I have had wives shared with me regularly since I was a teenager. I have 3 regular couples now, which is fairly normal for me. Most often the hubs watch at least part of the time. Having him with us and watching is hot, but usually, at least at first, the wife wants some alone time with me to feel totally uninhibited, and really abandon herself to the pleasure. Once everyone gets used to the arrangement, the wife will often let the husband watch more of the time.