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Bro if you really love your wife there is no way that you would be ok with someone else fucking her.

and if yoru wife truley loves you then she would not want to look or be fucked by anyone else.

I don't think true love has anything to do with either of these. If he really loves her then he would be into giving her what she desires. And it looks like he is. So because she wants to look or be fucked by a big cock means she doesn't truly love him? Thats fairy-tale land bro. Life is short but sweet and we all have to enjoy it while we can. Depriving someone you love of something they lust for deep down because of your own insecurity is straight up wrong. Like I said before, if she leaves him for a big cock then he shouldn't be with her anyway. It should be something they can both enjoy.
 

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I don't think true love has anything to do with either of these. If he really loves her then he would be into giving her what she desires. And it looks like he is. So because she wants to look or be fucked by a big cock means she doesn't truly love him? Thats fairy-tale land bro. Life is short but sweet and we all have to enjoy it while we can. Depriving someone you love of something they lust for deep down because of your own insecurity is straight up wrong. Like I said before, if she leaves him for a big cock then he shouldn't be with her anyway. It should be something they can both enjoy.


so would you be ok with the mother of your children fucking someone else??? this is what is wrong with our society today. littlel by little we are more accepting of imoral values that if you are religous have strayed away from, and if your not religous then its just common sense and human decency.
 

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so would you be ok with the mother of your children fucking someone else??? this is what is wrong with our society today. littlel by little we are more accepting of imoral values that if you are religous have strayed away from, and if your not religous then its just common sense and human decency.

Yeah I would be ok with it. It has nothing to do with being the mother of my children. She would be my partner, my lover. My vow would have been to make sure she is always satisfied and happy. I think it would be hot. Why would I hold her back from something she wants to enjoy? Its just fucking SEX. I think the above view is whats really wrong with our society today. Everyone is too fucking uptight, especially the religious people. Its the same thing thats been going on for hundreds of years, the man oppressing his woman! Common sense and human decency to me is not surpressing my wifes urges for a big cock for fear of losing her. If she has a desire for it, she is going to find it, with or without you. I'd rather be with her. Would you rather her just be miserable forever?

So wanting a big cock is an immoral value?
 

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We went to Danny's. We did not go through with it yet (he's going out of town for the Holiday). We did get 2 private table dances and watching my wifes reaction to it was interesting. This guy is 1/2 her age (we are 50) and tall and good looking. The 2nd table dance was late and he only managed a partial erection. Even then he's as big as I am with the 3 inch extension on. Do most ladies feel about penis size the way we feel about breast size? They were very loud. We will be going back soon. Sex last night was really good with the extension on and was she excited.
 

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so would you be ok with the mother of your children fucking someone else??? this is what is wrong with our society today. littlel by little we are more accepting of imoral values that if you are religous have strayed away from, and if your not religous then its just common sense and human decency.

I think people need to recognize that what works for one person or relationship doesn't work for all people or relationships. You apparantly have strong feelings about sexual monogamy. Hopefully your spouse will share your feelings. Then you have no problem. Even if you both have unfulfilled desires, your comittment to monogamy may keep your marriage a success.

Other people are able to have a successful marriage or relationship that includes a wider range of experiences than you are comfortable with. This doesn't mean it is bad or wrong. It may be bad or wrong for you, but that doesn't mean it is bad or wrong for them.

Obviously if the partners in a relationship are unsure of how they feel about sexual openness, there is a risk to the relationship. That risk is there whether they act on their sexual desires or keep them repressed. The only solution is open and thoughtful discussion about it.

I've got a big problem with people who tell me what is right or wrong for me based on the way they were brought up or the way they wish to live their lives. You live the way you want to, let others live the way they want to.
 

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I've never heard of Danny's Danny's of Windsor but it seems like a chip off the old Chippendale's theme which used to be here in Southern California. Chippendale's had more of a gay appeal than as a bachelorette attraction. Because a woman of reasonable beauty can just snap her fingers and say "show it to me big guy" there really isn't the market for a show like that; and in fact Chippendale's closed up.

Truthfully is there some small penis humiliation going on here? Long ago at Hedonism II (before I was married) a highly paid executive with a Fortune 500 firm sat in a corner of the hotel room masturbating while I had sex with his wife, twenty-five years his junior. When he came crawling over to asked his wife-in the middle of sex- some overtly weird questions about our penis size differential I quickly lost interest in the tryst and left.

If you are truly into this sort penile humiliation than please join a nudist resort or take your wife to one of the Super Clubs resorts in Jamaica. Penises which extend into double figures can be found prowling the waters around Delroy's nude swim-up bar.
 

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So wanting a big cock is an immoral value?[/quote]


nope not at all, but letting one man fuck you and then going home to sleep to your husband is just insane. you have got to be very detached from love, caring or self respect for that. I mean if you had a problem getting your dick hard its one thing, but to just want have sex with someone larger? Why did you get married in the first place if that is such an important factor?
 

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I'm suspicious of this question/poster. It sounds like a lot of his fantasy about small penis humiliation as the others have mentioned. Not much about what she gets out of this behavior.

My GF and I are right near where the guy lives, but no response when we mentioned it. Now he is posting, "Didn't go through with it." He also seems too upset the second dancer could not get fully hard. Awww, poor baby!

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excuse me. I wasn't upset, she was concerned that at age 50 she didn't excite him.
I have a small penis. Do I wish it was large. Damn straight. Do I have envy of guys with large ones...you bet. Do I like humiliation, no, I except it, because what can I do about it? You guys that have large ones have no idea what us "little guys" go through. If starts in Jr. High and goes from there. If you don't believe my posts then take your better half to Danny's and verify everything I said. We are thinking of a change in lifestyle...simple. Our kids are grown up and as we get older our needs and thoughts change...and I don't like boating.
 

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Yeah I would be ok with it. It has nothing to do with being the mother of my children. She would be my partner, my lover. My vow would have been to make sure she is always satisfied and happy. I think it would be hot. Why would I hold her back from something she wants to enjoy? Its just fucking SEX. I think the above view is whats really wrong with our society today. Everyone is too fucking uptight, especially the religious people. Its the same thing thats been going on for hundreds of years, the man oppressing his woman! Common sense and human decency to me is not surpressing my wifes urges for a big cock for fear of losing her. If she has a desire for it, she is going to find it, with or without you. I'd rather be with her. Would you rather her just be miserable forever?

So wanting a big cock is an immoral value?

Just out of curiosity, if the husband or bf is supposed to facilitate turning his parterns fantasies into reality then is it in your view okay for him to go around find younger or more attractive women because that's what he desires? There are plenty of attractive female escorts would would do anything for the right price. And then ask the wife the watch the act too. Or is that not cool because it will hurt the wife's feelings?
 

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I am sorry but you go too far with this, for a starter I'd refuse to wear an extension... have you ever thought about buying her a big fat dildo and use it on her? Be more dominant and have her beg for you using it on her... there are so many things you can do without having her have sex with an escort... I know you may think: yeah easy for you with your cock, but I think this all comes down too confidence and the right attitude.
 

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excuse me. I wasn't upset, she was concerned that at age 50 she didn't excite him.
I have a small penis. Do I wish it was large. Damn straight. Do I have envy of guys with large ones...you bet. Do I like humiliation, no, I except it, because what can I do about it? You guys that have large ones have no idea what us "little guys" go through. If starts in Jr. High and goes from there. If you don't believe my posts then take your better half to Danny's and verify everything I said. We are thinking of a change in lifestyle...simple. Our kids are grown up and as we get older our needs and thoughts change...and I don't like boating.
dont sweat it bro.you dont have to convince anyone here of anything.some members are very opinionated.remember..opinions are like assholes&birthdays,everybody has one.:wink:
 

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Just out of curiosity, if the husband or bf is supposed to facilitate turning his parterns fantasies into reality then is it in your view okay for him to go around find younger or more attractive women because that's what he desires? There are plenty of attractive female escorts would would do anything for the right price. And then ask the wife the watch the act too. Or is that not cool because it will hurt the wife's feelings?

If she wants a big cock and for you to allow her to have it then she should be willing to let you have what you want as well. Give a little, take a little. If both sides can't agree or be secure enough with the situation then it won't work. I think they would be heading into the swinger realm. If it hurts the wife's feelings then don't let her get the big cock if you want, she should be mature enough to handle the situation though and understand.

Your letting her fuck a big cock. That is a great gift. She should be willing to return the favor somehow.
 

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There are still missing peices to the picture. What has been the pattern in the past 30 years? Did you make a commitment to be only with each other? Does she allow you to sleep with prostitutes? How long has she been going to this place? Were you present when the offer was made by the male prositute?

It sounds like from what you wrote that you are as sexually turned on by this possible encounter as she is? Do you also have fantasies concerning a encounter with a big dick guy?

There have been good reasons given by both sides? How it would affect you marriage is something we can't really answer because we don't have enough information.

However, in general, Pecker is right. In most marriages, stepping out into this kind of activity ends up in the marraige failing.

But for the really open couple, it can strengthen the marriage.

You and your wife need to have some real heart to heart talks about all of this and what you believe about marriage and expectations of marriage.

Some women from child birth and age have had their vaginas become loose. I have read where some women have had surgery to tighten the vagina and it has improved their sex life.

Good luck. Keep us posted.
 

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I mean, you're basically pathetic aren't you? You are letting the fact that your dick is below average make you think that you don't deserve a sexually exclusive relationship. The fact is that it's okay if she has desires for a bigger cock - who knows, maybe she can't help it. But if she loved you, she wouldn't want to act on it. Why? Because love implies a desire to make someone happy. If she wanted to make you happy, she wouldn't act on a sexual desire that would hurt you so much. The fact that she is willing means that she loves a bigger cock more than she loves you. Makes you pathetic, doesn't it? NO - it doesn't. What makes you pathetic is the fact that you stand for it. So, congrats - you're very pathetic. But hey, maybe you enjoy it. But if you don't, then read the next paragraph.

Have some fucking dignity man - find a girl who cares a little more about you than the size of your dick. 4.5" isn't a micro dick - you can still do the job for most chicks. Go find one that doesn't put such a priority on cock size. If you told your wife you were going to fuck another woman b/c her tits were bigger, I'd tell your wife to end the relationship with your shallow ass too. Have some fucking dignity and find a girl with better priorities. So what if you're 50? That's the new 40 these days.

To point out I'm not biased, I'm 8.5" by 6.25".