Wife Sharing and Cuckolds, How did you get into it?

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  1. jk60122

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    I like many other men in this world have a fantasy about seeing my wife with another man. We have discussed it in the past, she has seened into it at times, and then other times she has not. I have pretty much just left it alone. If she ever wants to explore it further that would be great but it up to her.

    But to all of the men and woman that are into this type of thing, how did you get into it? Who's idea was it? Where did you find a person? Did your partner like the idea from the start or did it take some convincing? What were the experiences like? How did it affect your relationship?

    Please share your experiences.

    I don't want to hear from people that are against this type of thing. I am not looking to be judged, and I don't want anyone posting their experiences being judged either. I don't want to hear that you think it is wrong and you would never do it or any stuff like that. If you don't have anything constuctive to add, please don't add anything.
     
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    let me know what u hear. .Like to get mine to play as well. . .
     
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    We got into it because my husband always pictured me as being a porn star. He has always thought I was super sexy and should be shared. He enjoys watching me with someone else and is VERY turned on at even just the thought. We have gone back and fourth on the subject because when I'm super turned on I am into it , but when I'm not I could take it or leave it. It's not that he doesn't please me , he just gets turned on by it. He loves big things in me , so naturally he wants me to be with guys who are hung - it's also a plus that I LOVE hung cocks. I was with previous guys before we were married and since being married in march i have only been with one. As weird as this sounds I almost think it made us a stronger and more open couple. It's as if doing the cuckold or having an open relationship made us more honest. We are able to live out his fantasies as well as mine without feeling guilty. I can't say what will happen with your situation , but if you don't try you will never know. It has also significantly improved our sex life together too !
     
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    I met my now husband at a swingers club, I joined him and his then GF for a FMF, we started meeting often. I guess we fell in love, the other girl still joins us regularly. We have been swinging as a couple for 5 years. I love watching him with other girls, he loves watching me with other girls and men.
    Swinging is so much fun and I agree can make a relationship stronger.
     
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    I have to agree with the above posts.. I think it does make a relationship stronger when u can be open about what u want. but U also have to both be on the same page when it comes down to it as well.. I have been in a relationship and we got into swinging and I loved it.. I loved to watch him please and be please by another female as well as he loved to watch me.. My last BF was very much wanting to watch me with a hung guy and it turned him on greatly to think about it and It turned me on as well 1 to know that he was so hot and horned up over the idea and 2 cause I was gonna get the best of it all...
    Looking for a guy to be the male is up to u there are swinger sites out that and u can join and go to parties, or u can place an ad out there as well and see what u get..
    My last bf and i got alot of responses from the ad we placed, just never got the chance to meet them..
    Best wishes
     
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    I like to see my girl get fucked
     
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    Have always been attracted to the idea of being the bull, probably appeals to my slightly dom tendencies.
     
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    I have been used as a bull twice and both times the couple have been very pleased and had a strong relationship with each other. I am not sure how he or she convinced the other but it seemed to work out for them. There was never any relationship out side of the sex just me taking care of business which I was glad to do
     
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    Hi i been having a crazy urge to ask my wife to cuckold me but just been scared on how
    to tell her but i love the thought of a bigger cock then mine fucking her in-front of me.
    i have a very hot 21 year old wife every guy we pass by is always checking her out.
    and for some reason it seams to turn me on, she has no idea i feel this way but i wish she did. i want to be cuckold but just not normally i wanna be tied up humiliated and
    compared to a bigger penis. is this a normal thing to want? p.s is there any willing
    bulls who can give me some advice on how to get her into this kind of thing? i know
    she needs a bigger dick every time we fuck i feel like im doing nothing to her pussy
    here are some pics of her tell me what you think :)
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    Late 30s couple ,,, been in the lifestyle off/on for 8 yrs .... have experimented with some light cucking -- mostly verbal stuff. Wife loves to dirty talk and is always in the lookout for a couple with a hubby hung bigger than me. She will dirty talk to me and the other wife about how the other hubby is fucking her -- the verbal sparring really gets her excited. She also encourages the hubbies to compare cocks side by side and comment on each other ... have to admit ... its a turn on to put em side by side by side and compare.
     
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    My wife and I used to swing as a couple. We'd also swing separately. It was all good for a while, then we just got busy and that went by the wayside.

    Then here recently - two years later - she's expressed an interest again in getting with some one. I think it was one specific guy who was hitting on her that got her motor running. Of course we talked about it and came to an agreement on it. And now she's got 4 different dudes she plays with pretty regularly.

    Honestly, I just haven't had the desire to get out of my comfort zone of just being with my wife. I could if I wanted to, there's no restriction, I'm just content as is. So, in a way, we've fallen into the cuckold thing.

    Happy Thanksgiving everyone!
     
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    I got into swinging almost by accident over 20 years ago when my then ex-wife was constently hit on by the husband of a couple we use to drink and hangout with. One night he 'jokingly' asked if he could fuck my wife. After A LOT of drinks I answered "Sure only if I can watch while if fuck yours!". Moments later I watched him slide his cock into her while his wife sucked my dick. After that night my wife and I didn't talk about it really but everytime I fucked her I thought about it and how hot it was watching her fuck.

    Many months later at another party I got turned on and this time I started it by asking if I could fuck his wife again. She had her period and couldn't/wouldn't so my wife said "How about you both do me" and from that point forward all doors were open. You haven't had a blowjob until you get one from your wife or GF while she is getting royally fucked.

    I suggest everyone try it at least once...but ONLY if you are already in a very strong and stable relationship!!!
     
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    id love to find a woman whod be into having a cuckold relationship with a set guy or a couple guys who were very hung to fuck her. id want her to be honest and not lie about guys she gets with but only plays in front of me. I have a fairly small penis and am bi so seeing a big cock please a woman i cared for would be ok with me. i kinda get into humiliation type stuff and if she was ok id suck or do other stuff they told me to. also would like to have them finish inside her for me to lick up if they were tested and she was on birth control. maybe eventually even arrange for him to come over while im gone and bring a friend or two with him and film so i can watch. i tried getting into cuckolding with ex gfs of mine by having them wear clothes that would reveal everything and go to bars where guys would stare and watch from a distance as she danced and sometimes would get felt up by them. one time a male friend of my gf was drunk and they danced and she said she felt his cock get hard and ended up guiding his hand down so he could finger her. that was the furthest things went though.
     
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    Were a fairly new couple and met thru our mutual lady friend, his gf and my lover. [to long of a story]. We both enjoy sharing each other, though I prefer a lady and he another man. He really gets turned on when I'm fucked at both ends. I prefer having him fuck me while I'm giving a blow job and I think he does too. We never had the cockold where he just watches and hung cocks are not an issue. Actually I enjoy seeing him penetratring another woman more, so maybe it's a reversed cockold. Of course I love to be first to get her all warmed up for him. Usually we do the 69 and he does the penetrating. I love seeing his cock inside her with my face so close and can lick, suck them both. Though I prefer women I do get great satisfaction from making a man cum in my mouth and he loves knowing I'm swallowing.

    We haven't had alot of partners involved, though I did give three blow jobs to his friends then they watched him fuck me. I have to admit that was exciting. I very new to this, though somewhat of a show off. He loves me to show off my saggy black boobs in public. I think my butt is my best part and do love wearing short skirts to show off. Right now I'm working away from him and missing all the fun we had.

    Call me crazy but I would love to have him send me pics of him being sucked by another woman, even a man would be cool. He wants me to do the same but I really don't think I could be with another man while were not together, of course with another woman will happen. We both know we were made for each other and have fallen in love. I can't say that this type of a relationship made us fall in love, but I know it has made our trusting in each other so strong.

    I knew his lifestyle and he knew mine so it just happened. He did take some convicing before I let another man join in. I loved every minute of our experiences and looking for more. I am also a full time nudist now. Many have asked for more pics but we both really care about taking pics of the action.
     
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    My wife and I have been in to swinger's clubs and I've watched her with other men and women. She was the one who pushed me to be with another guy and finally I;ve been into a couple of sixty-nines or we have had several threesomes with other men. She likes me to go down on her after another guy has fucked her.
     
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    Started with dirty talk in the bedroom about threesomes. Eventually she said "I can get someone around" told her to do it and the guy came around. Heart was banging like fuck but once we got started it was amazing! I love watching her with another guy, I just wish it happened a lot more often.
     
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    My ex-wife and I talked about it during sex. We then just pulled some different friends in on occasion. Pretty soon, our entire group of friends were all fucking each other. Great times!
     
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    Shortly after marriage we went to an adults only resort. There, we would participate in all the resort activities and it was fun. Since my wife has a thick juicy ass, I loved spanking it. I would spank her whenever the urge came on which was often especially when we were dancing. Had a couple of other married men approach me asking if I would spank there wives while they watched. One guy was a newlywed that week. as the week progressed we would spank each others wives. Many months later wife and I would reflect back on that trip and she brought up how horny and wet that made her feel being spanked by others. I asked if she would want anything more and she openly said she would have liked to suck those guys off after the spanking. Being nudists we've seen plenty go on and happen especially at private parties and we have always discussed the events in details. It certainly made it for hotter sex.
    I have always been ok with sharing her mentally so I was ready to let her have fun. With 2 trusted guys we know, sharing her and watching her have the fun she had and has been having with me joining in the fun, certainly made that part of our life way more fun.
     
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    My wife had an affair with a co worker. So I confronted him. Made him tell me all the details or I would tell his wife. As he told me, it started turning me on. I then encouraged her to meet up with him again. He told me all the details after she left. When she came home, I bent her over and ate the cream pie out of her ass that he left me.
     
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    I'd love to do this but have always been too scared to bring it up :(
     
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