Wife/Dildo Question

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  1. BS1984

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    I have a question. I am 7 x 5.5. I want to buy one of those realistic dildos that is bigger than me (8 inches by 6 or something like that) for my wife and I to play with before we have sex.

    For the ladies, if your BF/SO/Husband was my size and bought you one of these, what would your reaction be?

    For guys, would you want to see something bigger than your own go into your GF/SO/Wife?
     
  2. HiddenLacey

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    Have you asked your wife if she would like to play with a toy like this or is this your fantasy?

    I would be game to play and have fun with my partner if we both wanted this.

    I believe you should ask her what she wants if you haven't. Good toys can be rather expensive. Why waste your money if she is not going to want to play with it? Most of us are perfectly happy to just be with our partners.
     
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    I wouldn't do it, i'd take her to a store and let her be part of the decision.
    If she already has toys and likes to use them, it is different you may know already her taste.
     
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    I'd probably become accustomed to the larger size and leave you for another man.
     
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    Are you sure? I'd probably leave him for a woman with a strap on as big as the dildo.

     
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    why not just take the dildo he bought and leave
     
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    Good idea. Or I could marry you instead :wink:

     
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    but don't expect any strap ons
     
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    The one already strapped onto you by nature will do for now....:tongue:

     
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    Bingo.
     
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    This ^
     
  12. croko

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    i lol at patchos answer hahaha good one
     
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    my husband bought me a big purple dildo as a surprise and I LOVE IT, but would not consider leaving him for a bigger guy.
    Make sure she likes the idea of a bigger one first then happy shopping.
     
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    sup bro i have the same idea as you do! my girls a freak and i love suprising with new stuff in bed. she bought her self a dildo i think its only 6 by 5 and gets larger towards the base like 6 maybe and green... hahah awesome right? my measurements are 7" by 5 i think not sure btw, and she loves when im in side her and using the green goblin<-- i named it. its alot of fun.
    Any way i kinda thought she would like something bigger soo im in the same boat what if she likes the feeling of something like 8" by 6 more than me? would she really seek someone that sise from another guy? i know she wouldnt but the thought still lingers, is that what your thinking about also?

    sry about spelling and punctuation be my spell check thnx ; )
     
  15. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    a dildo bigger than your size isn't always a bad thing. i would welcome the challenge if it was presented to me. just make sure your wife is ok that you're ok with it.

    and to be on the safe side you should probably take your wife dildo shopping with you first so she can pick one herself. you don't want to waste the time and effort of shopping alone and coming home to find your wife has no interest in the dildo you picked because of something dumb... like the color!
     
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    I don't think I would mind you trying a larger dildo! I don't know how much more you can be filled though, it's a pretty tight fit! :tongue: I just wish we had more disposable income so we could get all the toys we want! :frown1:
     
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    i would listen to subgirl (hi sweety!) surprising her with it might not be such a good idea.
     
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    We (my wife and I ) use an 8" dildo for her pleasure and desire to be filled. She has experienced being filled by much bigger than I offer so it allows her to be filled without inviting a real 8" into our sex life although I would not say no to that idea if she brought it up.
     
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