Wife thought i was smaller

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How big is your Dick if you don't mind me asking, you look well above average considering your height, very thick, seeing how big your frame is, I wonder what your measurements are, I look very similar to you, but you look bigger.


Its a little over 8 and I've never officially measured girth but I'm assuming somewhere around 6
 

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Well I can do some input from another woman's perspective... don't be too offended by this, if you were her first then she probably has really never had much of an idea about what cock size is 'average' and what isn't...

The first guy I ever slept with was tiny, but I had no clue as to whether or not that was normal. Then my second boyfriend was probably only average too, but I thought he was actually big lol compared to my first bf. So...really perception is all about what you've seen/experienced and what you haven't...

And I honestly have no idea in terms of inches or whatever is average or not cos I've never measured a cock and I've never asked a guy what measurement he is haha. So I only know if it's big or small or average or whatever...just by looking at it or feeling it haha.

Anyway..dunno if that helped or not but I tried explaining anyway lol.

Thank you. The first girl I had sex with (h.s. g.f.) had the opposite experience--After me she had a couple of b.f.s who were larger than average, then had a run of normal-to-small guys. A few years later we met up again and she told me that I had "ruined her expectations".
 

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When I met my wife we were teenagers and she claimed to have had sex with a guy that had a 10 incher. She later said I am bigger than him so she has ,as most women, no concept of actual measured size or she is lying
 

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My Gran always used to say to marry a woman with small hands.

It makes your cock look bigger.

Because she is tall for a woman, she may have a complex that people will think she has a big vagina. By being satisfied by what she thinks of as average or even a bit smaller, she may be reinforcing her wish that she isn't big. Tell her she's snug and tight for you.

I had a GF who was adamant that no one she knew, knew my size. It was almost obsessive, clothes, swimming trunks etc were censored. Eventually i got her to explain and she simply said "Everyone will think I have a huge cunt."

I dumped her because she had a huge cunt.

:biggrin1: Only joking.

She had no tits.

Jesus, I'm home with a bad cold and just skimmed your post. I totally missed the middle part and thought at the end you were still talking about your grandmother. Yikes!
 

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Its a little over 8 and I've never officially measured girth but I'm assuming somewhere around 6

Your penis only pics look massive, but body pics you look big, but not as massive, so I think proportions do play a big part...at the end of the day, your cock is still huge an well please a woman as such.
 

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Just wanted to do an update. Since, my wife has measured me, she has been more active, giving me awesome blow jobs. it definitely is a mental thing, she has always enjoyed having sex, seems she enjoys it more and more often. I attached a recent picture of her giving me a bj, it is my first time posting any pics, but thought it might help if you see the relational size. Overall I'm really happy this measurement came up.
 

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she has ,as most women, no concept of actual measured size

If it's not an oddly angled photo or if I'm seeing one in real life I can pretty damn accurately guess the size. I review sex toys (and porn and lingerie and other things) and I measure the dildos, etc., so I can give accurate details in the reviews. I know a fair few other women who can accurately guess a man's size (roughly, I'm not saying I could go, oh, that's a 6.5258" girth or some shit like that) too. Just because some people are bad at guessing measurements/size doesn't mean all women are. :rolleyes:

As to the OP, if she hasn't slept with any other men, it's not surprising that she thinks you're average. If you only have one partner and porn as your basis...
 
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When I met my wife we were teenagers and she claimed to have had sex with a guy that had a 10 incher. She later said I am bigger than him so she has ,as most women, no concept of actual measured size or she is lying

Funny. I've had similar experience where girls had misconception of size, due to other guys lying or not correcting them on their size.

1) A friend's GF at the time (now ex-gf) were fucking, and she later came out of the bedroom, and said "I just measured ___ and he was like 9in. long...I couldn't believe it, I was way off what I guessed. So you must be around the same size... and yours is thicker from what I remember." We had a 3some with her, and were pretty close, which is how she knew my size.

I told her I thought she measured wrong, likely along the bottom of shaft, and she said she did. I told her the right way to measure was along the top, and that I was only 7" long (measured properly), which meant he was that size or smaller (he had a little less length and girth). She couldn't believe it, since he didn't correct her. To her, my friend wasn't the biggest she had, but she still thought he was big, due to bad measuring.

2) My GF around the time we first met and started sleeping together, told me she had said I was "big/thick" and "well endowed" to her close friends when they asked after first time we slept together. We were pretty open about past sex partners and talked about anything, so I knew she had some guys that were longer than me - as well as some that were average, small, and even one guy she said was tiny (literally the size of her finger and almost as thin).

One day she mentioned that a common female friend was dating a guy that was hung (supposedly 8"+), and we got to talking about size of some friends I was going to hook her up with that were bigger than me.
She asked "How big are you? Have you measured it before?" I replied "Yes. Guess. How big do you think?" She thought and said "I don't know. Not sure. I guess...around 6 in...maybe a little bigger or smaller. I don't know". I took her ruler out, and had her measure it, and she said "7 inches Wow. Really? I didn't know what to guess, but 6 inches is half of a ruler and that seems big." To her big just felt big, and wasn't a specific measure.

Two examples showing common things that lead to misconception of size.
 

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Just wanted to do an update. Since, my wife has measured me, she has been more active, giving me awesome blow jobs. it definitely is a mental thing, she has always enjoyed having sex, seems she enjoys it more and more often. I attached a recent picture of her giving me a bj, it is my first time posting any pics, but thought it might help if you see the relational size. Overall I'm really happy this measurement came up.



She looks stacked :smile:
 

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ur ok bud. dont even worry about ur size, ur good. ur wife likes it and shes happy. Share happiness with her :)

get rid of ur doubt, u know ur above average and more towards big ! dont let anyone tell u otherwise.
 

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Reminds me of a funny story. My wife told me a joke I had heard before once that goes like:
"Why do women have poor depth perception?"
"I dunno, why?"
"Because they're told their whole lives that this is 6 inches."

And the joke is, when you deliver the punch line you're supposed to hold your fingers about 4 inches apart. But when my wife told the joke I said, "sweetie, that IS six inches." She looked down at her hands and said, "oh...boy am I spoiled."
 

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When I met my wife we were teenagers and she claimed to have had sex with a guy that had a 10 incher. She later said I am bigger than him so she has ,as most women, no concept of actual measured size or she is lying

Disclaimer, this is a joke:


This is why women have difficulties being engineers/architects - Women are told that 5 inches is 10 inches for so long that when they see a 6 incher, it must be 14 inches. Then they sleep with a guy that is 7 inches and they get depressed because his 19 inch cock didn't bruise her kidneys - which must mean-- she is fat.

I just feel fortunate enough to be married to a woman that has a friend that dated a guy who was 9 inches - and we have all seen his goods, so I must be around 15inches.

-- oh, and you will never, never - ever be able to find a ruler in our home.
 

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Haha true!

Funny thing happen today, she apparently forgot how long I was. it came up again and she said she forgot what we measured at. she said six I said seven, she said no......so we brought out the tape.....seven. I guess she doesn't care about the number at all, since she forgot after a couple months. so, I guess some girls just either like it or not, numbers irrelevant. Butask so important to us.
 

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We married as virgins at 19 and 17. We have never had another person, of the same sex so I don't know how she compares to other women, as far as tightness, nor so I think she know that I am bigger and especially a lot thicker than most men. I like what she has, it is surly tight enough, and she is happy with mine. we have talked about size before and she is aware that there are some huge dicks out there and that I ma by far not the biggest but I do wonder if she appreciates my size since she has no other comparison
 

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I had an exactly opposite experience. Lol My GF's is a small woman, 5' even and about 100 lbs. Her one and only experience in high school was with a boy the size of her very dainty pinky finger; tampons were bigger, she said. Needless to say when we hooked up in college my average 6" surprised her and she has since told all her friend I am the biggest thing on the planet! Despite my protest that I am not that big and that there are bigger. I am terified she will find out one day and will be disappointed. :/
 

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Well I can do some input from another woman's perspective... don't be too offended by this, if you were her first then she probably has really never had much of an idea about what cock size is 'average' and what isn't...
Precisely, a girl who has experienced only one penis has no concept of size in relation to others. Therefore, if she says you are small/average she is guessing, nothing more.

In reality you're a little bit bigger, it was just her ideas of what a big penis is, which is actually what a huge penis is.

If it satisfies her as much as she says, and she has been faithful, it sounds like you have the perfect relationship.