuality, is a mental chemical thing. Don't forget there's billions of people all with their own unique chemical balances and turns ons. Maybe it's just something you have to get use to.

    So....During sex you can feel yourself starting to reach orgasm and you physically stop. Maybe that signals your brain that "you're completely done", thus signaling the penis to go take a break when really you meant it as "wait a little longer".

    OR... Maybe it's her ... :33: ...

    If she gets tight then all of a sudden you take a break... During that time maybe it turns her off and when you go back in she's not as tight as before...
     
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    If you're getting close to shooting and you stop, it could be that you've hit the trigger and although you don't actually shoot a load, your body thinks that you have and goes into refracory mode. If that's the case, either don't get quite as close to shooting before you stop or go all the way. It actually sounds as if you're playing around with edging. It's not an easy skill to learn. You've got plenty of time to practice that later. I'm assuming you're a fairly young guy, and if you're wanking up to four times a day, you could always go for seconds or thirds rather than holding off on the first.

    If you've been wanking a lot, a pussy or an ass feels totally different to your hand and you just don't get the same stimulation. If that's the problem, cut down on the wanking and get a bit more sex in.

    Another thing to consider is the mental aspect of sex. If you're concentrating on what you're doing and worrying about what's happening (or not) that's going to put you off right away. Quit thinking about it (easier said than done) and you should get on a lot better.

    There are probably a whole heap of other things it could be, but I think those three are the most common.

    If you're worried about getting her to orgasm, concentrate on that first during foreplay. Try to get her to come before you enter her, then you won't need to worry that you haven't satisfied her before you come. Often, if you get a woman to orgasm during foreplay, she's more likely to come again during penetrative sex.
     
  10. sk2k

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    well lads my girl is away on hols at the mo and I'm holding back on the masturbation. So we'll see how it goes this weekend when shes back and I sped the nite with her.

    I really have no problem making her cum when I'm hard or with my hands, its actually quite easy lol. but she always wants more :p

    yea I'm only 25 so I really shouldnt be having any physical problems, I'll see how this weekend goes and try to enjoy the moment! :) I'll try a mixture of not holding back and going for seconds on recovery lol and changing positions/easing off when before I start the "build up". Hope all goes well!

    I'll let u all know how it goes :)
     
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