Wierd Work Experience

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  1. zgrog2000

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    There are gang showers at my workplace. Work is quite dirty and taking a shower is a daily part of work. One of the guys I work with is about 6'4" and appears to have a rather nice cock. The other day he and I were in the shower together. I was minding my own business washing my hair. Not sure what your gang shower experience is, but it's hard not to see another guys cock. Anyway, I turned around to get shampoo bottle and caught a glimpse of his cock. Around 5" soft. A few seconds later after rinsing my hair, I noticed that he had grown significantly, He wasn't fully erect but was getting hard.

    When I saw that his cock had grown I started to get hard. I noticed him check me out and then we both started getting harder. The last thing I wanted was to have someone else walk in on two guys in shower with hard ons, I got the hell out of there, wrapped towell around me and thought about Rosanne Barr.

    Few days later, I had just finished toweling off and he was just getting undressed. Once he got his shorts off, I was naked at the time, I wanted to get a look at his cock to see if it was as big as I thought. I guess he was doing the same thing. Once again, he started growing on me. I was putting on my pants and kept pulling them on, which was hard with a rapidly swelling cock.

    My damn problem is that this guy works for me and I don't want anything to get in the way of work. I'd really like to same something to him while we are both getting hard, make a joke or something, but I don't want to fuck up the work place.

    I'm not saying that I want to suck his cock or something, I just think that it would be cool to talk about why we get hard when we are naked around each other and appearantly not anyone else at work. I just think it could cause an uncomfortable work environment.

    Anyone else have anything like this happen.
     
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    I wouldn't say anything to him while at work or on work time. Maybe if you could "happen" to walk to your cars together after work and see if he'd want to go for coffee or something. Then when you're off property and away from the work environment you could casually mention it.

    Since you're his boss and if he took any mention of it the wrong way he could turn around and slap you with all kinds of lawsuits.
     
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    I know, that's what really sucks. It could be a cool conversation.
     
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    how do you know he doesn't get hard around anyone else at work? :eyes:

    what, work? hell no!
     
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    how do you know he doesn't get hard around anyone else at work? :eyes:

    what, work? hell no!
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    If he works for you.............You are his supervisor.............Bad idea to get involved with, as he would legally have you by goodies (if that'was his goal).

    Should you decide to go for "it", go slowly, ever so slowly. I would resist and take charge of the matter. In my day, I caused a few erections due to envy. Not many got more than the preview.

    You do not have to nail every interested party. Be incharge of that monster you posses.

    blackwood.
     
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    It's just my opinion, but I'd be really, really careful in this situation if I were you, zgrog!

    Sounds like you're not considering anything more than a conversation about it, and I know what you mean about how that could be a cool sort of commiserating/bonding conversation (“Hey, can you believe these crazy things?”), but that can go wrong in so many ways. If he’s at all embarrassed about his erection in these situations, he might really overreact to ANY sort of mention of it from you. Especially with your being his boss/supervisor.

    In my experience, erections in those situations do not necessarily constitute attraction, you know? God knows I've gotten inexplicably aroused at the perfectly wrong moment through nervousness or whatever.

    Plus, as blackwood mentioned, what if drawing you into a legal entanglement is his goal? Sounds unlikely, but you don’t know what he’s thinking. The fact that this is the workplace changes everything.

    Sexual harassment suits happen, man, and more often than we realize. It might cost you your career, your reputation, and lots of money.

    Good luck with it!
     
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    I would say that there is some inexplicable chemistry there that might be the formula for dynamite. A nice warm shower is a sexy experience anyway and perhaps both of you had some build up of sexual tension that exhibited itself by viewing another good looking naked man. You know that once that button has been pushed, you will always have some sort of subliminal erotic feelings in each other's presence because of that experience so where will this go -- most likely not to double dating at the Burger Shack so you better do whatever you need to to put lots of space between you two even if you have to sit around filthy in your office once in a while. It will probably fade into oblivion eventually if you don't keep fanning that strange little spark you aroused in each other.
     
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    Guys get erections.

    Guys can get erections easier in a nice warm shower where the heat helps things distend.

    Guys who shower together will likely see semis and erections that have nothing to do with sex.

    Erections are contagious. :party: Enjoy the view but don&#39;t touch. You&#39;ll regret a courtroom full of people staring at you while you explain just how things got started.
     
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    I&#39;ve seen may responses similar to yours, where people say it is perfectly normal to get erections in men&#39;s rooms and lockers rooms, etc.

    In my entire life, I have never, ever experienced an erection of my own, nor seen one on another male, in any locker-room, ever. I&#39;m talking Junior High and High School gym classes, High school team locker-rooms, The Y when I was a teenager, and health clubs my entire adult life. None, nada, nothing.

    While I&#39;m at it, I&#39;ve never seen a &#39;soft hung&#39; guy that was more than 4-5 inches, maximum. Sometimes I wonder what world you guys live in&#33; ;)

    LapDog :p
     
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    hung_big: 2 words: Company Policy
     
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    Has anyone here EVER had a relationship with someone at work that DIDN&#39;T end badly?
     
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    I&#39;ve seen may responses similar to yours, where people say it is perfectly normal to get erections in men&#39;s rooms and lockers rooms, etc.

    In my entire life, I have never, ever experienced an erection of my own, nor seen one on another male, in any locker-room, ever. I&#39;m talking Junior High and High School gym classes, High school team locker-rooms, The Y when I was a teenager, and health clubs my entire adult life. None, nada, nothing.

    While I&#39;m at it, I&#39;ve never seen a &#39;soft hung&#39; guy that was more than 4-5 inches, maximum. Sometimes I wonder what world you guys live in&#33; ;)

    LapDog :p
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    For the sake of preventing what could be a messy situation I tend to think you should take the conservative approach that this fellow suggests. Can you just not see the possible alternatives -- I&#39;ll just invite him over for a drink and we will laugh about this experience -- This was just one of those things, perhaps if we could go out with the fellows and play a little touch football or something then a little contact will convince us there is nothing to this -- Hey we&#39;re two sexy stud muffins, what&#39;s the big deal, we&#39;ll just go ahead, keep showering together and amuse ourselves about being so damn attractive to both sexes -- NOPE, if you don&#39;t want anything to happen you are going to have to take positive actions never to put yourselves in private close encounters situations ever again, ever.
     
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    I went to my health club once and I was coming out of the steam room and there was my boss coming toward me. I didn&#39;t even know he was a memeber and I was a little surprised to see him there. He is a healthy person that exercises and watches what he eats... I didn&#39;t have my towel around me and he got a good look at me I am sure. I went to the showers and he followed. Although he did not stand close to me, I did see him looking at my body on several occasions. He never said anything to me but, I could tell he was checking me out. When I left out of the showers,(I didn&#39;t take very long) I heard someone say something about my body and my size. I didn&#39;t recognize his voice as being the one talking. There were a couple of older men in the showers at that time. I had put on some shorts and was drying my hair when he walked by me. He said he would probably see me again sometime at the gym and it was good to see me. He has never mentioned anything at work about seeing me naked at the gym. I just think it would make me feel very uneasy if he did mention it. One day when I came into work the top two buttons of my shirt were unbuttoned and he was looking at my chest and I could feel that he was checking me out again. I just kind of felt funny. He did tell me to button my shirt before I went out on the counter. One of the other male workers said, "yet, his hair will get blown all over the food".. Again, my boss didn&#39;t say anything about me. So I guess he is being very careful about any remarks that might come back to haunt him in the future.
     
  14. Slingshot

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    Or, he’s very sensibly avoiding making you feel awkward for no other reason than it is the mature thing to do.

    Regarding your position, zqroq2000:
    As curious as you might be as to what may happen next, you already know that the best thing is to avoid the situation. There are probably plenty of other guys to whom you can talk to about this sort of thing (LPSG, for eg) without messing up the workplace, or getting yourself potentially into trouble. If you want to be friends with this guy, fine, as long as you approach it without referring to your cock. While it seems like an odd place to start a friendship from, even the tacit awareness of your shared experience may make for a good starting point.

    --

    Don&#39;t screw the crew.
     
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    <<When I saw that his cock had grown I started to get hard. I noticed him check me out and then we both started getting harder. The last thing I wanted was to have someone else walk in on two guys in shower with hard ons, I got the hell out of there, wrapped towell around me and thought about Rosanne Barr.>>


    Rosanne Barr&#33; That would take the starch out of my noodle too&#33; LOLOLOL :wow:



    <<My damn problem is that this guy works for me and I don&#39;t want anything to get in the way of work. I&#39;d really like to same something to him while we are both getting hard, make a joke or something, but I don&#39;t want to fuck up the work place.>>


    Though I have never had an oppertunity to get naked with any of my employees I would concider this a very sticky subject since in todays "politicaly correct" society all you have to do is make a subordinate employee feel uncomfortable to have a sexual harrassment suit brought against you. I know that an erection is not uncomfortable, unless you get one while giving a disertation infront of an auditorium full of middle aged housewives on the proper use and care of teflon cookware. :eek: I could be very wrong about this guy but keep in mind that there are lots of people out there looking for ways to screw up someone elses life for financial gain through our over used leagal system.

    Just my oppinion and a word of caution.

    Jimmy
     
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