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It doesn't nec. follow that if she likes big penises, she doesn't like yours. If you go through with this, it could confirm that she likes yours better than a huge one. That would cement your confidence. This is what happened with my wife and me when we did some experimenting. In fact, her worst sexual experience was with a horse dicked dude. More likely, though, if you are there and can maintain the right state of mind, you'll both enjoy it. Just keep it in perspective, TALK with her at length about it. What she anticipates if you do it, how you will fit in, whether she would stop if you felt too hurt, couldn't handle it.
 

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I'm not sure if I would allow my wife to do that. Just because you don't know if it would effect the 'trust bond' you both share. You definitely don't want to be wondering when you are gone or if she is out what she is doing if you allow her to do this who says she stops at just him. Or maybe i'm just paranoid but that's probably the way I would think if she was obsessed with it.
 

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Well, by not letting her have it at all I would really get paranoid about what she was up to. Its life, I think its only fair to let your loved one experience something she wants to try? Why not? Because you are insecure? Thats your problem and issue that you should deal with first. Then everything else is icing on the cake...or the cock.

Its like you not letting her have another man because your afraid she will like it better. If she leaves you because of that you shouldn't be with her anyway. I wouldn't want to deprive my loved one of any of the finer things in life. Thats selfish. Its just sex and its just a cock.
 

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Wether or no you decide to go through with this should be between the two of you. Is you relationship strong enough to handle becoming semi open? Do YOU have issues with this? Only you and your wife can answer it. By opening up a relationship I've seen some relationships grow stronger and I've also seen a devistating effect also...it's 50/50 at best.
If I were you I would log in to www.thundersplace and start the newbie routine to increase the size of your penis. Set a goal, set aside a little time everyday and stick with it....you will see results. And you confidence and self esteem will grow also. I'm a member there and its a wonderful place.
Our society is really becoming obsessed with body image and men of all sizes and shapes are feeling it.
 

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Thanks all...
My wife and I have been together for many (almost 30) years and started going together in High School. She loves me a lot and the relationship is strong. She is my best friend and visa versa. But....She admires large penises. It started many years ago when we rented some porno. Since I'm below average in size they were quite a turn on for both of us. With the 3 inch extension on I'm just under 7 1/2 inches and it also adds a inch around as well at 5 1/2". My guess this dancer is a very honest 9 inches. He said he's 10" (she asked) but I don't think so. We are talking...
 

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Hey, I live close to Windsor, I am going to have to check this place out!

Renee
 

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i would say tell her to stop visiting places like that and YOU need to start stretches/jelqing. its working for me and it would work for you if you stick with it. my penis was 4.8'' last may and now it is close to 6.5''. just stick with it!
 

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Offer an example (as to why I agree this is a 'bad idea'.

Knew a wonderful couple. Healty sex life- the woman had been 'bi-curious' for a long time- her husband and she used to 'kid' about another couple we knew- wondering what it would be like to be a 'fly on the wall' in their bedroom- both were very passionate people- with a real joy in everthing they did- he appeared to be hung, she was nicely figured...

Anyhow, the conversation kept going back to the couple... and that both he and she were attracted to the woman. The discussed couple split up. The suggestion was made both of them to try a 3-way. (he wanted the fantasy of 2 women and his wife well...I think she wanted women).

They had the 3-way. 4 days later he noticed she was not enjoying him as much (this from him). A week later she announced she was moving in with the woman... The 2 women are now 2 years together.

Extreme? yes. Unrealistic? no.

Work on what you have...
 

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Hey, I live close to Windsor, I am going to have to check this place out!

Renee

As I said she only dragged me down there twice but there is no doubt they are large guys. I think you would enjoy it. They have a website
 

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I don't think it's naive, Shelby. I think it's great.

I don't like the idea of "vows" personally. But if you do, I respect that. I don't need vows or a piece of paper to define my relationship. And I don't think my partner and I having sex with another guy diminishes it.

To each his own.
 

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We are going to Danny's tonight and see what happens. I'm bringing an extra few hundred bucks in case we decide to go through with it. How do you think it will go? Horney but a bit worried.
 

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We are going to Danny's tonight and see what happens. I'm bringing an extra few hundred bucks in case we decide to go through with it. How do you think it will go? Horney but a bit worried.

Good luck I hope it works out for you, but I fear that this is the beginning of the end.
 

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I have a couple that i see on and off each month and i fuck his wife while he watches .....she likes big dicks.....but as soon as i finish she is all loving HIM. i will do anything to keep a marriage together...:biggrin1: but it sounds like she is REALLY into big dicks.....watch out.....PECKER is right.
 

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It may be too late now, as you may have already gone out......

I agree with most of the advice here.

Personally, I think that has Trouble written all over it.
Irreversible trouble.

If you didn't mind using the extension sleeve and she enjoyed that.....I think you should have stuck with that.

As for jelqing........many here say it works.....
Hubby hasn't tried it, so I don't know.
Sounds like it takes quite a long time of diligent use to get results.
 

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i just can't resist threads like this one. by all means let her have the hung dude. the curiousity factor is not going away and if you say no, well, its like giving a kid a candy bar and telling him he can't eat it. do you want to live with the resentment? Let her have him. she may want more but it doesn't mean she won't want you too, hahahaha. take a chace, otherwise its a lose-lose situation. Oh, one thing; negotiate the price.
 

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this crazy, how can all of you condone this?

Bro if you really love your wife there is no way that you would be ok with someone else fucking her.

and if yoru wife truley loves you then she would not want to look or be fucked by anyone else.

I think you should re-evaluate your relationship, just cause you got a small dick dont mean its ok for her to sleep with other men.