Wife Not Liking Cum...

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  1. MikeTheMeat

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    I have been married for like eight years and well to be honest i haven't gotten a good blowjob since then. In all the blowjobs I have gotten she has only let me cum into her mouth like five times in eight years. I remember the first time she blew me she didn't realize what was cumming I don't think and I got to just release in her mouth and it was fantastic to say the least. I really don't care that she spit it out or swallowed it. Thats not a big deal to me. As long as she doesn't make a scene about spitting it out everything is fine with me. No gagging and choking as you spit it out, just do it nice and neatly and descretly and we are all good. I don't get done eating her out and start spitting out all her juices on the bed. I swallow them as to not make a mess.

    Anyways she was told by a friend before she met me to spit it out and well I think she was ruined before she even started. I am wondering if she was told to swallow it down if she would have listened to that and been that way from the start. I am her first and hopefully will be her last cause I do love her more than anything, but this one thing bothers me. I have talked to her about it, but she seems to skirt the issue all the time and well I have no idea what to do about this problem.

    The bad thing is it makes the blowjobs I do get, which is about four times a week so the frequency is just fine with me, but I have a hard time cumming for her and I haven't the heart to tell her its cause I have to worry about cumming in her mouth and it makes it hard to fully enjoy yourself why being orally pleasured. Am I wrong here? Is there something wrong with me and the way i am thinking? I just don't get off like I think I would if I could just let go and cum in her mouth and not worry about offending her and grossing her out...

    I need to know if there is anything that can be done to help me wife get over her hatred of cum in her mouth...
    :mad:

    P.S. she is fantastic at giving head though, besides my one point, she acts like she loves it, and she is MORE THAN WILLING to service me almost whenever I want her too...
     
  2. Lordpendragon

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    How often do you give her a great blowjob?

    Well intentioned question before I would offer an opinion.
     
  3. MikeTheMeat

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    Well I don't give her a blowjob at all, she has no cock, but I think I understand what you mean. I give her oral sex whenever she wants it. I love to do that to her. Nothing makes me harder than licking on her pussy...Especially since I know once she is all worked up and had at least one orgasm with my mouth I can pound her hard with my cock and not have to worry about hurting her...Its awesome and its a delicious catch 22 for me and her...
     
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    My considered opinion then is that you have been too sexually dominant and thereby not allowed her to feel free to develop her own sexuality and to communicate the same.
     
  5. Mr. Snakey

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    Put it in her coffee Tell her its a new creamer. Better than Starbucks.:wink:
     
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    Some cum doesn't taste very good due to poor diet. Perhaps your wife is tryiong to save you some dignity by not telling you that it tastes bad.

    There are threads that talk aobut ways to improve the taste.
     
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    Yeah boy, Uncut....Make me some coffee with sugar and lots of cream
     
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    Im serious He gets the satifaction of her takeing his load and she will love him even more for that great coffee Its a no brainer! I used to work overnights and had a female boss who talked to me like i was a dog She used to send me out for coffee every night Over a period of 3 years that bitch drank a gallon of my cum Now this is a good cup of coffee she would say:wink:
     
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    I am not sure its my diet, but i am not possitive. I think its the original thought one of her gf told her before she even went down on a guy. I think that ruined her totally. I just want to introduce it back to her before she NEVER wants to do it. Either that or maybe I should pull away from her before she climaxes to see how she likes it. But I don't like to be vindictive to her, I love her too much, but it might send the message to her.

    The creamer idea is not bad buts its not that I want her to swallow or anything, I just don't want her to stop is all. Man I must be the only one who thinks this way I guess...
     
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    [laughing] you can't be serious...what a trip..I never thought about that
     
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    You said it better than I did Kotchanski.

    In reference to the taste.. eat/drink pineapples or cranberry juice. Sweeten that cum up.
     
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    Perhaps it's also about her liking to watch you cum - just a thought.

    I got sort of surprised a few years back when a friend told me that his wife doesn't like oral sex. He blurted it out quite off-topic - his wife was also present, plus another friend - if she hadn't been there I would likely have asked more about it. (I know them both very well and enough not to want to get caught in the crossfire:) I hope they have sorted it out by now. Anyway, it seems you're luckier than some already. If it was me I would have needed to deal with that situation. -

    You could try out those suggestions on how to improve the taste of your cum, and also ask your wife if she'd like to 'evaluate' the results for you - something along those lines - it's at least worth a try. Even if that's got nothing to do with in the first place, it's a nice gesture from your side. She might appreciate that under any circumstance.
     
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    I am serious I never told anyone. Well now i did
     
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    I guess I am not going to get a answer that I want. I wanted to know how to change her mind if it was at all possible. Its really driven a wedge in my sex life. I have tried to talk to her about it, but its no good. Its not like I think she tastes like champagne. I just get so into it that it doesn't bother me. I don't even mind eating her out after I have dropped a load into her. That doesn't bother me either. I just don't understand what I did wrong, the first time we did it she was already decided that she didn't want to do that and its been the same ever since. Its not like I want to hear a perfect solution, its just I want to know what some women are like that.

    Maybe I should eat tons of pineapple this week. But even if I did she would never taste it again so she wouldn't know that its improved...I am at a loss, I think I will try the pulling away from her when she is about to cum in my face and see what she thinks. Either I will get my way, or I will stop getting blowjobs, and well unfortunately since I don't get the happy ending, it won't be that much of a loss.


    So thanks for the advice I guess. I will have to look elsewhere for some ideas. I just want some ideas for her to try it again. Thats all I am asking, what can I do to get her to even try...
     
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    UNCUT - get over to Starbucks and get me some coffee right now!
     
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    I gave you my advice. It is valid. If you want better advice, why not ASK her flat out. Give her some wine, have a romantic dinner, and then ask her why she wont let you finish in her mouth. If she says taste, tell her you have fixed it by eating pineapple and cut down on your salt and meat intake.
     
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    TYGRR , thanks for the advice thats the best I have heard so far. I will just have to come up with some way to bring that up to her. Maybe after I have just given her a great orgasm with my mouth.

    How long does it take to make your cum taste better? I mean how long so i have to eat pineapple or cranberries for it change the flavor? I will buy a case of pineapples and drink gallons of cranberry juice it will change her mind...
     
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    Oh don't get me wrong, I appreciate all the advice, I just don't know if I can get the answers that I want from others, you might be right about just asking her. But its a touchy subject to just bring up to her. I will have to come up with some ways though, thanks alot for the advice though.

    I REALLY APPRECIATE IT!!!

    Keep it coming if you have more advice please, I will use whatever I can, but tomorrow I am going out and buying some pineapples and some cranberry juice...
     
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    Uncut, you be nasty.....I love it....OMG every body that reads what you said now has a new weapon to use on their favorite enemy....what a hoot
     
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    Any relationship is fifty-fifty Tell her you do me I do you. Stop doing her for a while oraly she will know:wink:
     
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