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i have a question and was wondering if any chaps on here have told there wives that they are bisexual and all tuned out ok
 

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Tried to run me over with her car. Showed up at my parents house (yrs after I left home) at 9pm on a Tuesday screaming like a banshee about "sexuality." There was more but these are the highlights. A few yrs later after we split she's come around every now and then wanting me to fuck her.
 
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I've had 2, both knew. The first one was bi herself and loved seeing guys getting off together and general swinging and group sex.
 
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The women I married knew. Same with other relationships with women and with men too since I feel it is best to put that info out there right at the start as part of open honesty.
 
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Tried to run me over with her car. Showed up at my parents house (yrs after I left home) at 9pm on a Tuesday screaming like a banshee about "sexuality." There was more but these are the highlights. A few yrs later after we split she's come around every now and then wanting me to fuck her.

Uhmm, "A few yrs later after we split..." Like a few years later after she tried to kill you?? :eek:

*You take that "working it out" thing seriously :tongue:
 

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Uhmm, "A few yrs later after we split..." Like a few years later after she tried to kill you?? :eek:

*You take that "working it out" thing seriously :tongue:

A lot had happened. I'd been through drug addiction and out the other side and what happened 6 years before seemed like 100 years ago. Found out she was still the same crazy bitch she'd always been. Also found out every one of her subsequent BF's turned out to be gay or bisexual.
 
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I often wondered about that. I don't share what seems to be a common stance gay guys have with bi guys. The ones I've met say they can engage in sex differently with a guy than they do a woman. To be honest, you guys are lucky bastards. The entire planet is your dating pool. :)

But, for the guys wanting to be honest...how does a woman accept it? I see these clips that look home made where the girl is encouraging her man to have his cock sucked by a guy. One of my favorites is this hot straight couple...he fucks her and then she puts on a strap on and does him. Some women say it's hot to watch their guy with another guy.
 

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I often wondered about that. I don't share what seems to be a common stance gay guys have with bi guys. The ones I've met say they can engage in sex differently with a guy than they do a woman. To be honest, you guys are lucky bastards. The entire planet is your dating pool. :)

But, for the guys wanting to be honest...how does a woman accept it? I see these clips that look home made where the girl is encouraging her man to have his cock sucked by a guy. One of my favorites is this hot straight couple...he fucks her and then she puts on a strap on and does him. Some women say it's hot to watch their guy with another guy.

I'm with you on the first statement, as for the second: true only in theory, in reality finding guys are way more difficult
 

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My ex used to describe me as her "gay husband". LOL! She seemed to affectionately use this expression but at inopportune times like around family. I don't know that she ever accepted that I was bi, but she sure would defend my right to be to others. Someone once tried to criticise me in a public place and she just told them that was why gay/bi men make the best lovers. She was pretty hot herself.
 
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Haven't been married, but the last few women I've been with all knew I was bi and were totally fine with it.
 

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I was in a long term relationship for 5 years, I told her I was bi at the start of the relationship and she was fine with it. She'd never have wanted to see me get off with another bloke though- she was far too prudish for that.
 

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Here is an opinion that you may have not considered. Sometimes a spouse loses his or her sexual desire as that person ages. This is true of my wife. She is content to do it once a month. On the other hand, my desire has increased.

Despite this, our marriage is still a good one.

I masturbate... an awful lot.

This compromise is working for us.
 

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Both my gf and I are bi, so that makes things easier. It's keeping secrets that can kill off a relationship. Since I was in my teens I have revealed my bi side to anyone I want to be in a relationship with. Honesty is the best way — even if she decides she never wants to see me again. And not just "she" — if you're entering a relationship with a gay guy who has strong feelings about you, I think you owe it to him to admit that you like chicks too.
 
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Here is an opinion that you may have not considered. Sometimes a spouse loses his or her sexual desire as that person ages. This is true of my wife. She is content to do it once a month. On the other hand, my desire has increased.

Despite this, our marriage is still a good one.

I masturbate... an awful lot.

This compromise is working for us.
I am gay but I have a similar situation with my partner and I also masturbate a lot.
 

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Told my wife a year before we got married, she was shocked and concerned I was gonna leave her for a man. Been married 13 years now, we often talk about bring in another man for the both of us. But she keeps chickening out. I'm patient : P In the meantime, I watch gay porn and jerk off.