sonic81812003 said:
I have a problem. Im not huge but i'm 8" long with average thickness. My wife says its to big, and becuase of that we don't have sex that often... Any suggestions would be helpful.
I have to agree with what some others have said here, but I am going to be more blunt.
The average married couple has sex 2-3 times per week.
Your size isn't the problem. Your 'wife' is the problem.
She is providing the least amount of sex she thinks she can get away with and still keep you around, propping up her lifestyle (even if she has a job, your income is giving her far more than she could afford on her own).
If you do not have kids, divorce her now. Claim fraud while you're at it so you have a chance of getting out of this without alimony and if that doesn't work, make her document every dime she has spent of your community assets (odds are, her clothing and shoe budget dwarfs yours and there are probably a lot of other things she has bought to decorate your home that you would never have even considered buying if it weren't for her).
If you have a 401k (odds are, she doesn't, because she figured she could get you to do it and that would leave her more money to buy her own stuff), be sure to split it in the divorce so you don't have to keep funding her retirement.