I like many other men in this world have a fantasy about seeing my wife with another man. We have discussed it in the past, she has seened into it at times, and then other times she has not. I have pretty much just left it alone. If she ever wants to explore it further that would be great but it up to her. But to all of the men and woman that are into this type of thing, how did you get into it? Who's idea was it? Where did you find a person? Did your partner like the idea from the start or did it take some convincing? What were the experiences like? How did it affect your relationship? Please share your experiences. I don't want to hear from people that are against this type of thing. I am not looking to be judged, and I don't want anyone posting their experiences being judged either. I don't want to hear that you think it is wrong and you would never do it or any stuff like that. If you don't have anything constuctive to add, please don't add anything.