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hey guys just one question. Bit of detail first. So a couple weeks ago I seen my wife texting her boss and using flirt emojis at the end. I asked her what the hell and she says she didn’t know what it meant she just put it on the end of the text message. I noticed she only did it tip text to him not any of the other men she works with. She is a structural engineer so deals with mostly men. Then she lied to me about a meeting coming up where she had the date changed so her boss could be there. I asked her why the date got changed and she said she had no idea, but she is the one who changed it. It’s not really her boss she subs work out from his company. I said enough is enough tell them your done. She said no. So I threw this out there. I said either your done or We are done. Her reply was that’s up to u Im not quitting. What are your thoughts on all this? Thanks in advance.
 
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Hmmm, ultimatums are tough. It leaves no room for talk or understanding. To me it’s obvious that there is heat between them. It’s common for people who are on the executive level of businesses to be sexually attracted to each other.

An ultimatum is not the answer.
 
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Communication is key. Does she know that you post pics of your big dick on this site? Just asking.
 
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hey guys just one question. Bit of detail first. So a couple weeks ago I seen my wife texting her boss and using flirt emojis at the end. I asked her what the hell and she says she didn’t know what it meant she just put it on the end of the text message. I noticed she only did it tip text to him not any of the other men she works with. She is a structural engineer so deals with mostly men. Then she lied to me about a meeting coming up where she had the date changed so her boss could be there. I asked her why the date got changed and she said she had no idea, but she is the one who changed it. It’s not really her boss she subs work out from his company. I said enough is enough tell them your done. She said no. So I threw this out there. I said either your done or We are done. Her reply was that’s up to u Im not quitting. What are your thoughts on all this? Thanks in advance.
ultimatums are never a good idea unless you are totally willing to follow through.
It seems to me though that she's clearly hiding something. She lied about the date, plus no one (other than my grandmother) tweets out emojis without knowing what they mean.
I hate to say this but it sounds like she's already made up her mind about this other guy.

Best of luck pal.
 

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just relax, let her have her fun, you may get lucky, have a nice cream pie to eat

Exactly!

@Bigbob7474 - close your eyes and picture your wife riding her boss' very hard cock, face-forward, with his hands all over her tits.

Getting turned on?

Good. Now, encourage her to go for it.

Believe me, it's a whole new world. :)
 

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Hmmm, ultimatums are tough. It leaves no room for talk or understanding. To me it’s obvious that there is heat between them. It’s common for people who are on the executive level of businesses to be sexually attracted to each other.

An ultimatum is not the answer.[/QUOT


I AGREE. YOU MUST BE ABLE TO TALK AND WORK THINGS 0UT!
 

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My married female coworker and I put emojis at the end of our texts sometimes and we're not cheating. At least, I'm not.

And if she changed the date of a meeting so he could be there, what's the big deal? It's pretty common for people to want to have their bosses at meetings. And, how do you know she's the one who changed it? And how do you know what's going on in her texts? Snooping?

It's extreme for you to dish up the ultimatum. How about tell her you're uncomfortable with how she interacts with her (non)boss and ask her to dial it back. Although, it seems as if neither of you are showing the maturity to handle the situation. You're delivering ultimatums and she's digging in. Irresistible force, meet immovable object.
 

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My married female coworker and I put emojis at the end of our texts sometimes and we're not cheating. At least, I'm not.

And if she changed the date of a meeting so he could be there, what's the big deal? It's pretty common for people to want to have their bosses at meetings. And, how do you know she's the one who changed it? And how do you know what's going on in her texts? Snooping?

It's extreme for you to dish up the ultimatum. How about tell her you're uncomfortable with how she interacts with her (non)boss and ask her to dial it back. Although, it seems as if neither of you are showing the maturity to handle the situation. You're delivering ultimatums and she's digging in. Irresistible force, meet immovable object.
told her I don’t like it. She says she is working for him and reports to him. She doesn’t get why I’m mad. Not snooping. Well maybe a bit. I was beside her phone when a message popped up so I read it and some messages of them corresponding. She has lied about him being a certain meeting a couple times now and I’m not sure why.
 

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Anyone ever concerned that the other half is up to no good here's a simple test.
You have flowers delivered to her work with "From you know who X" on the card. If she brings them home and thanks you then she's a good girl.
If she doesn't then guess what?
 
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Anyone ever concerned that the other half is up to no good here's a simple test.
You have flowers delivered to her work with "From you know who X" on the card. If she brings them home and thanks you then she's a good girl.
If she doesn't then guess what?
That’s a good idea, but she works from home unless has a meeting at the site.