Wife Has Been Watching Me On Camera

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A few years ago we got a camera system to watch our pets when we're away. We never paid them much mind because they didn't work all that great for what we used them for. The app was difficult to use and I believed she had deleted the app because she couldn't figure it out. About a week ago the app updated and I noticed the icon changed so I checked it out. In the app in shows and records anytime someone used the app to veiw the cameras. I still somewhat shocked to see that she was watching me for long periods of time when I thought I was alone... Or at least she wasn't around.
I even unplugged the basement camera some time ago but it's been plugged back in. There are tons of short recordings where it looks like she either didn't seem me or there was nothing interesting. But anytime I was doing something sexual it seems that she kept watching. The recordings go back over a year and I see myself doing all kinds of stuff that I thought she didn't know about... Thankfully I was never really with anyone else in the videos. But there are videos of me talking to people over the phone while jerking off, me posing for pictures of all sorts, and me masterbating to all sorts of porn.

I'm still trying to figure this all out. I just need to vent over this. Some many questions now.
 
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A few years ago we got a camera system to watch our pets when we're away. We never paid them much mind because they didn't work all that great for what we used them for. The app was difficult to use and I believed she had deleted the app because she couldn't figure it out. About a week ago the app updated and I noticed the icon changed so I checked it out. In the app in shows and records anytime someone used the app to veiw the cameras. I still somewhat shocked to see that she was watching me for long periods of time when I thought I was alone... Or at least she wasn't around.
I even unplugged the basement camera some time ago but it's been plugged back in. There are tons of short recordings where it looks like she either didn't seem me or there was nothing interesting. But anytime I was doing something sexual it seems that she kept watching. The recordings go back over a year and I see myself doing all kinds of stuff that I thought she didn't know about... Thankfully I was never really with anyone else in the videos. But there are videos of me talking to people over the phone while jerking off, me posing for pictures of all sorts, and me masterbating to all sorts of porn.

I'm still trying to figure this all out. I just need to vent over this. Some many questions now.

Depends what she was doing with it and what defines your relationship. Is it a trust violation? Yours? Hers? Both? Was she getting off to it? Was she planning to have blackmail? This could go so many ways.
 

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A few years ago we got a camera system to watch our pets when we're away. We never paid them much mind because they didn't work all that great for what we used them for. The app was difficult to use and I believed she had deleted the app because she couldn't figure it out. About a week ago the app updated and I noticed the icon changed so I checked it out. In the app in shows and records anytime someone used the app to veiw the cameras. I still somewhat shocked to see that she was watching me for long periods of time when I thought I was alone... Or at least she wasn't around.
I even unplugged the basement camera some time ago but it's been plugged back in. There are tons of short recordings where it looks like she either didn't seem me or there was nothing interesting. But anytime I was doing something sexual it seems that she kept watching. The recordings go back over a year and I see myself doing all kinds of stuff that I thought she didn't know about... Thankfully I was never really with anyone else in the videos. But there are videos of me talking to people over the phone while jerking off, me posing for pictures of all sorts, and me masterbating to all sorts of porn.

I'm still trying to figure this all out. I just need to vent over this. Some many questions now.


I can imagine you feel pretty weird about this, shocked even. And violated, considering that you assumed you had privacy when you jacked off, posed, chatted, etc. If it all just turned her on, maybe it's ok. But wow.....not cool.
 

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Betrayal on my part yes. Using it for blackmale is something I never thought about that. But black male for what I cant imagine. She isn't very sexually active (unless I initiated something) anymore after a surgery so I don't know if that kind of thing really turns her on. I had zero clue she knew anything until I saw the recordings and nothing has really changed between us, we both still get on fine together.
 
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Betrayal on my part yes. Using it for blackmale is something I never thought about that. But black male for what I cant imagine. She isn't very sexually active (unless I initiated something) anymore after a surgery so I don't know if that kind of thing really turns her on. I had zero clue she knew anything until I saw the recordings and nothing has really changed between us, we both still get on fine together.

So has she kept recordings or just watched? Can you erase them and tell her you don’t feel comfortable keeping it?

What’s your next move? I wouldn’t worry about blackmail because jerking off isn’t illegal! In fact, her keeping it may even be but I wouldn’t threaten anything legal until you have a conversation. Maybe she’s using it for herself. I haven’t seen you. I don’t know. If you’re hot and she needs something for the spank bank, surgery or not, what better gold mine than your hubby?
 

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They recordings auto save when you veiw the camera. I don't know if she is watching the files or if she was just watching me live and doesn't know about the auto save thing, I can't tell if she watched the files but she had to be at least watching live. She plugged the one cam back in and she had no reason to do that except to watch me in the basement. On the videos I'm doing a lot of things I didn't think she knew I had gotten in to (bi stuff, toys, clothing and such). And while I was never with anyone at home there are videos of me talking to others and doing things for others, and I know there have been times I've talked to others about either having meet with them or planning on it. I don't know if she picked up on that.
 
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Agree you need to address it but I’m gonna go out on a limb and say she is into it or she would have said something or flipped out sooner. Maybe it gives her fodder for bullshit with her girlfriends too a la sex and the city.

I found my partner’s onlyfans on his phone the other day and at first I was shocked because I didn’t even know he had one (he didn’t know I had one either) and ... it was a good night. LOL.
 
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If I say anything I'll open pandora's box and God knows what will be said or done. For right now says doesn't know I know, and if she thinks I do know she watches then I must not care. Maybe she doesn't care... Idk. She's never held anything back (sex, oral, anal, or otherwise... Or anything else)
 
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Maybe she does get off on it idk. She's definitely learned a lot about me. Maybe I don't know about her... I'm just guessing

You get another one and put it inconspicuously where she likes to be lol
 

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Technically I'd be the one in the wrong in some instances, at least with the fooling around bit. Anything I was doing with myself to myself is one thing. It will be hard for me to defend me getting mad at looking over cameras in her own home. The watching for long periods of time makes me feel weird. But even it she had looking, then saw what I was doing and turned it off shed still know I was doing things
 
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Technically I'd be the one in the wrong in some instances, at least with the fooling around bit. Anything I was doing with myself to myself is one thing. It will be hard for me to defend me getting mad at looking over cameras in her own home. The watching for long periods of time makes me feel weird. But even it she had looking, then saw what I was doing and turned it off shed still know I was doing things

Think about it this way: she was watching you before she knew you were ever having these late-night sizzling conversations. What about about relationship is making her feel like she needs to do that? If it's sexual than this can be really fun but if it's genuine trust issues, then if I were in her shoes by stopping the calls, I'd get even more distrustful because I'd assume your endeavors escalated
 

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A few years ago we got a camera system to watch our pets when we're away. We never paid them much mind because they didn't work all that great for what we used them for. The app was difficult to use and I believed she had deleted the app because she couldn't figure it out. About a week ago the app updated and I noticed the icon changed so I checked it out. In the app in shows and records anytime someone used the app to veiw the cameras. I still somewhat shocked to see that she was watching me for long periods of time when I thought I was alone... Or at least she wasn't around.
I even unplugged the basement camera some time ago but it's been plugged back in. There are tons of short recordings where it looks like she either didn't seem me or there was nothing interesting. But anytime I was doing something sexual it seems that she kept watching. The recordings go back over a year and I see myself doing all kinds of stuff that I thought she didn't know about... Thankfully I was never really with anyone else in the videos. But there are videos of me talking to people over the phone while jerking off, me posing for pictures of all sorts, and me masterbating to all sorts of porn.

I'm still trying to figure this all out. I just need to vent over this. Some many questions now.
Then go have sex with her.
 
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