Hi any of you in relationships where you have the higher sex drive & your partner wont give it up? Its driving me insane. My wife & I have been married for 5 yrs and I'm lucky if we do it every 4 months. She says its too painful, even though I catch her staring when I get changed. But she gets pissed if she catches me glancing at other girls or if any girl pays me attention. I suppose I'm just not sure how to handle this situation.