Wife is more into lesbian porn than guy/girl porn

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  1. D_yabbadabbadont

    D_yabbadabbadont New Member

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    Ladies
    The wife and I were watching porn the other day (2 kids and work, it's a quick way to get turned on at the end of a busy day). The 1st scene was of a guy and a girl, while watching I was playing with her and after it finished she was only mildly wet, then came on a scene with 2 girls with toys and within 5 min she was dripping wet. Now the 1st scene was not that good and the 2nd scene was pretty hot but still it was quite evident which got her going. Also a women can't hide that kind of arousal.
    She has had a female encounter with me in the past and claims she didn't get into it "it was more for me" she said. But since then I've noticed things about her that slightly worry me.

    Is my wife a closet gay? Do I have anything to worry about?
    Any advice would be good. Thanks
     
  2. D_eeglefleegle

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    I am 100% staight, well by my profile 99% lol, but I get really turned on watching women play with their toys and get off. From my perspective, it's something I want done to me, or I want to feel that way, or do that etc. It doesn't necessary mean she's gay lol. Have you tried asking her these things?
     
  3. VeeP

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    I wouldn't read too much into it just yet. Could be that the girl/girl stuff turns her on more because it's "unusual" or different from the norm. Some gay guys prefer straight porn, for instance, but that doesn't make them closet straights.
     
  4. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    :rolleyes:

    Your girl wants to appear vanilla but likes to snack on the strawberry. Let her eat and join her at the buffet
     
  5. ManlyBanisters

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    What stimulates a person visually and in fantasy is not necessarily going to be the same as what they actually want to do.

    I love lesbian porn - I love watching a woman eating another woman's pussy. In an 'either / or' situation would I prefer to have a woman eat my pussy or have my man do it? I'd choose my man every time. Would I prefer to eat pussy or suck my man's cock? Again, I'd choose him. It's just the visual of watching two other women doing stuff together that appeals.

    I also enjoy watching amateur porn where one woman takes on many guys - would I ever do it? No fucking way! It's a fantasy.

    Is your wife a closet gay? It's not impossible but it is very, very unlikely. She shared another woman with you - great, that's a sexy memory for both of you, she doesn't seem inclined to do it again so I'd leave it at that if I were you. Don't concern yourself, your wife is clearly able to express herself sexually in many ways and enjoys doing so with you. Many guys would be ecstatic in your position.
     
  6. D_yabbadabbadont

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    Thanks Manly,
    I know your right. I guess I'm a little insecure.
     
  7. psidom

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    my girlfriend is the same way.
    she loves girl on girl porn as long as it isn't overdone fake stuff.

    she rarely likes hetero-porn because she doesn't like how the men fuck.
    they go rough which is cool...but then they usually go overboard,or say something stupid and it ruins it all,for me as well haha.

    she only likes a couple male actors,but she likes alot of females.
    i think if i was a girl i would feel the same way.:wink:

    see it as a gift from god that she digs lesbian porn!
     
  8. Maia

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    I love girl/girl pornography but find watching men kind of silly and gross at the same time. In real life I much prefer my man over a girl, but like girls a couple of times per month. Men in pornography that I have seen are odd looking and have zero sensuality. They also don't look at all intelligent and I think that is pathetic, which is instantly turns me off. Women are sensual, sexy, and I don't need them to be intelligent to appreciate them. I love watching nipple play, and men in videos don't spend any time on that. Andrew Blake productions are all I watch, we actually own two of them.
    I don't think your wife is gay :smile:
     
  9. Jovial

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    Very well said, Maia. I was going to say maybe the OP's wife liked the sensuality of the lesbian porn. They show the women's reactions and it seems more real to me.

    scottishfun, has your wife ever seen gay porn? A lot of women prefer that over straight porn also.
     
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    I think the above posts are accurate in that the sensuality, and perhaps the "new & unknown" of girl/girl porn can be a turn-on without there being anything deeper (like closet homosexuality).
    I would also equate it to men being interested in blow jobs in porn. They watch it and like it because they imagine themselves in the same situation, even if they don't enjoy dicks.
     
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    scottishfun: you know there are a ton of "99%" straight guys on this site who are up for a little dick on the side.

    Why can't women enjoy being turned on by a bit of pussy? It seems guys are "allowed" to play out their fantasies, but not the women.
     
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    Nothing to worry about. In fact be excited about it! My wife was the same way, then she started to bring home other women. The first time was awesome!
     
  13. BobLeeSwagger

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    I think you should ask her what her fantasies are instead of jumping to conclusions about one session of watching porn.
     
  14. kavitha

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    as women she knows what to be stimulated and where
    i like a women to women fun or eating lol on porn or pics - they really wetten or start woozing why even some times without stimulation i have orgasms
     
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