alteredego, you CAN'T be serious!!
theres a reason an ex is an ex, and thats because you aren't together anymore and that whole "friends" approach is BS it can never work with any sexual tension. especcially if you're in another relationship. your current relationship is your priority and if you can't handle that then you shouldn't be involved with that person because it isn't fair to them.
why would she even AGREE to get drinks with him in the first place? and then smoke weed? look man if she isnt a pothead/alcoholic then that definitely isn't something she should be doing with another man, let alone her ex.
alteredego, keep the "mature, open communication" + "trust" argument for another topic. this one is as clear as crystal.
bigblack9: its better to be safe than sorry. i've been cheated on. i am young and it shouldn't be half as important in the long run as your situation but believe me the truth will hurt at first but it shall set you free. and if your not being played then at least you get passed that. just be careful how you go about asking/investigating, dont wanna ruin a relationship that is actually working.
theres a reason an ex is an ex, and thats because you aren't together anymore and that whole "friends" approach is BS it can never work with any sexual tension. especcially if you're in another relationship. your current relationship is your priority and if you can't handle that then you shouldn't be involved with that person because it isn't fair to them.
why would she even AGREE to get drinks with him in the first place? and then smoke weed? look man if she isnt a pothead/alcoholic then that definitely isn't something she should be doing with another man, let alone her ex.
alteredego, keep the "mature, open communication" + "trust" argument for another topic. this one is as clear as crystal.
bigblack9: its better to be safe than sorry. i've been cheated on. i am young and it shouldn't be half as important in the long run as your situation but believe me the truth will hurt at first but it shall set you free. and if your not being played then at least you get passed that. just be careful how you go about asking/investigating, dont wanna ruin a relationship that is actually working.