hello ladies, i have been married for 9 years and i am a single lady man. few years back i confronted my wife cheating on me with her ex lover/boyfriend. They had affair for almost 3 years. finally i caught her and she promised and regretted and i forgive her. Now my problem is she doesnt like blowjob or anal or isnt eager or show some responsiveness or initiative. i tried talking to her about fantasies stories etc but to no avail. I had asked her about what she did with her ex and she confessed that she had anal sex, ( though she said she didnt like and she cried as he couldnt stop and fucked her till he came), she had blowjob to him with chocolate applied and didnt finish him off with orgasm ( again as per her info), had late night nude chats, even had sex without condom and then took medication emergency pill. Now what should i do ? so she takes part with me actively. i am dissappointed and losing patience.