wife shared a picture, i feel bad doing same

[nakedone]

The difference is that your wife showed her tits to a man that she knows already! When you show your cock on this site, it is to a bunch of strangers. Big Difference!!

Why don't you show US the photos of her tits? Or ask her to do it! We would all love to see YOUR wife's naked tits!

 

[tallblondviking]

If I am understand this situation correctly, you want to be able to post nudes of yourself here, but you don't want her to post nudes of herself where she wants to: then yes, you are a hypocrite.

On a scale, I'd say what she did was worse because she actually knows the guy, but the bottom line is that doesn't matter. You shouldn't have double standards.

I just feel like if you showed her your profile on here, and let her go through your old posts, that your marriage could be in danger. I hope that isn't the case. I hope your wife loves and accepts you for who you are. I hope your marriage is going to be okay and I hope you guys live happily ever after.

I have to agree; either it is okay for both of you to share pics with others or it is not - ever. What I have to ask is why you both are sharing pics with others in the first place? I do not ask this question with any sort of judgement or condemnation. It sounds as if some healthy, honest communication is needed to avoid problems downt he road. You might be pleasantly surprised with the outcome. I wish you well!

 

[Incocknito]

There's a difference between having pics on the internet and them being anonymous and viewed by strangers who you will never meet and who will never recognise you.

And sending pictures to someone you know who is probably sending pictures back. Ask yourself why she is sending him pictures or better yet ask her.

I don't think people send naked pictures to people that they don't want to have sex with.

I happen to think its a big deal. How would she feel if you sent a picture of your cock to someone you know? You should tell her you have and see what she says.

 

[wseattle]

So i recently found out my wife texted a picture of her tits to another guy she works with, though he is in another state. she as drunk, and i still believe she didn't cheat, but thats besides the point.

my big question is, am i a hypocrite doing the same basically here?

im torn

Her was way more personal I think.

 

[B_subgirrl]

Either one is bad if you're hiding it. If you can't share it with your partner, you're doing the wrong thing.

 

[D_Crystallized Ginger]

I can't understand why you feel bad yet once you know she made the same... now you should feel all right because you both are made of the same matter!

 

[EmJay]

ducati? have you figured out what you are going to do? I am curious...

 

[Drifterwood]

If you can't share it with your partner, you're doing the wrong thing.

I just don't agree with this relationship mantra.

I have discussed it with some great female members here over the years, but can you imagine being completely honest all the time with a partner?

We filter out most of our negative thoughts, if we didn't, it would appear that we were constantly not really happy and being critical.

"Actually this meal is pretty poor
Your hair looks bad today
That doesn't suit you
Oh God, not your mother again
That sex was pretty ordinary
My ex used to etc etc etc"

I don't think people really want each other to be honest all the time.

 

[B_subgirrl]

I just don't agree with this relationship mantra.

I have discussed it with some great female members here over the years, but can you imagine being completely honest all the time with a partner?

We filter out most of our negative thoughts, if we didn't, it would appear that we were constantly not really happy and being critical.

I would say I'm completely honest 99.9% of the time and ALWAYS when it relates directly to our sex and relationship. I would want the same thing from a partner.

"Actually this meal is pretty poor

Okay, so here I might be less than 100% honest and say 'I liked the last thing you cooked better', or 'Not as good as usual'. You can be honest without being hurtful.

Your hair looks bad today
That doesn't suit you

I would DEFINITELY tell them this. A friend used to take me shopping with her because she knew I WOULD be honest about how she looked in new clothes.

Oh God, not your mother again

I've never disliked their mother enough to need to say it, so I can't say if I would in real life.

That sex was pretty ordinary

Have definitely said it, although usually using different words eg. 'It wasn't working for me' or 'Not as good as usual'.

My ex used to etc etc etc"

I've never hesitated to say those words.

I don't think people really want each other to be honest all the time.

ALL the time? Maybe not. Most of the time? Definitely.

And I do think what is being discussed in this thread is a little different. All the things in your example are thoughts, not acts, and none of them are likely to be the reason for a break up in and of themselves. The acts discussed by the OP are directly related to sex and their relationship, and may well be a reason for a break up for some people.

 

[overninept5]

Very simple. If you won't do it with her in the room watching..............! Bingo.

 

[gangbangmygirl]

how many girls u know that have texted u pics of their tits that u werent already or ended up banging. she prob messed around with this dude, or at the very least was asking for it.

 

[Drifterwood]

how many girls u know that have texted u pics of their tits that u werent already or ended up banging.

Several.

 

[deleted621284]

The way I see it is different in the way that if u post here and don't show ur face everybody on this site probably interacts with u in person and they won't know u but wen u text someone a pic they know ur number and who u are u know wat I mean wat I'm trying to say is she fucked up and really bad but that's just me

 

[deleted627832]

It Is the same....No differece!!!! Naked pix's are still naked pix's!!! no matter were they go.

 

[SnakeForeskin]

Sorry, Bud, but it's not the same thing. Saying that your wife's behavior is okay because you post pictures on this site is idiotic and it's an oversimplification. Context matters. And by the way, how do you know that her sending pictures of her breasts to this guy is as far as she's gone? How do you know she isn't already sleeping with him? You should probably be asking some tough questions here. Also, I'd keep in mind that, at least in my experience, women will give you part of the truth to cover up something uglier.

Additionally, her being drunk is no excuse. Alcohol doesn't change your desires. It reveals them. It frees you to do what you already wanted to do anyways. People who go around blaming alcohol for their actions generally struggle with things like integrity and taking responsibility.

Having said all that, I'd dump her ass immediately.

 

[maxcok]

Sorry, Bud, but it's not the same thing. Saying that your wife's behavior is okay because you post pictures on this site is idiotic and it's an oversimplification. Context matters.

You're paraphrasing and oversimplifying. The OP didn't say it's "okay", he asked, "my big question is, am i a hypocrite doing the same basically here?" The implication is, neither is "okay".

Yes, context matters. So does content.

BTW, which is more revealing, flashing your tits, or showing off your hard cock?

And by the way, how do you know that her sending pictures of her breasts to this guy is as far as she's gone? How do you know she isn't already sleeping with him? You should probably be asking some tough questions here. Also, I'd keep in mind that, at least in my experience, women will give you part of the truth to cover up something uglier.

Do men always disclose the full truth?

Additionally, her being drunk is no excuse. Alcohol doesn't change your desires. It reveals them. It frees you to do what you already wanted to do anyways. People who go around blaming alcohol for their actions generally struggle with things like integrity and taking responsibility.

I'm all for integrity responsibility and honesty, especially in intimate relationships. In the interest of full disclosure, do you think it would be appropriate for the OP to give his wife access to his LPSG postings and pictures? If not, why not?

Is 'what's good for the goose, good for the gander'? If not, why not?

Having said all that, I'd dump her ass immediately.

You advise that based on this one incident and knowing nothing else about the dynamics of their relationship? It sounds to me like maybe you have a double standard. It also sounds like you have trust issues with women, or maybe you just don't think very much of them.

 

[demian164]

completely different things. you are posting pictures in an online environment that, unless you are trying to get hook ups, will never change or penetrate your personal life. she is sending another man whom she knows naked pictures of herself. how many other pics has she sent? why would she do this?

your wife is either cheating on you already or wants to. i would end the relationship. cant let a woman think she can get away with shit like that

 

[Drifterwood]

You advise that based on this one incident and knowing nothing else about the dynamics of their relationship? It sounds to me like maybe you have a double standard. It also sounds like you have trust issues with women, or maybe you just don't think very much of them.

I completely agree Max.

The equivalent of the OP's pictures would be her cunt not her tits.

The OP presumably knows his wife and only he can judge her actions within the parameters of his knowledge of her. The rest of us are giving our general opinions that reflect our own standards and expectations.

A young (probably sexy) wife gets drunk and flashes her tits, OMG the end of the world. The husband likes to parade his hard cock on a porn site. They are different but both reflect the characters of the individuals. Maybe you need to live with who you actually are rather than what you think is expected.

 

[denton85]

Things in the world have changed since the Internet and technology have rushed into modern society at such a quick rate before we can REALLY make judgements. However lets try to simply this down to basic parts.

Your actions here (like me and many others) would be like taking an picture developing it (or printing it) and going to a building where others take nude self pictures of themselves and putting it in one of their books or right up on the wall on the inside of the building.

What she has done would be her taking a similar picture of herself, and either handing it to a man that knows for his enjoyment....

Although it doesn't seem that different, it is. He will have this picture and see this as an advance. He will think there at least a window open (if not a door) of opportunity for him to sleep your wife.

Things would be different however if the COMPLETE purpose of you being here (and the purpose of this site) is to meet other men and women for some sort of relationship. However as many of us know, that is not the case.

Ask yourself this, would you feel less angry if she posted her breasts on this website or another anonymously? Because i'd MUCH rather have a wife that posted on here, than giving it to a male friend. One implies intent on WANTING for the friend to see her more, and advancement on his part.

While posting on here is more anonymous exhibition.

 

[Butler]

In my view, had she posted pics on a open site like this then so what...however sending a personal MMS to a friend is different. Same as if you had sent a pic of your cock to a female mate.