wife fantasizes about bigger dick

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    tas7.5 New Member

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    Need advise from ladies, wife loves sex, but not sure if I am well endowed, cause she never been with another man. Been married 15 years. I sometimes tease her during fourplay and ask her how she would like to ride a big dick stud. I notice she gets really wet when I say stuff like that, then when we're fucking, I say I bet you'd love to fuck a young stud with a huge dick. She gets real turned on and has a huge orgasm. Question is, does she really want to fuck some oung stud, and should I let her. She seems to be thinking about it.
     
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    Does it really matter as long as you can give her that huge orgasm you mentioned?
     
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    Right now its just fantasy. Keep enjoying it. Milk it for all the orgasms its got. The fantasy and thought alone seems to be enough for her right now. There are a lot of other things that go into making it a reality. Are you prepared for it? Is she prepared for it? Is your relationship prepared for it? If she has never been with someone else it would seem to me, and I am talking about ME, that she would be interested in seeing whats out there and what its like. I wouldn't want my wife to only see my cock for her entire life, I would think its her right as a human being to be able to enjoy what she craves, and if its bigger cocks that she craves than I would be happy presenting that to her. However, depending on your size and security, this kind of thing may open up a can of worms that you may regret...

    How big are you?
     
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    7x5. I agree it doesn't really matter, but she should have the experience if she wants to try. I don't think its a craving, just a fantasy, and i turns me on a bit.
     
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    My wife and I enjoy the same type of chatter during sex. We'll occasionally pop an adult video in and she'll give my her opinion of whether or not she thinks she could handle the guy, not to mention how much she would love to try. We actually did try the 3some thing with a 'big boy', and while it was fun, I find we can actually do a much better job of making a sticky mess of each other when it's one on one.

    One thing to remember about a 3some, is that you can't UN-DO it. My wife and I treated it as a harmless night of fun and moved on with our regular healthy sex life, but I would imagine the same situation could create issues in a relationship, depending on how the individuals are wired.
     
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    Hi just a thought here.
    maybe try a toy? not trying to be a smart ass or anything , just thought, that after you give her a big orgasm, you could give her another one with a toy that was on the larger size, and give you time to re-coup so to speak, and maybe give her one more from you?
     
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    I think thats a question you need to ask her.
     
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    I'm not sure she would be into trying a toy, I don't think she's ever done so, I think she might be more inclined to check out some porn during the action as Dreamer has done with his wife.
     
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    I have asked her, she jokingly responds with "maybe I will".
     
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    She might not even be thinking about that at all. Often when I am fantasizing about something wild like that, when it's time to come, I go back to thinking about how much I love plain vanilla sex with the guy I am with.
     
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    Yes, I believe that is exactly what is going on with her, she thinks about it, gets into the fantasy, etc. She's just fantasizing, not craving, but she does sometimes ask me about other guys, or if I've seen any huge guys in locker room, etc. I think she is curious, having never been with another guy. BTW I like your blog.
     
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    Tas, are you sure it's not your fantasy?
     
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    i sometimes have sex with couples....and find the man more interested in the big cock. but the woman always takes what i have to give and then most of the time they have a more enjoyable sex life after that..... thats what they tell me.
     
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    I think it is a common fantacy and I feel it could say just that a fantacy.

    Reality is very different and needs lots of planning. So make sure she real wants it or you real want it and she is happy.

    There is no simple answers as we are not simple but complexd, interesting and social

    Communicate, communicate, communicate
     
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    This is a big fantasy for me, and turns me on more than anything during sex (just talking about it while fucking). But its almost that I don't want it to actually happen, because then it isn't fantasy anymore. What if it isn't that great? Then what?
     
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    Be ready for her to take you seriously and just hopt that she keeps you in the loop before, during and after her encounter with a larger penis. You might get more than you bargained for.

    On the other hand my wife fantasizes about smaller penises than mine because they wouldn't hurt her like I do, so I don't egg her on. One reason is that smaller penises are easier to find than bigger ones.
     
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    I like Ryanart's suggestion......maybe buy a toy that's big and have some fun with that.....

    But......
    (sending you a PM)

    edit: nevermind....I can't send you a PM Or an email.

    Soo....
    A friendly warning from one who knows.....
    Just be aware that if you buy a big toy....it will probably flame the fire under her curiosity about sex with a Real one that's that big......

    Once that's in her head....and uh...elsewhere....what a bigger one feels like.....and she may react to that like she reacts to no other size, including You......There's No Going Back.

    She'll always still want you......but you'll share space in her head with that bigger toy....
     
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    wife is 42, in great shape, height of her sexuality. Having never been w/ another guy, she always thought I was big, at 7x5.5. Recently, she started thinking there are much bigger, maybe she would like to find out. Then, I started teasing her during foreplay, about her doing a bigger, young stud, who could give her multipe orgasms, and she goes over the edge. I'm not even sure I should try a big toy, because as Pirate Wench says, it will get into her head.
     
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    My wife and I have made this part of our sex play for many years and it hasn't gotten old. I think she'd love 7.5, since I offer only about 5.5. But, we've been very happy without the complications of another person in our bed. Crossing over has many inherent "dangers." Keeping it verbal and in the realm of fantasy is safe and still fun.
     
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    My gf also fantasises abt huge cocks and im 8 inches long
     
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