My wife has pain every now and again when we have sex because of girth issues, i think. How do other women deal with this or how do the guys help their wives/girlfriends with this? My penis isnt super long but it does have some girth to it, so thats why we think that may be the problem. We use lots of lube to help it in also. We have sex on average of 1-2 times a week due to the fact that I am a truck driver and usually gone some nights of the week. We have been married for 11 yrs and this has been the pattern for the last 4-5 yrs. Any ideas?