Wife or partner censoring your porn

[deleted817718]

And that's the main priority. If you're both happy with it, that's all that matters!

We are, and she's pretty good at bringing me round to her way of thinking

 

[marriedasian]

this would absolutely not fly with me. i do watch porn and my wife knows that, hell she does too. sometimes i think i've watch so much in my life as a whole that i'm desensitized to it all. nowadays, i'm actually selective about my porn, hehe.

back on subject, your wife not allowing you to watch certain types of porn genre on your "own" time is way too controlling. what if she started telling you that you're only allowed to eat vanilla ice cream and nothing else or she will get mad? maybe it's just me but that's showing a lot of insecurity. no teen porn? c'mon... is she that insecure about her age or maturity? no rough or degrading porn?... really... we all realize that porn is fake, right? besides, how she gonna know? do you watch porn with her or with her over your shoulder?

my point here is that your relationship should be stronger than this. i hope you don't have restrictions on her, do you? you mentioned you like her being controlling so perhaps you are enjoying her over-powering you? if that's the case then ignore all i said and enjoy it but if this is not the case, then sooner or later something will give (more hinting on my ice cream remark).

lastly, if this arrangement is working for you and your wife, who am i to say otherwise. with the little information that you've shared, this is the best that i can come up with based on my personal experience and thoughts. to each their own as long as you're happy with it.

 

[deleted817718]

this would absolutely not fly with me. i do watch porn and my wife knows that, hell she does too. sometimes i think i've watch so much in my life as a whole that i'm desensitized to it all. nowadays, i'm actually selective about my porn, hehe.

back on subject, your wife not allowing you to watch certain types of porn genre on your "own" time is way too controlling. what if she started telling you that you're only allowed to eat vanilla ice cream and nothing else or she will get mad? maybe it's just me but that's showing a lot of insecurity. no teen porn? c'mon... is she that insecure about her age or maturity? no rough or degrading porn?... really... we all realize that porn is fake, right? besides, how she gonna know? do you watch porn with her or with her over your shoulder?

my point here is that your relationship should be stronger than this. i hope you don't have restrictions on her, do you? you mentioned you like her being controlling so perhaps you are enjoying her over-powering you? if that's the case then ignore all i said and enjoy it but if this is not the case, then sooner or later something will give (more hinting on my ice cream remark).

lastly, if this arrangement is working for you and your wife, who am i to say otherwise. with the little information that you've shared, this is the best that i can come up with based on my personal experience and thoughts. to each their own as long as you're happy with it.

I disagree with some of what you are saying. My wife does have a valid point about young women, and disrespectful acts in porn, and I have come to agree with her on these issues. There is not a valid reason to not eat vanilla ice-cream!
My wife does from time to time see what porn I am watching. And even if she is not there, I do not watch it because I respect her wishes, and I too find it distasteful now.

 

[TexanStar]

My wife is a little bit of a control freak, but I must admit I love her for it. But does any other men have wives or partners that request that you don't watch certain types of porn. I don't mean anything illegal, naturally no one wants to be watching that. But my wife has always had a few things she has said she is really uncomfortable with me jerking it to. Mainly teen porn (18-21) is what she seriously won't tolerate, and prefers me to view WOMEN, ie 30+. But also things that are disrespectful to the women, overly rough or degrading.
If your partner asked you not to view porn they don't agree with, would you respect there wishes?

My wife has not and would not ask me to limit my porn viewing to only certain categories that she approves.

 

[marriedasian]

I disagree with some of what you are saying. My wife does have a valid point about young women, and disrespectful acts in porn, and I have come to agree with her on these issues. There is not a valid reason to not eat vanilla ice-cream!
My wife does from time to time see what porn I am watching. And even if she is not there, I do not watch it because I respect her wishes, and I too find it distasteful now.

the most important is that it works for both of you. as you stated, you have come to see her point of view. if it works, roll with it. life's too short to not be happy.

 

[Beanie]

Not at all, my boyfriend doesn’t censor my porn viewing, mainly because we have the same taste in porn! Ahah