So I'm a Tri-sexual guy in a lonterm committed relationship with the straightest of strait woman. See is sexy as hell, has an awesome body, and hands down best sex I've ever had, and I've had more than my fair share...all this while she can count her combined sex partners all on one hand...
So before she knew I had been with guys before, we'd get freaky every now and then and this lead to her pegging me a few times. It was incredible! If you've ever experienced that kind of openness and intimacy it truly is amazing! So then I opened up and asked her what she thought about us finding a bi guy to fuck me?? She agreed until I found one and then got cold feet. It almost split us up.
Since then no more pegging or ass play for me and I go through stages of missing it to craving it...even if it's just from her pegging and rimming me like before. Aside from that everything is still amazing and great! The times I've brought it up haven't been good...
She (like a lot of women) can't separate sex and emotional attarchment. For me, I'm not attracted to men, don't look at them and think anything, don't kiss or cuddle (cause that's just gay) lol!! When I think of male/male sex or get aroused by it all I'm thinking about and invisioning it a long, fat cock slamming into my well lived tight ass and feeling the fullness, the stretching, the full hanging sack slapping at my taint or ass with each thrust, and being filled with a huge load of cum!
So lately (past year or so) I've been fantasizing about watching her with another man. Sure I would eventually like her to want the same (probably not watching) for me, but that isn't the reason I've wanted it. She is smoking fucking hot, has a great pussy and ass, and deserves it. I'm sure the first time or two I might want to join, we'd have to work all that out. My biggest concern is that she is 100% satisfied, loyal, and honest with me. She literally has eyes for no one else and is pretty conservative. She won't even wear low cut tops to show off.
So in yalls experience, what's the best way to approach the subject? When? During sex? After sex? Dirty talk during sex "i.e. Fucking her hard and she's about to cum and asking her "you like that cock?" Which I have many times in that exact situation in time, but this time when she says "uh huuuh", then asking in the same gritted teeth tone "you wish it was someone else's cock"...(I'm not small) but saying "someone bigger?" Or telling her "youd look so sexy with another mans cock in your mouth (or ass) right now" saying that right before I cum and fill her to the brim...
What's the best way to break the ice on this?? Thanks!!