rob_just_rob
Sexy Member
If I post a message saying "I love you all" on this board (or facebook, or wherever), is it the same thing as sending a message to one person, saying "I love you"?
... She flat out doesn't even want to see this guy. ....
If you're trying to work on the "trust issues", don't you see a problem, a double standard if fact, if you haven't come clean with her about your activities here?Hey so here is whats up. We are doing better. There are some trust issues, but that goes farther back, with money and stuff too. But, we are still happily together, i still do this on my OWN time without her knowing, and keep it to posting, not looking for a hookup.
If this is true, I suspect you're still in real trouble.. . . . it almost destroyed our marriage.
By the same token, should she trust you?She flat out doesn't even want to see this guy. I know some of you will be like, yeah right, she is a liar, but I have to trust her.
That first bit sounds like a rationalization. Why don't you just be honest and see how she feels about it?but, in my book, this is different, im not trying to hook up, not cheating, just enjoying. I wouldn't care if she did this with her pussy on her own time, as long as she didn't pursue anything from it. Hell, I would invite her here to join me, share pictures all night, if i thought she would be into it.
I notice you didn't answer my questions. If by "seeing someone" you mean couples counseling, that's great. However, if you haven't been honest and forthcoming about your activities and involvement here, you're practicing a double standard. Often the most suspicious and mistrustful people are those with something to hide themselves. I strongly suggest you come clean and try to put your relationship on an open, honest and equal footing. Otherwise, to answer the question in your OP, yes, you're being a hypocrite, and it does not bode well for your relationship.yeah, absolutely, when i drilled her about it over and over, she finally admitted they had flirted. And yes it did almost destroy our marriage, and are seeing someone about it currently. I still have weird thoughts that she messed around with him while at training that week, but I am a VERY negative and paranoid person, so who knows. Its possible, but i dont think likely.
This. All of it.What is this, Shariah law? Did she keep her veil on when she flashed her tits?
First, what are you doing spying on her phone?
Secondly, be happy that she isn't dead below the neck. You're young for god's sake, have a bit of fun. Oh and she has a bit of an exhibitionist thing going on. Maybe you could add some joint pics in your profile.
Stop being a prude, generally.
If you take this advice, make certain you each have your own accounts.You could also decide to bring it up, clear your current user and pics and start a new one with her..as if you have just wanted to set up an account together with her..
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So i recently found out my wife texted a picture of her tits to another guy she works with, though he is in another state. she as drunk, and i still believe she didn't cheat, but thats besides the point.
my big question is, am i a hypocrite doing the same basically here?
im torn
Female here, I'm sorry Ducati3016 but what your wife did was so very wrong on so many counts that if I were married to her I would be really pissed (that is unless you have an previously agreed to open marriage as swingers).
I may be delusional, but I view this site as more a guy's site (you know a place for male bonding - asking questions and comparing sizes which is absolutely normal between guys). Unless you are online actively soliciting hookups I would not consider the two instances as the same.
Just my two cents worth...
Her was way more personal I think.
I do believe that any woman who allows herself to be photographed naked is wanting to show those photos to other men. She may deny it, especially to her husband, but she is still thrilled to know there may be men out there looking and lusting after her naked body.
So, in a sense, the husband who has nude photos of his wife is carrying-out her wishes when she shares them with other men.