Wife struggles with blowjobs, says it's "too big" -- advice?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by KSUWildcatFan, Aug 20, 2009.

  1. cdarro

    cdarro New Member

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    Same problem with my current GF, and a few others in the past. Definitely a drawback to being larger than average.
     
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    Ditto.
     
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    I've learnt that the secret to a good blowjob is when she likes it. It doesn't matter if she can't get the entire cock in her mouth. So I fully support the method of encouraging her and letting her know that what she does is good. Once u've done that it's OK to ask her to do certain things. When you see her worshiping your cock and loving it, trust me it will turn you on and you'll soon blow your load.
    her not liking cum is a different thing. But I think it's all in the attitude. When she realizes it's not degrading for her to take your cum she might agree to do it and even like it.
     
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    I'm a tall girl with a small mouth, and almost no gag reflex. Anything over 5.25" in girth is hard for me to suck for any length of time. Also, a lot of guys can't come from a bj. I think you are obsessing over this unnecessarily. Why not enjoy what she can do, instead of obsessing over what she can't. If experiencing a deep throat bj is that important to you; then buy a Fleshlight. I hear they are a pretty good simulation of the real thing.


    Short of getting a penis reduction, no there is nothing you can do. :rolleyes: :duh:
     
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    Yeah I can't cope with giving head to my boyfriend. Last time I got it down my throat but I almost choked. I am happy to suck the shaft I can't swallow it.
     
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    My wife's technique for sucking my cock is probably the most original, yet the simplest I've ever seen. No sliding up and down, no licking it like a popsicle. She takes the head into her mouth and sucks on it like you'd suck on your thumb. Her tougue slides side to side on my frenulum when she wants to add variety, but overall it's exactly like thumbsucking.

    Heaven!
     
  7. KSUWildcatFan

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    I love how presumptuous and holier-than-thou some people are, as though they have a freaking clue.

    Here's a suggestion: if you don't have anything worthwhile to contribute to the thread, just shove your opinion up your a$$.

    Never once did I say that I expected my wife to "shove it all the way down her throat". And how do you know what I do or don't do for my wife?

    Thanks for playing, bbye.
     
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    I have a Fleshlight. It's awesome. :p
     
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    I have wanted to get one for a while now... Is it close to the "real thing"?
     
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    I dunno, but it's well worth the money. :>
     
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    how is she talking? your dick is in her mouth.:confused:
     
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    you shud ask her to do more tounge work
     
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    Yeah... Its totally frustrating - A small mouth, teeth and a thick cock are the ultimate nightmare combination!!!!! Been on the painful end of that equation too many times!!!!!

    If you have a TV in your bedroom or livingroom for that matter - Try a sexy HOT porn flick where a petite girl works down a big dick with ease... When ready, flip her around and start 69ing her... lick her brains out!!!! If shes turned on she may give it the old college try - and who knows???? You may score a deep throat.

    If not... flip her around and give her a pounding she will remember for the next few days.....
     
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    Hey man you are just not lucky. If this is what she can do, then there's no -how to deepthroat a big cock - technique. You may look for another mouth to please your dick. Don't worry you will not be the first to look for another partner only for blow jobs.
     
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    Yep, this is 100% accurate. Makes me glad im on the smaller size, my girlfriend can go all the way to the base and deep throats me, if feels so amzing, she gives amazing head. :tongue:
     
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    That's my favorite. The sliding in and out thing is dramatic and it feels pretty good, but I love it when she puts the head in her mouth and just sucks it. She also slobbers all over it and holds it tight in her hand and jerks me off in her mouth real slow. Nothing better than that. Frankly, I would prefer she not deep throat it. I know it's uncomfortable, and I would rather her do something she is good at and enjoys.
     
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