Had a big moment with my wife two nights ago,
my wife of 5 years (dating 11), and I had a conversation of size which left me with mixed feelings. We dated since high school and i was her first and only partner. So her only real experience with penis has been me, and some porn we have watched together. We have a good sex life, and all throughout she has always said i am big, and she loves my size etc. (she liked to boost my ego), and she even would vaguely and jokingly tell her friends about me being big. So, suddenly we happen to be on a conversation about size, and I ask her how long she things i am (we have never talked inches before). She responded, "5 inches.....i dont know...maybe six?" (she said 6 after seeing my facial expressions). But she really thought 5. My heart just dropped, I was kind of stunned. I said "so, you think i'm small?" And she answered "no, that is normal, you are really thick and i'm happy etc. (trying to be nice). I didn't tell her my length right then, and i acted as though i have never measured (but my obsession with lpsg has caused me to measure many times over the years, she has know clue about). So i told her "well, measure me tonight" (when the kids are asleep). She had like a "you dont have to"/"dont be dissapointed" look, but just said okay.
So we put the kids to bed, and as soon as she was did, she came over with the measuring tape. She was all business. She helped me get hard, and measured. She saw it hit 7 inches and she remeasured to make sure and got red and just smiled and said "wow, no wonder why you rock my world!" I will always remember this line. I could see her thoughts running through her head, she just started oral, and we had some of the most awesome sex we have had.
We talked about it after, she said she just thought i was average, but she didn't care much. She said she just thought average(a bit skewed) was plenty big. I don't really see myself as big, just on the bigger side of average (lpsg reminds me all the time), but now she thinks i am just big. She just said she is just luckier than she thought.
well, this whole situation left me with mixed emotions. I am happy she has a more accurate view of my penis, and she has been more playful these last couple days. But it left me thinking about why she saw it as small.
My thoughts were that she saw penis looked average because of my overall frame, which i'm 6'2 230 pounds, not super fit, but not too overweight. I have big hands and feet. She is 5'10 or 5'11, i forget, and she is what you consider a tall woman. She is pretty fit, but tall, and she has big hands for a girl, just due to her frame. I always have felt rather small, but my inches were always at 7 from my teenage years, which i think is why i originally came across this site, my feeling of small. I came at peace with it, thinking it is just me overthinking or what not, and all the porn i watch are from smaller frame guys with even longer penises, so proportion they just look so huge. I kind of thought it was just me, so the feeling of small are coming back a bit, but along with the feeling of my wife being satisfied and proud of my length....so it's an odd feeling.
I was wondering if anyone has encountered similar feeling or situation?
my wife of 5 years (dating 11), and I had a conversation of size which left me with mixed feelings. We dated since high school and i was her first and only partner. So her only real experience with penis has been me, and some porn we have watched together. We have a good sex life, and all throughout she has always said i am big, and she loves my size etc. (she liked to boost my ego), and she even would vaguely and jokingly tell her friends about me being big. So, suddenly we happen to be on a conversation about size, and I ask her how long she things i am (we have never talked inches before). She responded, "5 inches.....i dont know...maybe six?" (she said 6 after seeing my facial expressions). But she really thought 5. My heart just dropped, I was kind of stunned. I said "so, you think i'm small?" And she answered "no, that is normal, you are really thick and i'm happy etc. (trying to be nice). I didn't tell her my length right then, and i acted as though i have never measured (but my obsession with lpsg has caused me to measure many times over the years, she has know clue about). So i told her "well, measure me tonight" (when the kids are asleep). She had like a "you dont have to"/"dont be dissapointed" look, but just said okay.
So we put the kids to bed, and as soon as she was did, she came over with the measuring tape. She was all business. She helped me get hard, and measured. She saw it hit 7 inches and she remeasured to make sure and got red and just smiled and said "wow, no wonder why you rock my world!" I will always remember this line. I could see her thoughts running through her head, she just started oral, and we had some of the most awesome sex we have had.
We talked about it after, she said she just thought i was average, but she didn't care much. She said she just thought average(a bit skewed) was plenty big. I don't really see myself as big, just on the bigger side of average (lpsg reminds me all the time), but now she thinks i am just big. She just said she is just luckier than she thought.
well, this whole situation left me with mixed emotions. I am happy she has a more accurate view of my penis, and she has been more playful these last couple days. But it left me thinking about why she saw it as small.
My thoughts were that she saw penis looked average because of my overall frame, which i'm 6'2 230 pounds, not super fit, but not too overweight. I have big hands and feet. She is 5'10 or 5'11, i forget, and she is what you consider a tall woman. She is pretty fit, but tall, and she has big hands for a girl, just due to her frame. I always have felt rather small, but my inches were always at 7 from my teenage years, which i think is why i originally came across this site, my feeling of small. I came at peace with it, thinking it is just me overthinking or what not, and all the porn i watch are from smaller frame guys with even longer penises, so proportion they just look so huge. I kind of thought it was just me, so the feeling of small are coming back a bit, but along with the feeling of my wife being satisfied and proud of my length....so it's an odd feeling.
I was wondering if anyone has encountered similar feeling or situation?
