wife and sex

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by natops, Jan 12, 2011.

  1. natops

    natops New Member

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    I want to ask this question. My wife won't let me go down on her or let me use her silver bullet. She wants it but we had an argument the other day about that. She thinks I don't like it, but I have been rejected a couple times and kinda let things cool off for I'd try again. Now she won't let me. Thinks something wrong with her. Noting could be farther from the truth. Look I love my wife and want to please her. How do I get her to let me do this, going down on her and using the silver bullet. Thanks
     
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    Talk to her. Maybe she doesn't want it as much as you think she does. Only honest communication will solve this one.
     
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    I agree with SG.

    On the other hand, she may like you to tie her up..........
     
  4. EmJay

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    :confused:..


    Maybe she doesn't feel secure about her taste or how she smells..

    Maybe a romantic session in a bath tub will put her at ease more..
     
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    I'm joking.

    I agree with SG's advice.
     
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    Subgirrl's advice is to always tie her up :tongue:
     
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    taking notes :wink:
     
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    ROFL :biggrin1:
     
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    Why don’t you try some good wine or champagne, a soft but hot porn flick that shows such scenes, try candles and incense and a hot bath and an erotic massage? As you work your way around the massage softly nibble and kiss her up her legs and inner thighs and soft begin to nibble and kiss her soft skin until you get closer to her honey pot.

    I would also recommend doing this mid to early evening so you have plenty of time and can help her relax; if there are kids and dog or cat or other distraction get rid of them or stay in a hotel.

    Try edible oils and the like I think if you show her hence the porno this may help her get excited and the wine and massage will definitely help her to relax. Make her feel like a special woman but take her cues and take it slow. Your focus should be her not yourself if your successful I am sure you will get yours.

    Try these oils I keep some in the house all the time and have used them with many dates I think you and more importantly she will like them too.

    http://www.kamasutra.com/

    enjoy

     
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    I always find that by surprise is nice. Like, if you are laying on the couch or in bed together and she's not wearing much, spread those legs apart and start lickin'! Nothing sexier.
     
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    Fetches some rope.

    Yanoo....this would be a whole lot more fun for me if you would at least struggle a bit while I was binding you. :tongue::biggrin1:
     
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    I always struggle :biggrin1::tongue:
     
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